For a long time, I felt like a person with a lack of self-confidence.
I was always dissatisfied with how well I had done my job, even though my colleagues would persuade me to tell me that I was doing a good job.
Even the customer leaders nodded, but I still didn't believe it and insisted that I didn't do well.
At the same time, Xiao Wang at the next workstation also felt that he was not doing very well, and others also comforted him and said that he was doing well, and he gladly accepted it, thinking that he was doing well.
Who do you think is more confident?
The essence of self-confidence is to have a stable core of self.
I feel that my own standards are standards, and no matter how hard others try, they can't change my mind.
In this way, I am actually called "confident", and I am very "confident".
I always thought that you had to be confident in everything you do, but now it seems that this idea is wrong.
Self-confidence is usually the result of getting things done. It doesn't matter if success comes from strength or luck.
But if you put the cart before the horse, you must first cultivate self-confidence if you want to succeed, and you will be required to succeed.
Secondly, the perception of self may be worthless, and the idea that has not been verified by the market is self-deception.
Don't be blindly confident, listen to the opinions of multiple parties, then quickly enter the game for trial and error, and then constantly adjust your strategy based on realistic feedback.
Until you do the "little things" and get the actual result, no matter how small it is. It's like a stake smashed into with a hammer, and no one can shake you when the foundation is tamped.
Because the time you put in is real, and it is obtained through actual battles and small victories.
Long-lasting and in-depth grinding in an area can lead to a sense of control, competence, certainty and true self-confidence.
In "Soldier Assault", the company commander Gao Cheng commented on Xu Sanduo: I know a person.
Every time he does a little thing.
He clung to it like a life-saving straw.
One day I looked at Hello Guys.
He was holding the towering tree that I was already looking up to.
Xu Sanduo's road is very narrow, for him, he is wooden, he can't speak, and his brain is not good. He has no second choice but to seize every only opportunity in his life like a life-saving straw.
I'm like Xu Sanduo. Mu Ne, no education, no eloquence, it is estimated that he will not be able to be a manager in this life, he cannot invest, he can only do research and development, and he is at the grassroots level.
If I'm not angry, I can find many reasons. Complaining about society, complaining about my parents, complaining about my boss, why does it matter if other colleagues arrive late and leave early every day, and I have to do the work they don't do?
But if you struggle with all of this, waste your time, and think about what will happen to you in the end? Remorse is the most useless thing in this world.
I'm starting to get serious. Learn to take things seriously, and doing every little thing well is to save yourself.