It is said that only mothers are good in the world, but it also depends on what kind of mother you meet. A good mother is really good to her children, and there is no one who doesn't care about her children when she eats, drinks and has fun, but my mother is wonderful, and she doesn't want to spend it on me if she has money, and even gives it to my sister and brother-in-law, and says that I am a loser.
Let's hear the story of our family.
I'm 34 years old and still single, not because I don't want to find a partner, it's because my mom I'm too lazy to find a partner.
When I was young, people wore neat and clean clothes, but my clothes were tattered, a pair of jeans for several days, and the trouser legs were torn and long gaps, and my mother wouldn't sew them for me.
My classmates all praised me for my simple score, but who could know that it wasn't my simple score, but my mother didn't care about me.
In my impression, my mother only has money, and she gets into the eyes of money every day, and she is very energetic, and she forces my father to work, and pua my father every day, telling my father that if he doesn't make money, it is unreliable to expect his children to be old when he is old.
My father listened to my mother, and sometimes he refuted, but it was almost useless, because my mother's personality could not be changed at all.
When I was in junior high school, I didn't do well in school, so I dropped out, and it was when I went out into the world for the first time and thought about what I wanted to do. I like to drive, and I hope my mother can give me money to learn how to drive.
But my mother didn't give me money, scolded me, disliked me, had no interest, couldn't study well, and had to learn what to drive.
At that time, my classmate had a small truck, and we had a good relationship, so I started practicing with his car, and my classmate was also relatively good, and always secretly drove out to teach me until I was taught.
After I finished my car studies, I wanted to pick up goods, but I didn't have a driver's license, so I asked my mom to give me some money and pay her back when I made money. Although she was very unhappy, she still gave me the money under the persuasion of her neighbors.
After I got my driver's license, I started earning money to support myself, first as a driver for others, then a loan to buy a car, and finally got a car of my own.
Later, when the money was almost earned, the car loan was repaid, so I studied half-hanging again, hoping to make more money, and it was a loan.
At this time, I have grown up, thinking that I have matured and I don't need my mother's money, I think my mother's attitude towards me can be better.
But as long as my mother sees me, she is a strong chatter, hoping that I will give her the money, and she will save for me to marry a daughter-in-law, afraid that I will spend it indiscriminately.
I'm a hundred unhappy with my mother's proposal, I'm already an adult, I can dispose of my own property, I'm not stupid, and I can't give my hard-earned money to others. That time, I drove away in a fit of rage, sometimes going home once a month, sometimes driving around the country and not going home.
To be honest, it's good to run on the road, and although I am uprooted and sometimes lonely, I can be free.
Perhaps, I have less and less contact with my mother, and my mother has begun to distance herself from me.
In the first two years, I caught up with the epidemic, and the work of driving a big car to pull goods was not easy to do, and the loan repayment of my car was becoming more and more laborious, in a hurry, I asked my mother to borrow some money, hoping that she could finally help me, but she not only did not help, but also scolded me for being a loser, if I listened to her at that time and handed over the money to her, I probably would not have spent my money.
As a big man, I didn't bother to explain to my mother, so I asked a friend to borrow some, but I still have a small car, I sold it for a second-hand one, and I swore that I would never talk to my mother again.
I don't know when, my mother and I seemed to be strangers, she hated me, and I didn't bother to deal with her. My mom is not educated, in my heart, she is just an antique, and I don't want to be like her.
But who would have thought that these are the results of someone behind the scenes and instigation.
On that day, I happened to be out of the car, and stayed at a friend's house for a while to go home, but as soon as I entered the door, I saw my sister and my brother-in-law arguing at home.
My brother-in-law said, "Look, listen to me, don't give him the money, won't you make money when you grow so big?" Do you have to point to your mother?
My sister should also be with: "He is just not filial and does not know how to be considerate of his parents." ”
I got angry after hearing this, and when I entered the house, I was furious: "You are the oldest, why should you care about my family's affairs if the woman who married out spilled the water!" And you, a broken son-in-law, use you to be in charge here! ”
My sister and brother-in-law looked at me fiercely, and no one dared to speak. That day, everyone's food was not finished, so I lifted a table of dishes.
I've been building up resentment in my heart for years, and now whoever can point fingers at me and participate in my life, why should they? And my mother, who listened to my sister and brother-in-law, looked down on me more and more.
Although I have been out all these years, I can hear gossip every time I come home, my mother and my father are illiterate, and every time I save money, I call my sister and brother-in-law **, and ask them to help save money, and every time I will give them a sum of money, I don't know how much, but my mother is too much.
Obviously, I have a son, and I used to go home often, why don't you tell me something, and wait for my sister and my brother-in-law to help him?
The more I thought about it, the more angry I became, I found such a mother, I don't want it! Anyway, if I have a daughter and aunt to support myself in the future, I don't need anything, I don't care what I do!
Write at the end:
In fact, the relationship between people and people is mutual, whether it is love or family affection, the closer the relationship, the more we should respect each other.
It is sad that a mother does not understand the thoughts of the child, and it is also sad that a child does not understand the mother's resentment everywhere, and a good parent-child relationship must understand each other and grow up with each other.
As a child, talk to your parents more when you have nothing to do, maybe they are lonely, as parents can also care more about their children, in fact, each of them has resentment in their hearts, and they all look forward to a good relationship, and this healthy relationship needs to be resolved by two people.
May there be no strict and selfish parents in the world, and may the children be healthy and happy, and truly practice the traditional virtue that you raise me and I raise you old.
Everyone's right?
Editor: Northern Zhizhi.
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