Tu Lei, who was once regarded as a soul mentor and emotional beacon, has now turned to selling goods through live broadcasts, and is cheating with a lot of words.
In a short period of time, how did he go from being an "unbeatable" emotional master to a field that no one cares about until now?
The name Tu Lei is now a household name in China. He was once hailed as a "national emotional mentor" for his incisive comments in "Love Defense".
However, in 2020, he suddenly announced that he would say goodbye to the stage and return to his family, a sudden decision that made countless fans regret it.
In fact, Tu Lei did not really leave the role of emotional mentor, but moved his performance stage from TV to the Douyin live broadcast room.
Tu Lei still connects with fans in the live broadcast room to help them solve family problems, so many people still regard his words as wise words.
However, men still follow the theories in "Love Defense", which makes female fans feel that they are being a**.
Because of this, some different voices have also appeared on the Internet, and some people bluntly said that Tu Lei's real intention is to sell more goods!
Despite leaving the TV stage, Tu Lei is still the main breadwinner of his family, and there is no doubt that he needs to rely on live streaming to make ends meet.
His lack of duty is intolerable.
In 2004, when the man was just a news anchor, he entered Hunan Radio and Television with his excellent eloquence.
After the radio broadcast the program, it was unexpectedly enthusiastically pursued by countless listeners, who called to thank them.
At that time, Tu Lei was closely related to this style, and after graduating from university in 1999, he joined a bank to work, and his daily mechanical repetition made his life feel boring.
After much deliberation, he chose to leave his bank job and pursue a career in sales. Tu Lei is naturally articulate and has a soft spot for this job.
In just a few months, he achieved the first place in performance, so he was appreciated by his superiors and promoted to sales manager.
At the same time, his peers are facing problems with food and clothing. Arrogance nourished his greed, and finally prompted him to decide to open his own company and go it alone, earning 500,000 yuan a year.
Immediately afterwards, the TV station planned to start a blind date show, but fell into the dilemma of not being able to find a host. At this critical moment, he resolutely recommended himself and auditioned, and finally successfully stayed.
His first show "You Belong" has attracted more and more attention because of its wit and unique point of view, which often appears as a "sharp point".
then joined "Love Defense", he responded to every call, and has been hosting for 10 consecutive years, and countless viewers regard his remarks as the truth.
This step became the beginning of his life's decline, and his life experience was full of ups and downs, from news anchor to emotional mentor, to e-commerce.
If he had only focused on hosting the show, would he have performed better today?This question is no longer known, because life is unpredictable and the human heart is even more elusive.
The man recommended durian products in a live broadcast, and although he covered his nose in pain and did not try it himself, he urged the staff to taste it quickly, because he really couldn't stand the taste.
The audience criticized this behavior, which caused Tu Lei's image to be damaged.
He not only showed a high-minded attitude in the live broadcast, but also used harsh words to scold a female assistant to cry, which was embarrassing.
A few years ago, Tu Lei's career had already begun to decline. Boarding *** made him discredited.
Today, his image has completely collapsed, and he has been reduced from an "emotional mentor" to a disgusting "hypocrite".
It was his true side that led him to the situation where he ended up being ridiculed by everyone today.
When Tu Lei faces fame and fortune, he should clearly understand the duality of fame and fortune.
As a public figure, he should repay the audience through his words and deeds and become an example for everyone to learn from.
However, he chose to ignore this, and as a result, he lost both fame and fortune.
Whether it is using his feet to climb on the backrest in front of the plane seat, or treating unreasonableness as sharp again and again, these have become snowflakes that eventually led to the collapse of his career.
In fact, men have a very tortuous and difficult upbringing. Tu Lei's ability to reach a well-known status is also hard-won.
In 1977, Tu Lei was born in an ordinary family in Nanchang, Jiangxi. Despite the average family conditions, they lived happily ever after.
Soon after, Tu Lei's mother developed a rheumatic disease that eventually led to paralysis. Fathers have to take on the dual responsibility of caring for their mother and child, and family life becomes extremely difficult.
Despite his young age, Xiao Tu Lei behaved very sensibly and tried his best to reduce his father's burden.
He studied hard and was successfully admitted to the Computer Department of Southern Metallurgical Institute, and cherished every learning opportunity during the university, hoping that his mother could be able to learn as soon as possible.
After graduating from university, I successfully entered a bank job, and it can be said that I got a very stable job.
However, this is a rare opportunity for others, but it is not very attractive to men.
He chose to quit his job and pursue a career in sales because he was tired of the repetitive and boring life.
At the age of 23, he was successfully promoted to sales manager with his excellent sales ability, but he was confused by the rejection and neglect of his colleagues, coupled with the growing performance pressure, which weighed on him like a mountain, making it difficult for him to breathe.
In this case, the man finally made the decision to resign.
Tu Lei's two work experiences gave him a considerable blow, so after resigning, he decided to take out 50,000 yuan of start-up capital and partner with his most trusted friend to start a business.
He did not hesitate to hand over the full amount of 50,000 yuan to his friend, and did not realize that he had been deceived until he could no longer contact his friend, so he picked up a kitchen knife in a fit of anger and went to his friend to ask for an explanation.
Luckily, someone eventually stopped all of this in time, thus avoiding a catastrophe.
Tu Lei's life has experienced ups and downs, full of setbacks and difficulties. His mother's illness and his father's pressure made him look extraordinarily mature at a very young age.
Failure at work makes him doubt humanity, but he still chooses to trust his friends, only to suffer an unprecedented deception.
However, these difficulties did not deplete Tu Lei's fighting spirit. On the contrary, it was the challenges in life that fostered his growth and taught him tolerance and tolerance.
His deep affection for his mother made him know how to cherish it, and his understanding of his father made him learn to understand the hardships of life. In the midst of this long ordeal, he remained optimistic.
Tu Lei's life has been full of twists and turns, but he has always adhered to his way of survival and kept fighting. As long as your heart is full of love, no matter how difficult life is, you will eventually usher in beauty.
At that time, Tu Lei did not expect his future development, but he had already reserved enough strength on the road to survival and learned to find hope for survival in the most difficult moments of life.
However, as time passed, he slowly lost his once best self, which eventually led to the complete failure of his career. In fact, the emotional master who played a good hand to smash is not just Tu Lei.
Jiangsu Satellite TV began to prepare for the reality show "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" in 2010, and it was determined that Meng Fei and Huang Han would serve as hosts and emotional mentors. However, since both hosts belong to the elegant school, the show seems a bit dull.
By chance, he witnessed that Lejia's speech style was sharp, which complemented the other two, so he decided to invite him to be the emotional mentor of the show.
I once thought that Lejia would shine on the road to success, but in the end he faced the danger of being ** because of his gaffes. He was outspoken, open-mouthed, and sharply worded, offending many and often embarrassing the situation on the spot.
Fortunately, Meng Fei was present to clean up the situation, but it was not always as he wished.
Once, the female guest who successfully held hands wanted to hug the two hosts, and Meng Fei half-jokingly asked her how she felt, which made the female guests present feel embarrassed.
Similar situations are not uncommon, and Le Jia has offended many people in private because of his careless words.
In 2012, Meng Fei posted on social platforms, insinuating that Le Jia was inappropriate and lacked education.
At the same time, Le Jia was disrespectful to women and frequently made insulting remarks to female guests during the recording of the show, which caused widespread public criticism.
A series of events led to a rapid decline in Lejia's reputation, and his image in the "Super Speaker" program completely collapsed, and he was spurned by everyone.
In order to help a disabled contestant, Le Jia ignored the program he was recording, suddenly opened the liquor and began to drink wildly, and soon fell into a drunken state.
This frightened the other guests. He was talking dirty words on stage, unabashedly what he really thought, but Lu Yu stepped forward to dissuade her, but was severely reprimanded and told her to shut up.
The other guests were not spared, and despite the persuasion of the crowd, he continued to speak arrogantly.
Even Dou Wentao, who was mild-tempered at the time, was angered by the other party's abuse, but he still chose to remain silent, showing excellent professionalism, but left the scene with resentment in his heart.
Le Jia's words and deeds reveal arrogance and conceit, which is far from the quality that a public figure should have.
Lejia did not apologize to others afterwards because he thought he had a clear conscience.
Prior to this incident, he had been in the news on several occasions for disrespecting women.
In his opinion, whether it is Xie Na or Tranquility, it seems that as long as she is a woman, she can become the object of his ridicule.
In the end, due to his arrogance, he also suffered from the union of the entire entertainment industry**.
Today, he can only live in the United States with his daughter, but even so, he still often makes some sensational remarks on social platforms.
Ah, that's a sigh of emotion!
Should Tu Lei and Le Jia bear the consequences for their actions?
Everyone believes that they have the answer, because red luck comes quickly, and bad luck comes faster, which is the true meaning of the entertainment industry.
They once achieved fame and fortune, but in the end they ruined their hard-earned career due to their unworthy character. Life is full of challenges, and you can only maintain balance if you are constantly improving and adapting.
It's a shame that they ended up choosing a dead end, but it was really their choice.