Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and going home for the New Year is everyone's heart's desire, and the reunion of relatives and friends makes this festival full of excitement and warmth. In this crowded New Year, the delicacy and exquisiteness of women have gradually become a bright color in family gatherings. And the phenomenon of flaunting wealth is also surging in this annual gathering.
Rong Rong, who has relatively superior conditions in the family, has become the most eye-catching focus of the whole place. Her in-laws' family owns two factories, and this wealth makes her stand out from the crowd. A glittering gold necklace, sparkling diamond stud earrings, and a priceless fur garb sparkle like a pearl. As the mother of two sons, she also spends a lot of money for her children, and the two children also wear brand-name clothes, and the eldest son Taotao is even more permed with fashionable curly hair, which is unique. However, Taotao's behavior reveals another side of him. During the party to celebrate the New Year, colorful balloons dot the living room, creating a cheerful festive atmosphere. These balloons became the darlings of the children, and as soon as a balloon was dropped, it immediately sparked a rush of snatching. One girl grabbed the balloon first, and the other children had to sigh. Tao Tao failed to snatch the balloon, his heart was extremely lost, and he asked for it without hesitation, but the girl was unmoved, so he pushed the girl down, took the balloon and destroyed it in a fit of anger. Even when his mother came to stop him, his anger did not subside, and he decisively destroyed the balloon on the wall, and his mouth continued to come out of his mouth with unbearable words, and he treated his mother with angry eyes. The relatives and friends present were all secretly angry, if it was their own children, I am afraid that they would have already taught a lesson. However, Taotao's mother could only explain awkwardly that the child was not like this on weekdays. Even if you have a lot of money, if you pass on such "wealth" to your son, it will be difficult to last for a long time. When her mother showed off her wealth, she made "Tao Tao's embarrassment" a shame for the family. Indeed, the failure of family education will make incompetent parents raise such children, and no matter how rich their wealth is, it is difficult to fill the internal void. The upbringing of children is a lifelong thing, and children are the hope of the family's future. Some parents may not have official positions and are not wealthy, but if they have an excellent child, they are the most proud. The highest level of "showing off wealth" is to raise a good child.
A child who has a respectful upbringing will be able to tell the story of others. Often we meet some "bear children", they believe in the reins, cut the line to take the lead, make fun of them, and when they are dissatisfied, they will be furious, and they will not distinguish between others. Respect for others is the foundation of etiquette, and this kind of education is not only hidden in the bone marrow, but also revealed in words and deeds. Parenting is a child's best business card and an important potential for future development. A kind and loving child can not only leave a good impression on family and friends, but also nourish the environment around him and bring happiness to others.
A child who can tolerate and cooperate will be able to have fun with all. Children who can adapt to group life must have their own strengths in order to live in harmony with others. Parents need to be considerate and impartial when educating their children. As the saying goes, "the prime minister can hold the boat in his belly", only by letting children have the quality of tolerance can they win the trust of others and have a broader future.
Children's growth is inseparable from family upbringing, respect, kindness, tolerance, and modesty are the excellent qualities that every parent hopes their children to have. A healthy and happy child is the greatest happiness of parents. And only by cultivating children's good qualities from an early age can they go wider and wider on the road in the future. In addition to showing off wealth, we should pay more attention to the cultivation of children's inner world, because the highest level of "showing off wealth" is to have an excellent child, who is the hope of the future and the pillars of society.