If you are a young person who is not married, you will be unemployed if you are unemployed, after all, the whole family will not be hungry if you are fed alone.
Look a little away. Keep a good attitude, you don't have to hide this matter from your family, as long as I have a positive attitude, no one will look down on you, and no one will worry too much about you.
After all, youth is capital.
If the job is gone, it's good to look for it after the New Year, maybe you can find useful contacts at the New Year's party, and solve the problem of work directly at the dinner table.
If you are a married middle-aged person, the burden of the old and the small is on you, and you are unemployed again, it is really sad to catch up with the New Year.
At this age, they ask you how much you earn, ask you what you do, and in essence, they are calculating the level of respect for you, which is a kind of social game.
My suggestion is, don't slap your swollen face and become fat at this time, you are unemployed at this time, you have no income, and you may have to eat your old capital for a considerable period of time, so you have to worry about every penny.
Don't go to your relatives' houses if you can, don't go back to your rural hometown if you can, find an excuse to work overtime, and it doesn't matter if you can.
Stay at home, how to save money, how to come, spend a simple year with your daughter-in-law and children in your own home, and always remember that no relatives are more important than the people around you.
If you really can't shirk it, because there is a custom in some places, you have to go back to your parents' house or your daughter-in-law's parents' house for the New Year, and if you don't go to the sky, it will fall.
Then you can't make a big deal for the sake of face, and make a fee schedule first.
Look at how much money you have now, set aside the money for your children's tuition and meals after the New Year, see how much is left, what money can be spent and what money can't be spent.
Anyway, I don't know if my relatives are worried or not, I just know that my life will depend on myself in the future.
In the part of the money that can be spent, set aside a budget for various New Year's expenses, such as how many gifts can be bought by relatives, how much you can lose in mahjong and you can't play anymore, how much New Year's money you want to give, and so on.
You have to know it in your heart.
After all, I'm already old, and it's not so easy to find a job again, and even if I find a job, my income will decline, so I must be cautious when spending money.
As for whether you are unemployed or not, it is almost impossible for others to know if you don't say it yourself, bragging when it's time to brag, recognizing the bear when the stuffing is exposed, and the big husband can bend and stretch.
Again, it's just a social game.
Don't be too much of a match between relatives, they are all people who hate you, laugh at you, think you are poor, and are afraid that you are rich.