When love can withstand the test of time, marriage becomes a tacit intersection, and one of the most critical factors is communication. Sometimes, however, even if we try to maintain our relationship, we will inevitably get into communication difficulties. Mai's marriage to her husband is a vivid example of how to face the challenges in marriage and how to find solutions to problems in communication.
Marriage is a home that needs to be maintained by both parties. However, if one of them is unwilling to communicate well, it will make the family lonely and cold. The story of Wheat and her husband begins with communication problems. Once, they were lovely, and Wheat's words could sway their husbands' moods, and they were able to tolerate each other's unhappiness and spend quality time together. However, after marriage, the husband's attitude began to change, and he was no longer considerate and caring. Confused and exhausted by this change, she had expected her husband's understanding and care, but the reality was that every communication turned into arguments and accusations. Such a relationship made Wheat feel suffocated, and she began to wonder if it was worth continuing the marriage.
In marriage, care and concern are indispensable elements. However, when couples lose their ability to care for each other, the relationship will wither. In Wheat's marriage, the lack of care is reflected in her husband's indifferent attitude towards her. Whenever Mai needed her husband's care and attention, he chose to turn a blind eye and even blame him. This reaction made Wheat feel isolated and helpless, and she began to doubt the true meaning of the marriage. Even with a fever, Wheat failed to get her husband's attention, and this indifference made her even more disappointed in her marriage. Because of the loss of care, the distance between husband and wife is getting farther and farther away, and the relationship is gradually disappearing.
In the face of challenges in our marriage, we often expect changes from the other person. However, when the other person can't change, should we let go of expectations and accept reality? Wheat's story teaches us that change doesn't happen overnight, especially when the other person has already developed a pattern. Her husband's attitude is consistent, whether it is communication problems or lack of care, he chooses to avoid and blame. Wheat, on the other hand, has finally understood this through continuous attempts and struggles. She understands that it takes more time and effort for the other party to change, and all she can do is accept the reality and protect her heart.
When love and marriage are smoothed out by the years, can we still find the happiness we once had? Maybe there is no only answer, but at least, we can choose to let go of expectations, accept reality, and make our lives easier and more comfortable. Just like Wheat, despite the difficulties she faced in her marriage, she chose to let go of her expectations, protect herself, and make her life happier. I hope that everyone who has experienced marriage can find their own happiness and satisfaction in life.