Gu Yi is a photographer, after graduating from Peking University, he was known as a "genius" in school, and he worked hard to start a business in Chongqing. Because he travels back and forth between Chongqing and Australia all the year round, he is busy with work, so he often does not have much time to spend with his aging parents.
One day this year, Gu Yi took his father to the hospital for a physical examination as in previous years, but after the physical examination, Gu Yigang, who was waiting for the report, chatted with his colleagues about work after chatting, and a sentence came from his ear, "Is Gu Quanping's family here?" Trouble come in. At that moment, he suddenly had a bad premonition in his heart.
In the physical examination room, the doctor took the report and said to him regretfully
Is Gu Quanping your father? ”
Yes, doctor, my father him.
That's right, unfortunately, I have bad news to tell you that your father has terminal stomach cancer, and according to this situation, the old man may not last more than a year. ”
Diagram. Hearing the news, Gu Yi was out of breath all of a sudden-stomach cancer? Can't last a year?
The man who worked so hard to raise him and never enjoyed much happiness in his life suddenly had less than a year to live?
God, is this a joke? Why is time so fast? Haven't taken a good look at you, but you're running out of time?
At that moment, he only felt that the sky had fallen.
The heavy blow of life in 2012 knocked on his heart, making him feel helpless and helpless.
After learning the news, he did his best to arrange the best doctor in Chongqing for his father**, just one operation, his father's stomach was removed four-fifths, and the remaining one-fifth of the stomach still has residual diseases, but it can no longer be cut, but the father's body has too few white blood cells, the resistance is too weak, it is like a time bomb will be diseased at any time.
After his father's surgery was completed that day, he learned about his father's physical condition from the surgeon, and he lit a cigarette and sat on the steps outside the hospital, the smoke wrapped around his body, as if supporting him.
Once I went abroad to take pictures, **The theme was an old man in Australia, after work, Gu Yi returned to the studio, looked at the weathered foreign old man in his camera, he sat on the chair in the office and was silent for a long time - how long has it been since he accompanied his father?
He suddenly felt a strong sense of guilt about his father.
Dad's stomach is only one-fifth, how will he be physically uncomfortable? "The thought of this tingled his heart like a pinprick in the needle. It wasn't until the cigarette butt burned his hand that he came to his senses.
I didn't smoke a bite, but it burned out.
Gu Yi's father had a total of 6 chemotherapy treatments, and then he was transferred to Shanghai to receive a better **. And in this short period of time, the old man's weight has lost more than 60 pounds.
Diagram. Sitting on the hospital bed, looking at his father with his eyes closed and his face haggard in front of him, the bits and pieces of the past hit his heart like a huge wave:
The teacher said that your grades are good, and I will ask your mother to bring back some of your favorite marinade tonight, haha. ”
It's not a matter of working hard now, you have to read well, live a better life in the future, don't be like me. ”
Lao Li, look at my Xiaoyi, the ** taken is all published in the newspaper, and it is promising! ”
Remember to come back for dinner during the Chinese New Year, your mother said she misses you very much. ”
Actually, when I was a child, I really wanted to see the sea, but I was too busy to go. ”
After working for so many years, how many wrinkles are there on my father's old face? He didn't know; When I talk to old friends and proudly tell them how my son is so successful, how much do I miss my children? He didn't know; When my father was tidying up his room, he saw the group photo placed at the head of the bed, and how lonely did he feel? He didn't know either.
Sleepless nights. 
In 2004, he took his parents from his hometown of Yancheng, Jiangsu Province, to Chongqing, where he lives, just to better accompany them and accompany them to grow old. In fact, Gu Yi's parents, in addition to their hometown Yancheng, have only seen Chongqing in their lives, the world is so big, but they have not seen it. Thinking that his father's days were numbered, he made a bold decision - instead of letting his father spend the rest of his days in the hospital with "regrets", he should take him outside to see the scenery he had never seen before.
In October 2015, he planned a travel route in advance and checked the hospital information on the way to prevent his father from having an emergency on the way. Thinking that his father might not want him to spend any more money on himself, he "tricked" his father into the plane on the grounds that his grandson missed his grandfather very much in Australia.
On November 2, Gu Yi took the old couple to Chongqing Jiangbei Airport. The father, who had been in the hospital for a long time, looked at the busy airport and all kinds of people walking by, and the old man was suddenly full of anticipation for the upcoming trip. As soon as they arrived at the airport, they couldn't wait to let passers-by take a "family photo" for them, looking at the old couple holding their passports and showing a long-lost smile to the camera, Gu Yi decided to record his father with **, which may be the "last journey" in his life.
Seeing that he was writing a diary as soon as he got on the plane, I took this ** picture of him.
Recalling, the weather was rare and sunny that day, and my father leaned against the window and looked at the scenery outside, from the airport, to the grass, to the thousands of houses. Gu Yi watched his father concentrate on the scenery outside the window, and his eyes seemed to gradually light up.
Actually, I really didn't expect that he would be as happy as a child to show off to me. ”
After arriving in Melbourne, they went to Mornington Beach the next day. It was an endless blue, soft and delicate sand, and you could feel a comfortable wrapping feeling when you stepped on it, and in the distance there were cotton-like white clouds, and small waves mischievously washed people's feet.
At this time, the weather in Melbourne is comfortable, there are many beach tourists, the old man rolls up his trouser legs, walks here, looks there, and stomps on the water from time to time, "Old woman, come and see!" Unexpectedly, he picked up a big shell on the beach, and shouted excitedly at his wife, like a child discovering a novel toy, and at that moment, his whole complexion looked much better.
Gu Yi watched his father sit on the beach with his hands behind him, squinting comfortably and enjoying the sun, and at that moment he only felt that this trip was really the right one.
After a while, the rested old man went to the sea to catch fish! Seeing that, Gu Yi hurriedly stepped forward to help. "I don't need help, I can do it on my own! Maybe it was too long since he came out, and my father suddenly became a lot more energetic, but I didn't expect him to really gain something later, "Look, this doesn't look like our Chinese dragon?" He happily held a string of kelp in both hands, with a bright smile on his face, not to mention, the kelp is really not small, the shape is really unique, from a distance, it looks like a "flying dragon" in the air.
In the evening, facing the golden glow, the two of them walked barefoot, holding hands around the coastline, as if they had returned to the appearance of a young date, and then took a beautiful ** for them.
Gu Yi also rented an RV on the way, the old couple had never seen a car with a bed, not to mention how novel it was, they drove on an empty road, and the old man who had never seen such an open view excitedly looked left and right in the car, not to mention how happy they were.
At night, Gu Yi parked the RV on the side of the road, made a few of his father's favorite dishes on the spot, and watched his father holding rice in his left hand and putting chicken legs in his mouth with his right hand to eat it.
Looking at the beautiful sky after the meal, Gu Yi proposed to take a picture of the old couple that they had never seen before. After coming out, I saw the old couple standing next to the RV with a smile on their faces, holding hands, leaning on each other, in front of them was a bunch of jumping bonfires, and above their heads was a gradient dark blue starry sky, and the whole ** was full of dreamy splendor.
When they arrived at Canberra Square, they met a lot of foreigners, and the old man wanted to greet them but didn't know how to say them, so he was like his son asking "Good morning, how do they understand?" Gu Yi patiently taught his father, "good morning!" Good morning! ”
I learned! Xiaoyi, "Goo**"! ”
Dad, it's not "** your pronunciation is not standard, it's good morning!" ”
Oooh, goo you! ”
Although it still sounds a bit non-standard, Dad thinks that he has "graduated".
Unexpectedly, the next morning, whenever he saw foreigners, he happily waved his hand to greet them, "Gollum you!" The wife who watched was crying and laughing and slapping his arm. The people who were greeted also smiled at him, and more enthusiastic people pulled the old man to take a photo with him.
Looking at his father who was generous and taking pictures with strangers, at that moment, he realized that the phrase "good morning" may be just a simple greeting in the eyes of ordinary people, but for Dad, it represents his new attitude towards life.
What happened once when he climbed the mountain made Gu Yi feel incredible.
I remember that day he went to climb the mountain with his parents, and when he reached the halfway point of the mountain, he looked back and saw a scene in front of him that made his heart almost jump out of his throat - I saw my father climb a tree outside the road. He hurriedly stepped forward and told him to come down, how dangerous this behavior was! However, the old man retorted: "Don't treat me as a patient, I'm fine!" You can also climb trees! Then he climbed from the right side of the tree to the left side of the tree, and his body was not at all like a man who was seriously ill.
Gu Yi looked at the figure of his father who finally climbed back from the tree, and thought to himself that his physical condition was really much better than in the hospital bed.
Seeing that his father seemed to have been "reborn", Gu Yi couldn't be happier in his heart, so he took the opportunity to ask: "Dad, do you dare to experience something more interesting?" "Come on, what don't you dare! ”
In fact, Gu Yi said this sentence for a reason.
That day, his father watched the artists on the street playing the guitar, and the beautiful melody immediately attracted him, "Son, can I also learn to play the guitar?" ”
In fact, the old man wanted to play the guitar a long time ago, but he was too busy with work to touch it. Gu Yi looked at his father and asked himself cautiously, feeling guilty for a while, he didn't know anything about his father's hobby, so he bought a guitar that day and simply taught him to play a song.
Unexpectedly, the next day he took the guitar to play in a park to a group of audiences, although it was just a simple melody, but people couldn't help but be attracted by him when they saw him smiling and immersed in his guitar playing, and applauded and encouraged him. At that moment, Gu Yi couldn't help but think that maybe people should live like this and be brave enough to try more things they like.
I saw my mother sitting on a chair in the park, watching her wife swaying in the crowd and happily playing the guitar, she smiled and squinted, and the corners of her mouth curled an arc.
The breeze carried the crisp sound of the piano in the distance, brushed the silver threads on her forehead, and caressed the wrinkles on her face that had been baptized by the years. Looking at this relative who has been worried about her family for half her life, Gu Yi always wants to do something for her.
Mom, let me ask you, how long have you been married to Dad? ”
Lu Aiping turned his head to look at his son, and said with emotion: "It's been a few decades, I got married on December 8, 1969, and your father abducted me with a cow at that time." Thinking of this, the mother waved her hand and "laughed" and scolded.
Isn't it the day of the 50th golden wedding in a few days? As soon as he thought of this, Gu Yi secretly made a decision in his heart that he must arrange an unforgettable golden wedding anniversary for his parents.
So there was the previous scene "Dad, do you dare to experience something more interesting?" "Come on, what don't you dare! ”
Then I'll take you to skydiving! When the old man heard this, he was immediately excited, "Okay! ”
Because skydiving has certain physical requirements, Gu Yi deliberately took the old couple to the hospital for an examination, fortunately, after careful examination, skydiving is not a big risk to the old couple's body.
The night before going to skydive, Gu Yi deliberately took his father to the flower shop to buy flowers, and "conspired" with his father to surprise his mother tomorrow. The old man pointed to a bouquet of pale yellow flowers and smiled happily, "This is good, this is good!."Your mom loves the color. ”
December 8, 2015, Cairns International Synchronized Skydiving Centre, Australia.
This morning, the old man "hidden" in the square early and waited. Gu Yi took her mother's hand and came to the square.
Where's your dad?Why didn't you see him early in the morning, didn't you get lost?”
Just as my mother was worried and asked carefully, I saw the old man holding a bouquet of flowers in his hand, walking up to her with a smile under his wife's surprised eyes, kneeling down on one knee, and sincerely saying to this lover who has been with him for most of his life
Wife, pick up flowers!”
At that moment, Gu's mother, who had never received flowers, covered her mouth with her hands and burst into tears.
The old couple have been in love with each other for 60 years, and this moment is really meaningful to them.
They walked hand in hand to the side, imagining that they would experience the feeling of 'flying people in the air' after a while, and they were both excited and a little scared. Gu Yi saw the mood of his parents at the moment, stepped forward to hug the second elder and comforted him for a moment, and finally they bravely got on the plane under the encouragement of their son.
Gu Quanping held his wife's hand tightly on the plane and comforted: "Don't be afraid, old woman, the doctors said that our body is fine!."Let's have a good experience of the feeling of being a 'man in the air'" He shook his wife's hand tightly.
The plane flew higher and higher, and soon rose to an altitude of more than 4,200 meters, looking at the figure on the ground that was not as big as an ant, the old man suddenly became not afraid at all, "I have survived all the diseases, what else is there to be afraid of!."Then under the guidance of the coach, he jumped down suddenly!
At that moment, a sense of weightlessness that he had never experienced before swept through his body, and he felt his body fly lightly in the air, and he opened his arms freely and exclaimed, "AhhhhhhI didn't expect to do it again'Trapeze'Ahh"During the period, I also took a group photo with the coach, which looks like a terminally ill person?
Gu Yi, who was nervously waiting on the ground, watched his father's figure finally appear in his field of vision, and hurriedly chased after him!Although he encouraged his father to experience skydiving, it was impossible to say that he was not nervous or worried.
Seeing his father shouting and laughing heartily in the air, inexplicably, Gu Yi had an urge to cry in his heart - to make him so happy in the little time his father had left, he felt that the decision to take him out for a trip was really too correct!
When the old couple landed safely, Gu Yi trotted forward and hugged his parents tightly, crying loudly!
Under the blue sky and white clouds, on the green grass, the family hugged each other and cried.
At that moment, they were happy, happy, satisfied, and relieved. But it's more about moving. Maybe that's what travel is all about, maybe that's what it's like to live life well.
Happy time always flies quickly, and more than 80 days of travel ended in the laughter of the family. After returning to Chongqing, the old man and before he went were really like two people! The body is tough, full of spirit, and when they see acquaintances, they all greet each other warmly, and everyone feels that Lao Gu seems to have been "reborn".
Then Gu Yi took the old man to the hospital for a re-examination, and the attending doctor was surprised to find that the old man's physical indicators were much better than before! It's incredible!
In Japan, white blood cells are basically 1 or less, which means that there is basically no resistance. Later, the white blood cell value rose and improved, and the condition was good. In the program of "One **", Gu Yi happily shared the news with the host, "I really want to say to the audience in front of the TV that a good mood is really great for the body!" Everyone looked at the smile of the old man after his "rebirth" on the screen, and the audience burst into warm applause.
A special trip arranged by his son made the health of Gu Quanping, an old man with cancer and the doctor said that there was little left to live, to improve his body tremendously.
Three years have passed now, and the old man's body is still strong, what a medical miracle!
As the saying goes, filial piety comes first. Gu Yi expressed his filial piety with his own practical actions, and took the two elders to experience a trip that he had never experienced before, which made his father happy like a child during the journey, and his mentality became better and his body improved, which really wrote a chapter of filial piety.
However, in real life, there are many young people who have not visited the elderly second elder at home for a long time on the grounds that they are busy with work? Didn't you calm down and listen to their own stories of their youth? Didn't give them a good birthday? There was no basin of hot water for them to wash their feet and go to their ?..I hope that there are too many "no" not to appear, while the parents are alive, care more about them on weekdays, leave more time to accompany them, and have an old family like a treasure!
May the regret of "the son wants to be raised but the kiss is not treated" and hope never appears in our lives.