After a Spring Festival, some people and some things made me a year older and wiser:
1. Gift-giving, many times, is not to consolidate or sublimate the relationship, but to fear that not giving gifts will affect or damage vested interests;
2. Don't please the rich, don't look down on the poor, and don't mess with idlers who have nothing to do;
3. Don't believe the words "just act as if nothing happened", and don't expect people who have turned their faces with you to go back to the past, including your brothers and sisters;
4. In fact, it is not necessarily easy to walk when you have more friends, because many times it is your so-called friends who make you have no way to go and block you;
5. Some people, if you are good to him, he will be grateful to you, but some people, if you are good to him, he will disgust you;
6. Human memory is selective, just like if you can't remember a hundred times but can remember it once, don't be surprised, this is human nature;
7. Parents are here, relatives are still there, brothers and sisters are still there; When the parents are gone, there will be no New Year's flavor;
8. It is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages and be insatiable, and if you know this, you will live a more transparent life and suffer less;
9. The more you grow up, the more lonely you become, this is a reality and an inevitability;
10. When I was a child, I always looked forward to the New Year, and I always felt that the year was very slow but passed quickly; When I grew up, I was a little afraid of the New Year, because the New Year has not changed, and the taste of the New Year has changed;
11. Compared with strangers, we are more likely to suffer the losses of acquaintances, because we take every precaution, and we can't prevent strangers but can't prevent acquaintances around us;
12. Many people care about how you are doing, but in fact, it is just to understand whether you are not doing well;
13. In addition to your parents being good to you, there are generally two situations in which others are good to you: one is that you are very good, and the other is that others are very qualified;
14. What you get by luck is easy to lose because of luck;
15. Financial freedom and time freedom cannot be achieved by salary income, unless the work itself is your side hustle;
16. In this world, behind too many scenery, there are either vicissitudes or dirty;
17. Don't overestimate your relationship with anyone, and don't overestimate your place in anyone's heart;
18. When you have strength, you are right and wrong; When you don't have the strength, you are wrong and right;
19. In a family, the voice of strength is not necessarily high, but the right to speak must be important;
20. The rich think about how to make money for themselves, and the poor think about who can lend them money;
21. Don't trust anyone easily, even if you sign a written contract, you must be prepared for the risk of breaking the contract at any time;
22. Feelings and relationships need to be maintained, which is essentially the exchange of interests and values;
23. People with depth know how to be silent and disdainful, and only those who are ignorant like to raise the bar and be more truthful;
24. People seem to be better at holding grudges than gratitude, and giving grace may not necessarily be exchanged for gratitude, but it is necessary to avoid nurturing grudges;
25. Don't care about other people's attitudes and opinions about you, because attitudes and opinions will change, depending on your strength and value;
26. Today's New Year's visit to relatives does not seem to be inheriting traditions, but more like completing some form of task;
27. When you go home a year ago, everyone else thinks you take less except your parents, and when you run away after the year, everyone else thinks you bring more except your parents.