The generation of feelings often requires a heart-pounding feeling, but there is always a problem, and that is demand.
The novelty will gradually fade, and people's needs in relationships are also different, such as dependence, warmth, love, etc.
If you want to capture a woman's heart and figure out what she needs, everything becomes simple.
So, what kind of man who meets the criteria for choosing a mate for a popular woman will look like?
First, the conditions must be good
With a house, a car, a deposit, a stable job and a high income, this is definitely the first choice for women.
In this materialistic era, everyone wants to live a better life. Marriage is not poverty alleviation, it needs a material foundation to ensure life.
Second, be interesting
Fun includes both fun and humor. Let's talk about fun first, which can also be called mood, which can be understood as an attitude towards life, especially on some special days, it can be treated with a special attitude. It made that day feel special.
A romantic man doesn't have to be romantic, but a man who has an interest must be romantic.
Women advocate romance and crave romance, and men with interest can satisfy women's pursuit of romance, make every day unique, and make people look forward to tomorrow infinitely.
Humor is easy to understand, and it gives people a happy and pleasant atmosphere through their own charm when they get along.
Life is already hard, and humor makes life more interesting.
Third, be intimate.
Everyone has a reason and a reason for doing things. Why should a woman start a relationship?
In the final analysis, it is to know that life is not easy, and I want to find someone to walk with and take care of and support each other.
In other words, falling in love and getting married is to find a person to rely on. Getting the warmth and care of the other party is the biggest reason and motivation for a woman to stick to her relationship.
If the person she is looking for can't shelter her, it will only torture her, it will only bring suffering and burden, why should she insist?
Today's women are independent and self-reliant, no one can't do without anyone, no one has to rely on anyone to survive, only she doesn't want to leave and wants to insist, then the reason for her insistence must be on men. A woman is very simple, she just wants someone who understands her, feels sorry for her, and loves her.
Fourth, be emotionally stable and have a gentle personality.
It's no secret that living with a grumpy, moody person can be extremely painful.
They live cautiously, for fear of accidentally angering each other.
Women like men with a little temper, highlighting the special charm of men. But the so-called petty temper does not mean eccentricity and short temper.
Women want to find a partner with a gentle personality and emotional stability, not to be absolutely docile and have no temper, but not to lose their temper casually. Even if you lose your temper, you won't get out of control.
People who are emotionally uncontrollable are intimidated and unable to communicate. On the surface, there is not much to be asked of temper, but in fact this is the most important one.
Fifth, I like to be positive, optimistic and cheerful
Humans are good-seeking and avoid harm-seeking, preferring to be close to good things or people, but also instinctively resisting and avoiding bad things or people.
Whether it is positive or negative energy, it is powerful. If there is a request, it may be that the man is required to be positive, strong and generous.
What women are looking for is to rely on, to live the rest of their lives together. Once a choice is made, the real feelings cannot be ignored and two people together can influence each other.
The reverse is also true, a man also needs a woman who can give him motivation. There are many additional conditions on top of love, love alone is not enough, one's own quality is always the root of attracting a person.
Some people may ask, don't women have requirements for their appearance?
Of course, there are requirements, but this requirement is not necessarily for looks, but for the presentation of the overall image. For example, a man may not be very handsome, but as long as he is clean and well-dressed, it is enough.
The exterior can never escape, since it is a layman, it is impossible to avoid vulgarity, simple and neat is the most handsome time for a man.
Of course, all the criteria for choosing a mate are based on the maturity of the man, his responsibility and his good character.
No one is perfect, and a man cannot meet everything, but some requirements for his own quality cannot be missing. It is also the limit of what a woman can tolerate.
Don't overcomplicate it, the establishment of feelings is mostly formed gradually in a pleasant and comfortable relationship, which is more important than any expression of emotion.