Who said that life can't be spoken, just know how to keep the measure, don't break it down easily, leave a way out for everyone, and let yourself have a way out, you can keep your peace of mind and not embarrass the other party. This is the attitude we should adhere to in life. In life, there is a kind of cultivation called silent bearing, although it is silent, but in my heart I am well versed in the various states of life. We need to understand that to remain silent does not mean not to speak, but to know how to silently guard at certain times, more powerful than words. This is true of life, and so is life. We learn to speak in three years and shut up in our whole life, so it can be seen that knowing how to shut up is more important than being able to speak. Expressive ability is a skill, but it needs to be honed with the heart to improve. Not only that, but it also requires the ascension of realm and wisdom in order to reach a higher level. In any case, we should have this ability. 
1. Seeing a person clearly and not saying it is a kind of wisdom Sometimes, we see the shortcomings of others, don't say it, just remember it silently in our hearts. Speaking out will only cause trouble for yourself and maybe hurt others. So, instead of hurting each other, let's make ourselves more mature and tolerant, after all, we are not perfect. No matter what kind of person someone else is, as long as you know it in your heart, it's fine. Don't make a big deal about it, don't speak ill of people, it will only create a new enemy for yourself. I'd rather dedicate my time and energy to doing something meaningful to make myself happier and more positive. Always keep a kind heart and enjoy the beauty and joy of life. See through a person and don't speak lightly, because words may bring bad results. Silence is a sign of wisdom. Only in this way can you get inner peace. 
2. Seeing through one thing and not saying it, this is a kind of cultivation, what I am most afraid of is that I can't control my mouth, I have to talk about everything, I always want to prove how smart I am, how powerful I am, and how much I can say. In fact, people who are really smart, really powerful, and really good at communicating tend to be more silent, because they know that some words can get out of control once they are spoken. Therefore, they choose not to say it, and this is the smartest choice. Some things, after precipitation and thinking, may have better solutions and better results. Listening is wisdom, and being silent is wisdom. Recognizing one thing without saying anything requires profound cultivation, and only the extraordinary can achieve it. Only by cultivating one's mind and staying away from impetuousness can one climb the peak and understand the true meaning of life. 
3. Don't say it when you are wronged, this is a kind of maturityWhen you feel wronged, do you have a strong desire in your heart? Longing to have a warm shoulder to rely on to confide in, longing to find someone who understands you and accompanies you through difficulties. In fact, when you are wronged, you must learn to be silent, because silence is the best way to tell, because no one can understand your grievances. In this world, we need to understand that no one can truly empathize with your feelings. Even if you feel aggrieved and painful, only you can truly understand. If you complain to others, you are likely to be ridiculed and not understood. Conversely, if you choose to digest it yourself, you will become more mature. It's a necessary lesson in life, and with learning it, you'll become stronger and more independent. 
4. Don't say it when you are misunderstood, this is a kind of openness and purity, and turbidity. When others misunderstand you, don't rush to argue, stay silent and allow time to prove the truth. In this world, we can't control other people's thoughts and actions, but we can control our own mindset and reactions. Believe in yourself and have no hesitation, and the truth will eventually be revealed. You know, some people will misunderstand you, no matter what you say, no matter what you say, if you say it again, they will still misunderstand you. Unless you can prove your innocence, you'd better keep quiet. Believe in yourself, but also understand that sometimes words speak louder than words. Don't fool yourself for the sake of momentary unpleasantness. There is no need to say it, it doesn't have to admit or compromise, it is enough to have a clear heart. What has been done is done, and if it is not done, it is not done, this is the simplest and simplest thing. 
5. Don't say it in front of trivial things, this is a kind of literacy A person without a pattern, no matter what he sees, he will only see the side of trivial things; And a person who lacks literacy will always drill the horns of the bull, worry about some small things, and even talk endlessly. Only people who are rich in pattern and literacy in their hearts can see the whole picture of things and grasp the true meaning of life. The trivial things in life, small but inevitable. We should learn to detach, turn them into trivial things, downplay their effects, keep ourselves calm and clear, and move on. Life will be better. Whether it is the trivial matters of others or your own trivial matters, it is best not to say too much, because if you say too much, you will lose, not only will you have no meaning and value, but you will lose your literacy. Let's replace boring conversations with silence. 
6. Don't say it when you're angry, it's a kind of choiceWhen you're angry, you often like to say some cruel words, which are most likely to hurt others and yourself, and increase regret and regret for yourself. When a person is in a state of anger, it is best to remain silent and not express emotions easily. This is the wisest choice because sometimes, we can hurt ourselves or others by speaking. However, remaining silent is not an easy task, and it requires patience and willpower to restrain our impulses. Allowing time to calm down and then think and deal with the problem may be the best way to solve the problem. We can see that when we are angry, choosing to remain silent actually requires a lot of cultivation and tolerance, and even some patience. Such a choice can only be made by people who are not simple. 
There is a kind of cultivation called silence, which is often silent but can convey a strong attitude. Not to say is to make a statement, because silence is also a way of speaking. We strive to be right, but we ignore that if one sentence is wrong, it is equivalent to ten words right. Therefore, silence is about allowing yourself to truly speak and convey the truest convictions of your heart. It is wisdom to remain silent, and if you say too much, you will lose it. Know how to control the amount of speech, and it is better to speak less. It's easy to get into trouble if you talk too much. Try not to say it if you can, and be cautious if you have to. After all, quiet people tend to have more depth of thought and charisma. Silence is not the wisdom of not saying a word about everything, but the wisdom of knowing when to be silent. This is not only a technique of silence, but also an important aspect of one's practice. We need to understand this sentence well. May you be positive and optimistic and have a good time!