1. It is recommended to avoid excessive use of social ** and keep a simple ** contact with your in-laws.
2. Maintain an appropriate sense of boundaries, respect children's independence, and avoid excessive interference.
3. When visiting your in-laws, pay attention to etiquette, don't go empty-handed, and show a grand attitude.
4. In the case of a child's divorce, both parents should share the responsibility.
5. Respect the cooking skills of your in-laws, even if the dishes are not satisfactory, you can swallow them to avoid picky.
6. In the in-laws' home, you should treat yourself as a guest and do not visit the private space at will.
7. If the economic generation gap is large, act cautiously to avoid unnecessary embarrassment and misunderstanding.
8. Try to avoid staying overnight at your in-laws' home and choose to stay in a hotel to avoid conflicts.
9. When both parties have a family gathering, only praise the strengths of the other child's children and avoid mentioning the shortcomings.
10. No matter how difficult it is, avoid borrowing money from your in-laws to maintain your dignity.
11. Avoid talking about sensitive topics such as pensions to maintain a harmonious family atmosphere.
12. When going to your in-laws' house, please make an appointment in advance and respect the other party's time and space.
13. If the child is wronged, avoid being impatient to settle accounts with his in-laws, so as not to intensify the conflict.
14. Don't criticize your in-laws in front of outsiders to avoid leaving a bad impression on the outside world.
15. When getting along with your in-laws, avoid blind comparisons and maintain a rational attitude.
16. Recognize that the kinship relationship is based on the child, and don't overestimate this non-blood relationship.
17. If the in-laws take the initiative to make an appointment, try to make time to show respect for the other party.
18. When there is a happy event in the in-laws' family, even if the distance is far, blessings should be sent through the children.
19. Avoid living with your in-laws for a long time to reduce family conflicts.
20. When divorce may occur in the in-laws' family, choose an appropriate time to persuade reconciliation rather than persuasion.
21. Avoid selling insurance in front of your in-laws, so as not to cause unnecessary conflicts.
22. Do not guarantee your in-laws, let alone use your own property as a guarantee.
23. Avoid playing games with your in-laws on the mahjong table to prevent conflicts caused by winning or losing.
24. Carefully choose the community where the in-laws are located to avoid frequent conflicts.
25. When visiting in-laws, pay attention to giving the other person, especially because of the neighborhood.
26. Be cautious about major decisions made by your in-laws and avoid giving unnecessary suggestions.
27. Don't interfere too much in the housework of your in-laws, and keep an appropriate distance.
28. Avoid financial exchanges with in-laws, especially when it comes to business, so as not to affect the marriage of the family and children.
29. When you find that your in-laws are looking for an extramarital affair outside, you choose to pretend not to know to avoid unnecessary conflicts.
30. If you feel the tension in the family atmosphere when you visit your in-laws, you can choose to reschedule your visit.
31. If the in-laws are mean, keep an appropriate distance to avoid conflicts.
32. Do not introduce your in-laws to your work unit to prevent unnecessary misunderstandings.
33. When chatting with your in-laws, avoid excessive rhetoric, especially on sensitive topics.
34. Don't frequently ask your in-laws for help to reduce unnecessary trouble.
35. If your in-laws are injured, express your concern and visit them in time.
36. When visiting your in-laws, it is best to bring only yourself to avoid attracting unnecessary attention.
37. If someone slanders the in-laws, insist on believing in the in-laws and avoid allowing outsiders to participate in family affairs.
38. Maintain a good relationship with your parents, even if you pretend, you must think about your children.
39. When visiting your in-laws, do not serve the dishes of the base number, so as not to cause misunderstandings.
40. When dealing with children, avoid double standards and maintain equal treatment.
41. Avoid complaining about your misfortune to your in-laws in order to maintain family harmony.
42. Don't go to your in-laws' homes frequently so as not to disturb each other.
43. In other people's territory, follow the rules of the other party, and don't emphasize your own habits.
44. Don't persuade your in-laws to have a second or third child, and respect the other party's decision.
45. If the in-laws are in urgent need of borrowing money, they can help, but be sure to sign an IOU.
46. When visiting your in-laws' homes, pay attention to dressing appropriately, which is both generous and not too eye-catching.
47. Regarding the affairs of grandchildren, the elderly of both sides can contribute or bear the burden together.
48. Even if the distance is far, it is still necessary to keep in touch during the New Year's holidays, especially the one who has a son.
49. If children quarrel, try not to interfere, unless it involves violence.
50. When getting along with your in-laws, you should maintain the mentality of an outsider in order to better handle the relationship.