Reporting good news but not bad news is a common problem for most migrant workers.
The main reason for asking this question is that I don't want my family to worry, right?
In fact, Sister Zhang's personal suggestion is that there is no need to hide it, especially to her parents, who are the people who love us the most in the world.
If you can share your joys and joys, gains and losses with them like friends, maybe this is another way to express your relationship with them, smart parents will not complain and blame, but will give you more comfort and comfort.
There are some wise parents who may be able to give you inspiration, guidance, and practical help.
However, Sister Zhang didn't dare to pack tickets, and her parents' cognitive literacy was uneven.
Some may be very communicative, very understanding of their children's difficulties, loving, and understanding.
But there are also some parents who love but don't necessarily understand due to cognitive limitations.
If you have chosen to conceal it, I believe you have your own reasons and judgments.
How do you not let your family see that you are unemployed?
First of all, the holiday time should be clear
That is, how many days you plan to stay at home. You look at how many days of vacation your original unit had in previous years, when it started and when it ended.
Tell your family according to the previous time period.
It doesn't matter if it's a few more days, the general situation this year is not good, it's normal to have an early holiday and start late, but don't exceed the previous time too much.
The most important point is that the holiday time should not be ambiguous and ambiguous.
Second, stay optimistic and confident at home, don't droop your face and show a confused look.
When we are on the job, no matter whether we are satisfied with our work or not, at least we have an income, even if there are many unsatisfactory things, at home, especially in traditional and important festivals such as the Chinese New Year, there is light in our eyes and a smile on our faces, which is a norm.
So, keep your spirits good and smile more when you go home.
If you are languishing, your eyes glazed over, and completely out of touch with the joyful and peaceful festive atmosphere, it will surely attract attention and all kinds of doubts.
Besides, isn't it just losing your job? There are so many unemployed people this year, and if they don't have a job, they will look for it again, what's the big deal, right?
Unemployment is only a temporary state, it will not last long, after the beginning of the year, there is no place to stay, there is a place to stay.
I was born to be useful. Eat and drink enough, recuperate, and fight again in the coming year, what are you afraid of?
Say these words to yourself several times. Of course, don't really overeat, indulge yourself, and consume your health.
Read more books, read more, eat more spiritual food, and maintain inner peace.
Third, keep the old habits and don't change too much. For example, giving out red envelopes, visiting relatives and the like.
If you are nervous, the amount can be reduced a little.
That's about it.
Under normal circumstances, you have to go out again on the seventh and eighth days of the new year. The days at home are quick and short, and they will soon pass.
As long as you do the above three things, your family should not be able to see that you are unemployed.
But acting is acting, and the most important thing is to think about where to fight next during the holidays?
What is the next road? What kind of job are you looking for, and do you want to go back to your original city? Continue to work or start your own business?
That's the focus.
In the dead of night, when you are alone in bed, think well, reflect, comb, and plan.
Unemployment is only a temporary state, this is the turning point of life restart arranged by God for us, and we must make good use of it.
I'm Sister Zhang's workplace said, thanks for reading!