The trend of comparison in rural areas has intensified, which has brought many negative effects to rural people. Not buying a new car or building a new house seems to have become a part of rural life"Fall out of favor"。Invisibly, rural people have to spend a lot of money to meet the needs of comparison. It is precisely because of the existence of comparison that the relationship between rural people has become complicated, and mercenary has become the main theme of neighborly exchanges.
The experience of a neighbor working in a foreign country is a microcosm. In order to own a new car in the countryside, he did not hesitate to leave his hometown and work in the big city. Although the income is high, it also pays a lot of price. Separated from his family for a long time, the impact of family stability, and the raising of children have become problems he has to face. In order to save money to buy a car, his living conditions have become correspondingly poor, and he only eats some simple food every day. But in the end, when he saved enough money to buy a car, he bought a Baojun 310. However, due to his lack of driving experience, he encountered a lot of difficulties and challenges in the process of driving home.
The pressure of comparison comes not only from material needs, but also from the eyes and comments of others. Those who did not buy a car were called by the attack"Poor", and even being laughed at. The psychological pressure brought about by this comparison has caused many rural people to suffer. I have to admit that as far as the rural areas are concerned, this phenomenon of comparison is indeed worrying.
The reasons for the comparison in rural areas are different from those in urban areas. Factors such as land circulation in rural areas, large-scale migrant workers going out to work, and the rise of industry and commerce have directly promoted the popularity of rural comparison. First, the income from the transfer of rural land has increased the economic strength of the peasants, giving them more money at their disposal. Secondly, the rise of migrant workers has changed the worldview of rural villagers, they have more opportunities to contact, have a better understanding of things in the outside world, and in the process, they will also have a certain desire for comparison; Thirdly, the rise of the rural economy opened the eyes of the peasants to the opportunity of commerce, and those successful businessmen became the objects of their admiration.
For rural people, comparison is also an upward driving force. They find their own worth and sense of identity through comparison. Comparison is a way to show life and a means to show self-worth. Therefore, whether it is to win the respect of others or to satisfy their own vanity, rural people are willing to invest a lot to satisfy the desire to compare.
Comparison is not only an individual behavior, but also has a negative impact on the entire rural social relationship. Rural people are supposed to help each other and be close to each other, but the existence of comparison has changed this relationship. Compared with the past, rural people today are more concerned about personal interests and work independently, lacking a real unity and family affection.
Comparison is not only a psychological need, but also an economic burden. In order to meet the demand for comparison, many rural people have to borrow money to buy garages and fall into the quagmire of debt. The financial pressures of this comparison have left many families in a difficult situation.
The phenomenon of rural comparisons really worries me. Comparison not only brings about the loss of true unity and friendship, but also makes rural people fall into endless comparison competitions. The problem of face has become a major problem for rural people. However, I don't think living in a city will necessarily get out of this situation. Comparison is a universal emotion in people's hearts, whether in the countryside or in the city, but in different forms.
I think that the solution to comparison is not to escape from reality, but to have a clear understanding of yourself. A person's value should not be measured only by material things, and behind the comparison is more vanity and impetuousness. We should pay more attention to our inner cultivation and wisdom, and learn to be satisfied with the present life, rather than blindly pursuing superficial vanity.
Face is temporary, and the life of rural people depends on strength to speak. Only with a tolerant and sincere heart can we live with peace of mind and comfort in the world of comparison. In our village, solidarity and mutual help are an important part of our traditional virtues, and we strive to maintain this virtue and make our community more harmonious and happy.