I was in a bad mood some time ago, I felt like everything was going against me, everyone was competing with me, I was sore, tired, physically and mentally exhausted, and I was exhausted too.
This situation may have something to do with my personality. I always like to compete, I always like to compare myself to others, I always like to strive for perfection, I always like to be in control. I know this behavior is bad, but I can't change it.
Looking back on my childhood experience, my parents taught me to study hard, work hard, do my best, and strive for success from a young age. This sentence has always been deeply engraved in my heart and will never be forgotten.
We also know that people did not come into this world to suffer. Life is short, so we should enjoy life and enjoy the beauty of life. But I can't control myself, so I always want to do my best and get the best results.
Sometimes I think it's better to be less competitive, less compulsive, and more relaxed. This may make you feel lighter and happier. But you can't let go of the attachment in your heart.
To prove myself, I am competitive, and although I am competitive, I value the results very much. But this world is really interesting, and the more you worry, the more you lose. The more I tried to prove myself, the more I encountered all kinds of setbacks and blows, and in the end, not only did I not get what I wanted, but I also lost what I originally had.
At that time, I felt that the whole world was against me, and even the stars were laughing at my stupidity. I'm a bit stubborn, but I'm not willing to compromise. I always feel like I've paid so much money, why didn't I get what I deserved?
Then I saw Keigo Higashino's words. "People shouldn't compete too much, because competition is painful. Man should not live in this world to suffer. This sentence is a ray of sunshine that touches the most tender heart. That's about it. Put it in my heart.
yes, why should I take things into my own hands? I didn't come into this world to endure pain and suffering. I need to reconcile with myself, learn to let go of unnecessary attachments, and pursue an easier and better life. From that moment on, I learned to compromise.
I no longer force myself to pursue unrealistic goals or impose my hopes on others. I began to learn to listen, respect, and be tolerant. I found that the world is actually not that bad, as long as you feel and experience it with your heart, there are many beautiful things.
After a period of rest, my spirit finally adjusted, and the work brought unexpected results. At that moment, I felt joy and satisfaction like never before. People deeply understand that without competition, they can go further and see more beautiful scenery.
Looking back on those days now, I am filled with emotion. I was stupid and naïve at the time, but I was also lucky because this experience allowed me to grow and learn to cherish it. As Sanmao said: "What we deliberately look for, we often can't find." Everything in the world has its own time and its own time. ”
In the journey of life, we will meet many people and experience many things. Thing. On the journey, some people accompany you, while others pass by. Some things make us feel happy and happy, while others make us feel miserable and dissatisfied.
However, no matter what happens, we must learn not to be too competitive and deal with it calmly. Competition pushes us into the abyss of pain and makes us lose the courage to move forward. We must learn to let go of unrealistic illusions and pursue our own happiness and beauty.
Let go of meaningless attachments and pursue a more relaxed and better life. There are too many beautiful things in this world waiting for us to discover and experience, feel with our hearts, and enjoy the beauty of this world!