Don't challenge my character with your temper, it'll just make you die rhythmically! "It may seem humorous at first glance, but it's worth thinking about. Just imagine: what would happen if you lost your temper with someone close to you? It will only make them sad and alienate them. Your displeasure is not just a failure. "You try to bring others to their knees, but you lose more yourself.
In life, there are many people who look at things from big to small, even if they don't have the ability, they have a temperament. In other words, they are incompetent. When a person's ability is low, it is not enough to support his ambitions, so he can easily fall into a state of emotional control, and get angry at a little thing, as everyone knows, the way he loses his temper, and the way he wakes up, looks very funny. It's sad for others. No one likes someone who is incompetent and irritating.
So what is competency? A thousand people have a thousand different answers, but the most basic one is to take things for the better and make yourself and yourself better. The people around you are becoming more and more capable. If you want to gain abilities, it's not something that happens overnight. We need to keep learning, enrich ourselves, and improve our overall quality.
Once you reach a certain level of ability, you will be able to do most of the things. The troubles that once plagued us in life can be easily solved. This problem is no longer a problem. As we become more capable and our emotions are more controllable, we are no longer swayed by trivial matters. It is not affected by temporary misfortunes. Just angry.
In addition to ability, economic resources are also an essential part of real life. With economic resources, our lives will be more peaceful. Do not worry. Even the little things like food, rice, oil, salt don't matter, it will give you more options, so try to do something that interests you really. Use it wisely and appropriately. While constantly accumulating wealth, we should also pay attention to the rational allocation of resources and avoid becoming a slave to money.
Compared to ability and financial resources, temperament is not worth mentioning. If you look closely at the people around you, you will find that successful people are humble, kind, and know how to control their emotions. They complain about others all day long, lose their temper over trivial things, suffer outside, and when they are wronged, they go home and vent their anger on their families. Such a person is destined to live at the bottom of society all his life.
Maybe you're sad and think you have no choice but to know that no one in this world cares about your thoughts. They only care about what you can bring them. Many times, the unfairness, dissatisfaction, and pressure you feel are actually caused by your own incompetence.
So from now on, please control your temper and work harder. When you are lost and overwhelmed, improve yourself; When you are unfair and wronged, enrich yourself; When you want to lose anger, endure and change. Believe me, when your ability is getting stronger and your financial resources are getting stronger, your temper will become smaller and smaller, and you will find that life is so beautiful, and you will find that the troubles and difficulties of the past are just a passing cloud.
There is a saying: "If you are not strong, who will be brave for you?" "If you don't try, who will give you hope? Everyone has negative emotions, but only you can get rid of them. As the saying goes, "It doesn't matter what you can change." ”
The reality of society is cruel, we only see the result, not the process. No matter how bad your personality is, you can't change the harsh reality, and you will only end up being viewed negatively by those around you and crowding out those who have a chance to grow. 。We're all adults anymore, and we can't be like little kids anymore and cry when we don't get what we want. Everyone has a temper, but we have to learn to control it. Otherwise, the more impatient we are, the more incompetent we will be.
A truly capable person will not be short-tempered, but able to control his temper rationally, face problems without being swayed by emotions, and always maintain a rational and calm mind. At the same time, you need to constantly improve your abilities and financial resources. By doing so, you will become more confident, confident, and less afraid of the ups and downs in life.
When you want to lose your temper, you should think more about your ability and financial resources. If both are not enough, then there is no need to lose your temper. Not only will it not solve the problem, but it will make you more miserable and helpless. Life is short, what we have to do is to love ourselves, improve ourselves, and make ourselves stronger and better, so that we can better protect ourselves and those around us. That's what it means to do good.
If you are strong-willed and confident enough, you will not be affected by the trivial and unfair things in life, and you will not show anger to solve problems. Trust me, if you have the ability and the financial resources, the whole world will be happy for you. Let's encourage each other!