I think the most rewarding thing to pursue in life, and the most difficult and challenging, is to overcome yourself. Such a victory is not only endlessly satisfying, but also brings true meaning and value to life. However, it is not easy to truly overcome yourself. It takes effort and persistence, not ease and simplicity. However, if you can truly win yourself, your life will be better and better. It is a sensual experience that cannot be described in words. How can I win myself? I think that you must cultivate with your heart and be a person who does not fight, fight, and is not angry, so that you can truly win yourself. Don't always be immersed in comparing yourself to others, but let go of these constraints and think and feel from the depths of your heart, so that you can find where you belong. 
Indisputable, there is also your own world water, with its indisputable characteristics of moisturizing things, reaching the ultimate state of life. However, in this noisy world, our hearts are impetuous, and we are always fighting for fame and profit. We need to learn water, abandon the nature of strife, cultivate ourselves, and reach the pinnacle of life. There isn't much to fight for in life, because fighting for it and eventually everything will dissipate. What is destined will come at any time; What does not belong to you, no matter how much you fight, you will not be able to get it. It's better to follow your inner feelings, and don't be too entangled in gains and losses. Time flies, what should come will always come, and what should go will eventually leave. Strife does not bring tranquility, it only makes the mood irritable and life no longer peaceful. If you love to quarrel, your heart will become chaotic and your life will become unpeaceful. Only by not fighting can we spend our lives calmly and elegantly. Life can be fought for, but it can also be not. Even if you don't fight with others, you can still have your own world. As a quote from "Life and Death" says, "I don't disdain to fight anyone." "You don't have to compete with others, you just have to be true to your heart, and you can have your own world. 
Not comparable, happiness is so natural that we all have vanity, and we always have to compare with others. But compared to each other, we will never win. Because there are always people who are better than us, and there are always people who are not as good as us. It's important that we do our best and be the best version of ourselves. Don't dwell on unnecessary comparisons, but focus on your own growth. Compared with people who are better than you, you will have low self-esteem, and compared with people who are not as good as you, you will be proud, this is not a good life mentality, only not comparable, is the best life mentality. Yang Jiang once said: "No matter what height you rise to in life, there will always be people looking up and people looking down." Looking up and feeling inferior, bowing your head and being complacent, is not real. Only by looking at eye level can you see your true self. From this sentence, we can see that to know ourselves correctly, we can neither be arrogant and complacent, nor be too inferior. We must learn to accurately recognize and grasp our own value with a level-headed attitude. We should not over-compare ourselves with others, but learn to accept our own shortcomings. Only in this way can we have a heart to guard ourselves, walk our own path, and finally obtain our own happiness. 
If you are not angry, you will be in a good mood in life, and your mood should be stable, because being angry is the least worthwhile. Being angry will only make you angry and hurt yourself. It's a stupid thing to do, and it's the equivalent of punishing yourself for someone else's mistakes. Let us learn to have a heart of forgiveness and release our inner resentment and resentment, because this will make us happier and healthier. Sometimes, we get angry at someone else's mistakes. But come to think of it, it wasn't our fault. We shouldn't be angry at someone else's mistakes. In fact, what makes us angry is that we care too much about ourselves and go too far to our hearts. Let us learn to let go of the grievances and resentments of the past and work towards the bright future. In this way, we can make our lives more attractive. Perhaps you've heard of the "empty ship theory", which means that when an empty ship collides with another ship, those who encounter it are angry. However, when they find out that there is no one on the ship, the anger dissipates. This is the other side of human nature, we may be angry for some small reasons, but when we understand the situation, we become tolerant and understanding. Let's have a tolerant heart and make the world a better place. Many times, we choose to be angry, but we often get angry at people instead of things. If we can concentrate on solving the problem, we will find that there is really nothing to be angry about. Dealing with things with a rational and calm attitude is a better way to not only ease emotions but also help us solve problems better. 
If you don't care, your troubles will be gone, and I am convinced that most of our troubles are self-inflicted. We are always comparing ourselves with others, complaining, doubting, and in this way, our troubles are endless. But in fact, such consequences are caused by ourselves. So, if there's anything to blame, blame yourself. Life is too short, don't worry too much. The more careless, the less troubles there are. Don't care about your family, and your family affection is stronger; Don't care about your lover, love is deeper; Don't care about friends, friendship is more precious. Let go of scheming, and your heart can be broader. Let's cherish each other and enjoy the beauty of life. On the contrary, if you persist in worrying about your family, loved ones, or friends, you will find that you have lost your most precious things and gained endless worries and anxieties. Therefore, we should try to focus on more important things and cherish the people and things we have to make our lives more meaningful. Really, when you are dealing with other people, especially the important people in your life, whether you win or lose, you actually lose. You don't lose to someone else, you lose to yourself. Instead of paying such a price, it is better to be tolerant, understanding and loving with others to welcome a better life. 
Life is short, don't fight and compare, don't be angry and calculated. Fighting only wastes time, comparison only brings trouble, anger only hurts oneself, and calculation only brings endless irritability. We should cherish what we have in front of us, live a relaxed life, and not let the chaos disturb our hearts. Why fight in life, why compare, why be angry, why care. If you can really not fight, not compare, not be angry, and not care, then you have already won; What you win is inner freedom and peace. What is more meaningful and valuable in life than winning yourself? What do you think? May you be positive and optimistic and have a good time!