In a quiet neighborhood in Beijing, in the homes of Lin Jie and Li Ming, the lights are warm and soft. The city lights outside the window are brilliantly lit, which contrasts with the tranquility inside. This is a typical urban family, simple and full of life.
Lin Jie was busy in the kitchen, holding the recipe in her hand, her brows furrowed slightly. She is a professional woman, smart and independent. Facing the upcoming 60th birthday banquet for her mother-in-law, she was both excited and a little nervous. Her mother-in-law, a traditional and kind elder, has always been very good to her, so Lin Jie wants to make this birthday banquet perfect.
Li Ming, her husband, sat on a sofa in the living room, with work papers piled high in front of him. He is the manager of a small company, and he has been particularly anxious about some of the company's affairs lately. Although their married life was uneventful but happy, this sudden pressure made him a little overwhelmed.
Jiejie, I think we can consider finding another helper to prepare the birthday banquet. Li Ming looked up at his busy wife and tried to make a suggestion.
Lin Jie stopped what she was doing, turned to look at Li Ming, and replied with a smile: "No need, obviously, I have arranged everything." After all, it's my mother's 60th birthday, and I want to do it myself. ”
But you're too tired, so busy with work, and you have to worry about your family. Lee was visibly worried.
Lin Jie walked over and patted Li Ming's shoulder gently: "It's okay, I can handle it." Don't worry too much about work, relax. ”
At this moment, Li Ming's mobile phone rang, and there was an urgent work**. A stern voice came from the other end, and Li Ming's face became solemn. After hanging up, he was a little emotional: "There are too many things in the company these days, I'm really anxious!" ”
Lin Jie looked at her husband's anxious appearance, and a trace of worry surged in her heart: "Obviously, don't be too tired, your body is important." ”
I know," Li Ming replied a little helplessly, "but now the company really needs me." ”
Suddenly, Li Ming stood up, walked to the window, looked at the busy city night scene outside, and was silent for a while. Lin Jie walked over quietly and gently held his hand: "Obviously, no matter what, we have been together, for seven years, no matter how busy we are, this family and I are your strongest backing." ”
Li Ming turned around and looked at Lin Jie's eyes, and the tension in his heart eased slightly: "Thank you, Jiejie." Sometimes, I really don't know what I would do without you. ”
It was at this heartwarming moment that the kitchen timer went off, breaking the silence between them. Lin Jie let go of her hand with a smile: "Let's go see my big meal, I hope my mother-in-law will like it." ”
In the next few days, Lin Jie was busy preparing for the birthday banquet, and Li Ming was also tightly entangled by work. Under such busyness and pressure, both of them became a little emotionally fragile. One night, Lin Jie accidentally knocked over the water cup on Li Ming's table, and Li Ming instantly exploded: "Why are you so careless!" Look at these files all wet! ”
Lin Jie was stunned for a moment, and then replied calmly: "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to." I'll help you dry them out. ”
Li Ming realized his overreaction and took a deep breath: "No, it's that I shouldn't have said that about you. I'm sorry, Jiejie. ”
The two were silent for a moment. Lin Jie broke the silence first: "We are all tired, maybe we should relax." ”
Li Ming nodded and hugged Lin Jie: "Yes, I'm sorry for worrying you." I love you, Jiejie. ”
This night, they watched a movie in the living room, trying to forget about the stress and busyness of life for a while. But they all know that this is just the calm before the storm, and more trials await them.
On the day of the birthday banquet, Lin Jie's living room was elegantly and warmly furnished. Friends and family arrived, and the sound of blessings and laughter filled the space. Lin Jie wore a delicate cheongsam and greeted every guest warmly. Li Ming was dressed in a neat suit, and although he tried to maintain a polite smile, there was a faint hint of exhaustion between his brows.
As the banquet progressed, Li Ming's mood began to become unstable. The first time he got angry was when a distant relative asked him about his work, Li Ming suddenly became a little excited: "You can't understand the current work pressure, don't always ask these meaningless questions!" ”
Seeing this, Lin Jie hurriedly stepped forward to play a round: "Obviously, I've been really busy with work recently, uncle, don't mind." She smiled and changed the subject, and the guests dispersed.
The second outburst occurred at the climax of the dinner, when Li Ming accidentally spilled wine on his clothes during a toast. He suddenly reprimanded the waiter loudly: "What kind of service attitude do you have!" I'm so embarrassed! Lin Jie hurriedly stepped forward and tried to reassure him: "Obviously, it's okay, just change your clothes." ”
The last firing was at the end of the feast. A guest accidentally knocked over a wine glass, and the liquor spilled on Li Ming's shoes. Li Ming was already drunk at this time, and he suddenly burst into a rage: "What's the matter with you!" Why is the banquet held at my house so messy! ”
Seeing this, Lin Jie hurriedly stepped forward to apologize and comfort the embarrassed guest. After the guests left, she turned to Li Ming with a hint of blame in her tone: "Mingming, how can you treat guests like this?" ”
Li Ming shook his head and tried to calm down: "I'm sorry, Jiejie, I don't know what's wrong, maybe I've drunk too much." ”
After the banquet, the guests left one after another, and peace returned to the house. Lin Jie sat on the edge of the bed in the bedroom, her heart full of incomprehension and grievances. Li Ming's behavior made her very confused, and she couldn't understand why her usually gentle husband had become so irritable.
Li Ming walked into the bedroom and saw Lin Jie's sad appearance, and felt guilty in his heart: "Jiejie, I'm sorry, I really lost my temper today." ”
Lin Jie looked up at him, and a hint of determination flashed in his eyes: "Obviously, we need to have a good talk." I don't know what's going on with you lately, but your behavior really disappoints me. ”
Li Ming sat on the edge of the bed and lowered his head: "I know, I've been a little stressed lately, but it's not an excuse for me to get angry." I don't want that to affect our relationship. ”
Lin Jie sighed, her heart full of contradictions: "Obviously, I understand your pressure, but we can't let this affect us."
life. Your mood swings are so great that it even makes me wonder if our marriage can still be as happy as it used to be. ”
Li Ming raised his head, his eyes were full of anxiety: "Jiejie, I know I was wrong, I will change it." Our marriage is very important to me and you are the most important person in my life. ”
A trace of tears flashed in Lin Jie's eyes: "I don't want to give up our marriage like this, but I need to know that all this will change, can we go back to the way before?" ”
The two were silent for a while, and Li Ming held Lin Jie's hand tightly: "Jiejie, I promise, I will work hard to change." We can go to marriage counseling together and find professional help. I don't want to lose you. ”
Lin Jie looked at Li Ming, the contradictions and uneasiness in her heart were still struggling, but she still nodded: "Okay, let's try." But I want you to know that this is our last chance at marriage. ”
On this night, they snuggled up to each other, their hearts filled with uncertainty and hope for the future. The disappointment and determination in Lin Jie's heart gradually subsided, and turned into expectations for the future and hope for change. Li Ming secretly vowed in his heart that he would make changes for the sake of this marriage and for the sake of his lover.
The day after the birthday feast, there was a tense atmosphere in the living room. Lin Jie sat on the sofa with a firm look in her eyes, determined to have an in-depth conversation with Li Ming. Li Ming sat opposite, looking a little lonely and anxious.
Lin Jie was the first to break the silence: "Obviously, we need to talk." I was really disappointed with what happened at yesterday's banquet. ”
Li Ming lowered his head, his voice a little hoarse: "I know I'm wrong, Jiejie." But I really didn't expect it to be like that. ”
Do you know what your actions mean to me, to all of us? Lin Jie's voice trembled a little, "It's not just about your emotions, it's about our marriage and our life together." ”
Li Ming raised his head, with obvious guilt in his eyes: "I really regret it, Jiejie." This.
For a few days, the stress of work left me almost breathless. I was afraid that I would not be able to bear it all, that I was afraid of losing everything. ”
Lin Jie's eyes softened a little: "I know that work is important to you, but our family and our relationship are equally important. You can't let these pressures ruin our lives. ”
Li Ming nodded, feeling deeply remorseful: "You are right. I ignored our feelings and only cared about my own problems. I should have handled these things better than taking the negativity home. ”
We all have a responsibility to preserve this relationship. Lin Jie whispered, "We need to work together to find a solution to the problem." ”
The two were silent for a while, and then Li Ming suddenly stood up, walked towards Lin Jie, and held her hand: "Jiejie, I am willing to make a change." I don't want to lose you because of my problems. ”
Lin Jie looked at him, and a glimmer of hope flashed in her eyes: "Then let's go to marriage counseling together." We need professional help to solve our problems. ”
Li Ming held her hand tightly: "Okay, let's go together." No matter how much effort it takes, I am willing to give for our marriage. ”
Over the next few months, Lin Jie and Li Ming attended marriage counseling together and learned how to better communicate and resolve conflicts. They learn to listen right.
We learned to understand and respect each other's feelings. With the help of professional counselors, they gradually regained the understanding and support they once had.
Over time, their relationship has improved significantly. Li Ming has learned how to find a balance between work pressure and family life, while Lin Jie has become more understanding and tolerant. The two once again felt the warmth and joy of marriage.
February** Dynamic Incentive Program