Some feelings, no matter how hard you work, you just can't reap happiness? When two people who are not in step walk together, one drags the other, the one in front is tired, and the one in the back complains. In fact, two people who are destined to resist each other often have several things in common with each other. 
01. Restless in the heartI always like to compare with others, I am restless in my heart, I envy the lives of others, and I ignore how I should live my own life. But if there is a family of two, there is a person who is restless in his heart, always complains about the sky, has a high spirit, and feels that he should not suffer the hardships of life. Never find your own problems, blindly complain about each other, and what you say is something that pokes people's scars. If you get along with each other like this, you will definitely get more and more tormented. A person who is restless in his heart will not be satisfied with the status quo, and he will not be satisfied with how much you pay for him! is never satisfied, driven by greed, even if two people can live together, they are not on the same road, and they make do with it. 
02. We can't share joys and sorrowsWhen people are humble, they can see the truth of the world and human conditions most clearly. In fact, husband and wife get along, isn't it like this? depends on whether the relationship between the two people is deep or not, not how they get along on weekdays, but their respective choices in the wind and rain. "Husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes", some couples have not experienced particularly big tribulations, and a little bump in life can make each other break up. People who can't share weal and woe will become passers-by sooner or later, and their feelings for each other are also mixed with hypocrisy! 
03. Too selfishWe are all selfish people, and many times, when we face the strife and storm of life, we are accustomed to thinking from our own point of view. In fact, this habit is a common way of thinking, and it is understandable. We can think of ourselves, but we can't be selfish. If two people get along, one of them always harms others and benefits themselves, always consumes others, blindly takes, and does not know how to be grateful, then the relationship will not last long. Any relationship is to go to each other, especially when husband and wife get along, they must go to one place and work together. Instead of a person carrying a weight forward, a person watching the play on the sidelines. Don't be too selfish, know how to think about each other, get along comfortably, and feelings will be strong.