During the Chinese New Year, we can understand the sophistication of people and see the true colors of people's hearts.
Someone on Zhihu raised a question: "Why do many people usually have a good relationship, but they quarrel when it comes to the Chinese New Year?" This question triggered me to think about the special juncture of human nature in the Chinese New Year. The Chinese New Year is a mirror of human nature, allowing us to see the sophistication of human feelings and gain insight into the true nature of people's hearts.
Gift-giving meets the level of people, and during the New Year's holidays, gift-giving has become a tradition. However, the way and attitude of gift-giving reveal a person's level and character. Xiaomi's story teaches us that attitudes towards different people can reflect a person's true face. In this process, the degree of sincerity and commitment is far more important than the value of the gift. Therefore, we need to keep our eyes open, see the true nature of the people around us, and choose to be the company of sincere and kind people.
Money is often the touchstone for testing human nature. The plot in the TV series "Big River" tells us that people surround us when they are in power, and they will be far away from us when they lose power. During the Chinese New Year, the money issues involved in the party conversation can test people's sincerity and integrity. Therefore, we must learn to discern those who are mercenary, and cherish those who understand true friendship and affection.
At the dinner table, people's behavior at the dinner table can reflect their self-cultivation and demeanor. In something as trivial as eating, we can see whether a person is considerate and respectful. For example, Ji Xianlin's attitude towards his subordinates is a good example. Not only does he respect others, but he is also considerate of others. Therefore, we should pay attention to the behavior of the people around us at the dinner table to understand their conduct and cultivation.
Drinking is a matter of character, and drunken performance can often reveal a person's true nature. Ma Weidu's control over wine and his ability to maintain a sober attitude set a good example for us. In the drinking party, we should learn to control our behavior in order to screen out real friends. Because only a sober person can see people's hearts clearly, and true friendship can be verified after drinking.
In conclusion, Chinese New Year is a good time to review relationships. Through insight into the world, we can better choose the friends around us and cherish sincere friendship. In the new year, let's embrace the separation and spend a good time together with a transparent mind. Finally, I would like to ask you if you have any similar experiences during the Chinese New Year, and welcome to share your stories and feelings.