Yao Gang, 52, was born and grew up in an ordinary family in Dalian. Both parents are employees in the system, and their lives are plain but warm and stable. Since he was a child, Yao Gang has shown intelligence and talent beyond his peers, and his parents are proud of both his studies and hobbies. 
At the age of 6, Yao began to learn the violin. When he plays the piano, he always attracts a large group of little girls to watch and cheer. The girls often send sweets and small gifts to express their affection. But Yao Gang was tired of such attention, and left in a hurry after playing the piano, never accepting any gifts from the girls, let alone playing with them. His withdrawn personality has been evident since childhood. At the age of 10, Yao Gang became obsessed with singing. His good friend Sun Nan has a very high talent for singing, and Yao Gang is always obsessed when he listens to him sing. He begged his parents to let him learn to sing, but in the teacher's evaluation, Yao Gang's singing voice was not outstanding and he was not suitable for developing as a singer. 
This became Yao Gang's first setback. However, Yao Gang, who is extremely passionate about art, is not discouraged. From the beginning of middle school, he turned to a strong interest in acting. After school, he no longer plays the violin or sings, but goes to the local amateur troupe to watch the performances of old artists, and even signs up for acting training at his own expense. This became the first important turning point in Yao Gang's life. When Yao Gang was 22 years old, his parents formally and explicitly asked him to marry for the first time. As the only child in the family, his parents are naturally very concerned about Yao Gang's future marriage. 
Especially her mother, she began to instill in Yao Gang the importance of starting a family as soon as possible, vividly depicting the bleak scene of a lonely family, hoping that her son could find a life partner as soon as possible. However, at this time, Yao Gang was on the rise in his acting career. He has just played supporting roles in several TV series, and is gradually accumulating popularity, and opportunities in all aspects are also increasing. For him, who is young and ambitious, the show business has just begun, and getting married and having children is a thousand miles away. Therefore, he did not pay any attention to his parents' requests in the left ear and in the right ear. 
Seeing that the persuasion was fruitless, the parents did not force it, but just mentioned a few words from time to time, hoping that Yao Gang would remember this important event. After that, every once in a while, they would bring it up again without any interruption. And Yao Gang always copes with the past lukewarmly, and continues to devote himself to his acting career. has been repeated like this for more than ten years, and the urging of parents to marry seems to have become a commonplace, but Yao Gang's position has never wavered. In the urging of his parents to get married, Yao Gang has accumulated popularity and fame in the film and television industry step by step. From the first few TV series, he gradually transitioned into film and began to take on more important roles. 
The staff and co-actors who have become familiar with the crew also made him feel a sense of belonging that he had never felt before. At the age of 35, Yao Gang finally ushered in the first highlight moment of his life. The role of the company commander he played in a war drama was loved by the audience, but he was already a supporting role, but he stole the limelight and became famous for a while. Since then, Yao Gang's salary and resources have been increasing. More exciting and changeable roles also followed, making his acting skills more and more perfect. Recently, Yao Gang played the role of the second male lead "Dai Li" in the hit drama "Latent"**, and the response to the show was unprecedented, and the villain role of "Dai Li" made countless audiences hate itchy. 
However, this also allowed Yao Gang's acting career to reach a new peak. The box office in which he participated has repeatedly reached new highs, and the salary is so generous that it is eye-popping. Now Yao Gang is one of the most powerful actors in the film and television industry. He owns luxury items such as villas and sports cars, as well as his own studio and agency. For the first time in his life, he truly stood at the pinnacle of his life and enjoyed the fruits of his successful career. At this time, his parents' urging for him to get married and have children seemed to be a little lighter. Just when Yao Gang's career was in full swing, he suffered another major blow on the road of life. At the age of 50, Yao Gang's father died of illness. As the only son in the family, the death of his father is undoubtedly a heavy grief. 
Yao Gang rushed back to his hometown to mourn, and witnessed his father's sleeping appearance on the mourning hall, and at this moment, his tears rained down. After the funeral, Yao Gang accompanied his mother through the most difficult time of the first year. In the early months, he would often return to the old house in the dead of night and talk to him as if his father were still alive. Every time he thought that he would never see his father again, Yao Gang's eyes turned red. The mother was equally grief-stricken, and her only reliance was on her son. A year later, the mother's mood gradually stabilized. However, she became more and more worried about Yao Gang's marriage. 50-year-old Yao Gang is still single, which can be said to be extremely unusual in an ordinary family. 
The mother is worried about her son's situation day and night, and she wants him to find his other half quickly. Her anxiety deepened day by day, and she no longer mentioned her father, as if Yao Gang's marriage or not had become a new concern. In this regard, Yao Gang also felt helpless. Soon after his father's death, he was urged to marry by his mother, which made him a little difficult to accept. But thinking that his mother is also for his own good, Yao Gang also understands where her anxiety comes from. Faced with an increasingly anxious mother, Yao Gang made his own choice – to continue to stick to his life as he has for the past 30 years. He made it clear to his mother that he had the right to choose his wife, and that he would not act rashly because he was urged. 
The right person has not yet appeared, and he can continue to wait, even if he does not marry for life. At first, the mother begged her son to start a family, and she was worried that Yao Gang would have no support in his later years. But Yao Gang's attitude is resolute, his mother is anxious, and his life is still up to him. Gradually, the mother also realized that her son was a responsible and independent person, and her worries only increased his worries. So, the mother changed her method and began to introduce her girlfriend to Yao Gang. She collected a lot of ** and asked her son to choose the person he liked to contact. 
But Yao Gang was not interested in any of these women, because ** couldn't get in touch with him in person after all, and he couldn't see his bosom friend from it. After struggling again and again, my mother could only give up for the time being. In fact, the single life did not make 52-year-old Yao Gang feel lonely or empty. He can still find joy in his work and have his own career and circle of friends. Although he occasionally imagines married life, so far, his single status is still his first choice.
Today, the 52-year-old Yao Gang has a successful career and is one of the most popular and powerful actors in the film and television industry. He owned a beautiful RV and lived an enviable and affluent life. There are constantly excellent works winning major film and television awards, and the future is bright. It can be said that life is above the top. Still, Yao Gang is occasionally plagued by a question: how to balance career and family? At the age of 50, he is still unmarried, and perhaps in another ten years, the best age to get married and have children will be gone. As soon as he thought of this, Yao Gang felt as if an important part of his life was missing.
What made him even more faintly heartbroken was his mother's anxiety. Every time he returned to his hometown, he could feel his mother's eagerness to marry him off. Even though she failed thousands of times, the sadness and disappointment never disappeared on her mother's face. Her psychological burden has gradually become a thorn in Yao Gang's life. Yao Gang knew that he had reached the age of choice. Career is like a spring breeze, but can the loss of feelings be compensated for with money and fame? The answer to this question is still uncertain. Perhaps, this requires Yao Gang to spend more time exploring and feeling, and finding a real way out of this predicament. All in all, the 52-year-old Yao Gang is still doing well, but his inner struggles and anxieties may be worse than they seem. We also hope that this senior actor in the film and television industry can find his true happiness. February** Dynamic Incentive Program