What do you often say to your children? Wait a minute or hurry! Or don't! In fact, these words not only do not help communication, but also make the parent-child relationship worse and worse.
The following 10 recommended sentences to tell your children often can guide their strengths and strengths, and help them develop an optimistic and confident personality. Start practicing today!
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Say this to your child often: 1. How are you doing today?
Remember to chat with your child every day, especially the first sentence, you may wish to ask, how was your day doing? Is there anything interesting going on? Encouraging your child to express themselves and remember not to interrupt or blame them can help you get to know your child better and get them used to sharing what they have been through with you. This will not only promote the parent-child relationship, but also avoid future incidents outside the home, and be able to tell parents bravely.
Say this phrase to your child 2: I'm glad you're my child.
Children are here to test the patience of their parents, although we understand this truth, but still often lose their temper! So, if your child is mischievous at every turn, if you are too harsh, your child may feel that you don't love him, so be sure to tell them gently and gently: let's clean up together!At the same time, be sure to tell them clearly: Mommy is very happy, you are my child.
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Say this phrase to your child often3: Remember to say thank you.
If you want your child to be spontaneous, remember to encourage them often! In addition to slowly training them to do it themselves, Mom may wish to remember to say: Let's put away the toys together, do you remember how fast you collected them last time? Convince your child of their own power by reminding them of their successes. Especially when you ask your child to help with household chores, you must remember to say thank you, and your child will remember this positive feedback and will be more willing to take the initiative to help.
Say this phrase to your child 4: You can.
Many things are strange to children! As an adult, you must not stimulate him with words: What is there to be afraid of? Why can't you learn? We should tell him to be brave enough to overcome his fears, and we can also share our experiences with our children to teach them to face the challenges of life.
Say this phrase to your child often5: What do you want to do?
Do you often tell your children that listening to me is right! You know? Once parents often make choices for their children, children will only grow up to be more passive, dependent, and even vulnerable to manipulation. So, let your child have the right to choose, let him think carefully about what he wants, and don't be afraid to reject suggestions that go against his interests or expectations in the future.
Say this phrase 6 to your child often: Baby, I'm sorry.
It's not just children who make mistakes, but adults also make mistakes unconsciously. Therefore, parents should have the courage to admit when they do wrong, which can let children understand that their parents respect and cherish them very much, and at the same time, they must apologize and be forgiven when they do something wrong, so that they can remember the lessons and experiences.
Say this to your child often7: I know you're sad.
Don't suppress your child's emotions, adults will be angry with children, and of course children will too! When a child cries because his toy is missing, don't say: Don't cry! You can buy it again if you don't see it! This kind of words should understand the child's emotions and care: Your doll must be sad! It's okay, Mommy plays with you. Therefore, when children are sad, it is the job of parents to teach them to express their emotions without hurting others or themselves.
Say this phrase to your child often8: I will support you.
When a child loses a game, parents should say: No one will do it once! 、It's okay, try again!I believe in you, but let them realize that every successful person grows up by making mistakes, and that no matter whether they succeed or not, Mom and Dad will always be there for him and support him.
Say this phrase to your children often9: I am proud of you.
You fold your clothes so neatly! It's amazing that you put the toys away so quickly! Although it is only a few short words, it can instantly make your child feel your encouragement and boost his self-confidence. However, it should be reminded that when praising children, it is important to use clear things to praise their efforts, so that the child feels happy and forms a good experience, and the child will become more and more confident and optimistic.
Say this phrase to your child often10: Baby, I love you.
I love you, these 3 words are simple, but they have magical power for children. In addition to spending a little more time with their children every day, playing more, hugging more, and chatting more, the most important thing is to remember to say to their children every day: Baby, I love you!
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