An interesting question is: "Why are humans more advanced than other animals?" ”
A well-regarded answer is: "Because human beings are able to restrain their instincts while thinking about long-term gains." ”
Laziness and procrastination, subjective assumptions, and giving up lightly are all manifestations of human instinct, and they are also our weaknesses.
However, truly outstanding individuals are "anti-human" people who are able to overcome these human weaknesses and fight for the good of the future.
Procrastination is human nature, and self-discipline is an advantageous skill.
In life, many people always talk on paper, think too much and act too little, complaining about the unfairness of fate and bad luck.
In contrast, truly great people are able to get rid of laziness and procrastination and live a fulfilling and wonderful life through self-discipline.
Take writer Liang Shuang as an example, she used to be a person with a lazy personality and a mediocre life.
Due to academic delays, her grades have been unsatisfactory and she has not been able to get into the university of her choice. Because of her greedy and lazy mouth, her figure quickly became bloated, and she even frequented the hospital.
The lack of self-discipline led to her academic and physical setbacks.
However, after entering college, Liang Shuang realized that if she continued like this, her life would have no bright spots.
As a result, she developed a detailed plan and quickly put it into practice.
Over the years, no matter how difficult the situation was, she never hesitated or gave up.
*: Visual China.
She sticks to waking up at 5 a.m. and running in the evening, a healthy lifestyle that gives her more energy and allows her to take better care of her family and career.
In her spare time, she devoted herself to writing articles and ran a popular *** where she not only attracted a large number of fans, but also successfully published five best-selling books.
From the procrastination to the self-discipline and diligence now, Liang Shuang has enjoyed the fruitful results brought by self-discipline, and her life trajectory can be described as smooth sailing.
There is a famous quote in "The Road Less Traveled": "Self-discipline is our basic tool for solving life's problems." Without self-discipline, we can't solve anything. ”
A true wise man knows the secret of success and has long since turned on the "self-discipline mode".
They understand that only by overcoming procrastination and laziness in human nature and maintaining diligence and self-discipline can they overcome many difficulties and become the masters of destiny.
Narrow prejudice is easy to fall into, but impartiality and objectivity are difficult to obtain.
Shakespeare once said, "Our perception of error guides our hearts, and error must lead to error." ”
The mistakes in our minds are often the product of prejudice.
Prejudice leads us into the misconception of self-righteousness, leading us into believing that the world we see is the real and objective reality.
However, we often look at the world with "colored glasses", and what we see is only endless illusion.
Unreality leads us into misunderstandings, and life is overshadowed.
If you want to live an extraordinary life, you need to break your prejudices and look at people and things with an objective eye.
Xiaoxi was a potential employee in the company's sales department and had the opportunity to be promoted to department manager.
However, the parachute of her colleague Wan Min blocked her path to promotion.
Xiaoxi was dissatisfied and complained to Wan Min everywhere, thinking that she was sent by the headquarters and knew nothing about the local market.
As a result, she was always skeptical of Wan Min's work arrangement, and even joined other colleagues to ostracize her.
However, an accident gives Xiaoxi a new understanding of Wan Min.
A demanding customer requirement that Xiaoxi can't meet anyway.
At this time, Wan Min took the initiative to find Xiaoxi and unreservedly shared his years of experience to help Xiaoxi successfully win the project.
After this incident, Xiaoxi realized that she had ignored many of Wan Min's strengths due to her own prejudices.
Subsequently, Xiaoxi began to humbly ask Wan Min for advice, and the two learned from each other, completed many important projects together, and gradually developed into their closest friends.
A philosopher once said, "What hinders people from discovering the truth is not the illusion of things, nor the defects of people's reasoning ability, but the prejudices that people have accumulated before." ”
The differences in life experiences, visions and knowledge are destined to have different views.
Many times, we will treat others as we are, and we will believe what we listen to, and eventually lead ourselves into false perceptions.
A truly wise person knows how to open his heart, keep learning, and expand his horizons.
They know that the truth is often not revealed on the surface, but hidden in the essence of things.
Giving up is an instinct, while persistence is a form of courage.
Someone once asked the three questions of the soul:
When you give your all but get nothing, do you choose to give up or persevere? ”
When you are full of enthusiasm but few people understand, do you choose to give up or persevere? ”
When hope is rekindled, but repeatedly disappointed, do you choose to give up or persevere? ”
It's easy to give up, but only persistence can change your life.
When life constantly tests us with real difficulties, those who grit their teeth and stick to their positions can truly control their own destiny.
Fan Yusu only has a Chinese background, but he is one.
Domestic worker, but she has a deep interest in reading and writing.
Whenever she wants, she writes down her thoughts.
With no time to write, she quit her full-time job and instead worked as an hourly worker in the morning and concentrated on writing in the afternoon.
She was not good at using computers, so she chose to write on paper, accumulating a large number of manuscripts.
When she didn't know what to write, she set herself a hard and fast rule that she had to write ten pages a day.
She insisted on writing, and writing gave her glory.
The article "I Am Fan Yusu" quickly became popular on the Internet and attracted the attention of publishers. Her feature-length novel "Reunion after a Long Absence" was successfully published last year.
From a domestic worker to a writer, Fan Yusu's life experience is full of ups and downs.
But she never thought of giving up, and for her, the word "persistence" has long been deeply ingrained in her soul.
The philosopher Seneca once said, "As long as you keep working hard and struggle tirelessly, there is nothing that cannot be conquered." ”
Everyone has dreams, and the only way to achieve them is to persevere.
A truly wise person will not be afraid to give up, even in the face of adversity.
They know that even if progress is slow, if they keep going, they will eventually reach their goals.
It has been said, "The greatest enemy in life is yourself." If you can overcome yourself, you can overcome everything. ”
Procrastination and laziness are comfortable, but only self-discipline can break the limitations of mediocrity;
Although narrow prejudice is easy to produce, only hospitality can truly understand the world;
Although it is easy to give up despite difficulties, only perseverance can lead to success.
Truly powerful people do not necessarily have superior conditions, but they are undoubtedly masters of "anti-humanity".