In today's society, competition is everywhere, and under such an environment, it is difficult for young people to find employment, and it is even more difficult to get a job. As a result, an "involution" storm came silently. In this storm, young people are riveting their efforts to pursue their dreams and work hard to live their lives.
However, in Xinyang City, Henan Province, such a person appeared. He is the spokesperson who is most in line with the image of "anti-involution" in people's mouths.
At the age of 5, he walked on the ground for the first time, at the age of 7, he had to be fed by his mother, and at the age of 23, he starved to death at home because of "laziness". It can be said that laziness is carved into the bones.
People can't help but wonder, is such a serious "laziness" real? What's more, it is said that he is the reincarnation of a "lazy god".
What is the reason why this person is so "lazy"? Is it really as everyone speculates, is he the reincarnation of a "lazy god"?
The story also starts from Zhutang Township, Luoshan County, Xinyang City, Henan Province in 1986.
In 1986, in Zhutang Township, Luoshan County, Xinyang City, Henan Province, an ordinary old farmer's home ushered in the biggest good news in his life. Under the ardent expectation of the old farmer and his wife, their son finally came to this world.
At that time, Zhutang Township was still a small village with relatively backward ideas, and the feudal idea of preference for sons over daughters was particularly prevalent there. The child that the old farmer and his wife have been looking forward to for many years have a son, which makes the old farmer and his wife ecstatic.
finally looked forward to such a "golden pimple", and the husband and wife couldn't bear to let him leave from their side, so they named the child "Yang Suo", which means that the child will be locked by his side forever. However, at this time, the old farmer couple could not have imagined that this name not only locked the distance between them and their children, but also locked his life.
The newborn Yang Suo is white and fat, and in terms of appearance, he is the best among the children of the clan. Seeing this, Yang's father and Yang's mother, who already loved their children, saw this, and their love for Yang Suo went to the next level. Especially Mother Yang, she has reached the point of falling in love with Yang Suo.
When Yang Suo was one or two years old, this situation still did not change. The children of the same age in the clan have gone down to the ground to learn to walk and run, and only Yang Suo is still held in his mother's arms.
The neighbors have advised Yang's mother that when the child reaches the right age, he should put it down and run and jump, which is childhood. But Mother Yang is a person who does not enter oil and salt, for the words of the neighbors, Mother Yang said, my Yang Suo is our family's baby pimple, and he will make a lot of money in the future, how can he be the same as those mud boys in your family.
The neighbors who had eaten the closed door no longer admonished Yang's mother, and she still hugged Yang Suo every day. The young Xiao Yang Suo saw his friends of the same age running happily and laughing, and he also had a trace of yearning for that kind of life. He looked at his little friend who ran away, and asked his mother curiously, "Mom, go, go?" ”
Regarding Yang Suo's question, Yang's mother replied patiently: "Baby, walk on the ground, what if you bump into it?" After a long time, Yang Suo didn't ask to walk on the ground again.
This life lasted until Yang Suo was three or four years old. Since Yang Suo was born, Yang's father has been working hard to farm, and in his spare time, he will do some private work to earn some extra money, and the economic conditions of the Yang family have gradually improved.
As soon as the economic conditions were good, the first thing that Yang's father and Yang's mother thought of was Yang Suo. Originally, Xiao Yang Suo, like his parents, had three meals a day, coarse tea and light rice, but since the economic conditions were good, Yang's father and Yang mother wanted to add food to Yang Suo, and bought meat for Yang Suo to eat in different ways.
Soon, Yang Suo found his favorite meat dish - chicken thighs. Yang Suo's love for chicken legs is extraordinary, and at Yang Suo's request, chicken legs have become a must-have dish on the Yang family's dinner table. Because he was always raised by his parents with good food and drink, Yang Suo at that time still looked down on the chicken legs made in the village. In order to satisfy Yang Suo's wishes, the vegetable market in the township has become a place where Yang's father goes every day.
In this way, the weight of the three- or four-year-old Yang Suo is very fast, and it is no longer something that Yang's mother can hold, just as the neighbors thought that they could finally see Yang Suo walking, Yang's mother's operation startled them.
In Yang's mother's view, her son is the "golden pimple" in the family, and even if she can't hold it, she doesn't want her son to walk on the ground. Just when Yang's mother was at a loss, she saw a bamboo basket and bamboo pole in the corner.
That's right! I can't hold it, I can still pick it!
So, from that day on, a strange "landscape" appeared in Zhutang Township. Whenever everyone went out to prepare to go to the field, they could always see the Yang family and his wife carrying their son to the field.
At this time, Yang Suo still retains a little curiosity about new things and his concern for his parents. More than once, neighbors saw that the little boy sitting on the ridge of the field where the Yang family and his wife were farming often jumped down to help his parents, but they stopped him.
In the words of Yang's father and Yang's mother, Yang Suo is the baby bump in the family, how can he work in the field? At this time, the love of the Yang family and his wife for their son has deteriorated, which is no longer love, but irregular doting.
Under such doting, when Yang Suo was five or six years old, the little boy who was once white and fat and loved by everyone was gone, and was replaced by a pretentious and selfish ghost.
Yang Suo used to be chubby and cute, and he also had three friends in the village. Yang's father and Yang's mother observed that Yang Suo was smart and quick to react when playing with friends. This further strengthened the adoptive father Yang's mother to think that her son would have a great creation in the future, and began to instill absurd ideas such as "you are a genius" and "you are a nobleman" in his son.
Gradually, under such subtle understanding, Yang Suo, who began to understand things, thought that he was the person his parents said had great creation, and looked down on the children who grew up with him.
Once, Yang's father and Yang's mother bought a lard bun for Yang Suo. They broke the lard buns and let Yang Suo, who was playing with the children not far away, eat them.
The main ingredients of lard buns are lard and flour, which is a very luxurious snack in the eyes of children in that era when meat is rare for ordinary people. But Yang Suo is different, Yang Suo, who is used to eating chicken legs, doesn't like the greasy lard, and he spits out the lard bun that his parents fed into his mouth.
Just when Yang Suo wanted to turn his head to play with the children, he saw his friends staring intently at the lard bun he didn't like, and a sense of pride rose from Yang Suo's heart, not only did he not share the unwanted lard bun with his friends, but also stepped on the lard bun that the little friends dreamed of into the ground, completely ignoring his parents' distress about the lard bun.
Since then, the children of the village have stopped interacting with Yang Suo.
Soon, Yang Suo was of school age, and Yang's father and Yang mother happily sent Yang Suo to a local elementary school. In their minds, they still clearly remember that Yang Suo, who was smart and clever among the children, was extraordinarily prominent. Yang's father and Yang's mother firmly believe that after entering the school, Yang Suo must still be the smartest one!
The ideal is very plump, and the reality is very skinny. Although Yang Suo is indeed smart and clever, he refuses to learn, never listens in class, influences other children in class as he wants, and never completes the homework assigned by the teacher.
The teachers also advised Yang Suo that knowledge must be learned, and even if a smart person does not study, it is useless. However, Yang Suo couldn't listen to what the teacher said at all, in his heart, he was a genius, a nobleman, and a great creation! In desperation, the teachers had no choice but to contact Yang Suo's parents to inform them of Yang Suo's performance in school, hoping to correct Yang Suo.
However, the teachers were stunned by the answer of Yang's father and Yang's mother, they said, Yang Suo is naturally smart, and it is the responsibility of the school to hand it over to the school.
The teachers finally found the reason why Yang Suo did what he wanted, and no longer assigned homework to Yang Suo. No homework is the choice of Yang Suo's parents, but in Yang Suo's opinion, isn't this because the teachers are afraid of him?
While Yang Suo was complacent, he was even more lawless in class. A teacher couldn't bear to scold Yang Suo, so he rolled and cried in the classroom, and finally comforted Yang Suo, and the next day, the teacher was complained by Yang's father and Yang's mother.
Since then, no teacher has been willing to discipline Yang Suo. The school arranged Yang Suo in a small corner of the classroom, and Yang's father and Yang's mother, who learned about it, didn't care, in their opinion, their son was smart enough to sit in **, it was all the same. Not only that, Yang's father and Yang's mother also prepared a big schoolbag for Yang Suo, but what was in this schoolbag was not school supplies, but all kinds of snacks.
In this way, Yang Suo spent his elementary school years in a daze. Unlike other children, Yang Suo, who graduated from primary school, was reluctant to enter junior high school, and Yang's father and mother refused Yang Suo's request, so Yang Suo gave up his studies and became a "homeless wanderer" who took a break from school and stayed at home.
Since then, Yang Suo has rarely appeared in the eyes of the villagers, and just when everyone thought that Yang Suo appeared in front of the public because of what he had done, a party stunned everyone.
It was a family gathering of the Yang clan, and it was a great joy for the children of the Yang clan to get together, but Yang Suo couldn't feel the joy of the children of the Yang family present. Under the doting of his parents, Yang Suo at this time was already a complete egoist.
So, when the banquet started, Yang Suo was unhappy when he saw that there was no chicken leg on the table that he must eat at every meal. He cried regardless of the occasion, no matter how much his parents persuaded him, the atmosphere of joy was broken, and embarrassment permeated the scene. Just when everyone thought that Yang's father and Yang's mother were going to teach Yang Suo a lesson, something unexpected happened. Father Yang actually rushed to the town to buy chicken legs and came back!
Yang Suo, who saw the chicken legs, finally stopped crying and ate the food fed by Yang's father and Yang's mother one bite at a time.
After this banquet, everyone in Zhutang Township finally understood that Yang Suo was living at home, ** had no face to see people, and he was obviously too lazy to go out! A 12-year-old able-bodied child who still lets his parents feed him, if it's not because he's lazy, what else can it be?
When Yang Suo was 13 years old, a quiet change changed the fate of the Yang family.
In 1999, when Yang Suo was 13 years old, Yang's father, who was usually healthy, suddenly felt unbearable abdominal pain and went to the hospital for examination, and the results showed that Yang's father was suffering from liver cancer, which was already at an advanced stage at this time.
For this small family supported by Yang's father, it is undoubtedly a bolt from the blue. In order to cure Yang's father, Yang's mother took out all the family's savings. However, Yang's father was diagnosed with liver cancer too late, and he was already terminally ill, and the money invested was only exchanged for a few months for Yang's father.
A few months later, Yang's father passed away, and to Yang's mother's shock, the son they grew up holding in the palm of his hand only shed a few tears on the day of his father's burial, and then as usual, he ate and drank as if he had passed away as a stranger!
Yang's mother reacted at this time, and for the first time had doubts about her education method, is it really wrong to pamper her son?
However, life obviously does not allow Yang's mother to think so much, and the family's savings have been spent on Yang's father's medical treatment, and the son at this time is a big spender, and Yang's father has just passed away, and Yang's mother has invested in high-intensity work.
Yang's mother worked in the town during the day, returned to the village to cultivate the land at night, and after returning home, she had to wait for her son to wash, tidy up the house messed up by her son, rest for a while, and rush to the town to work.
The cycle went on and on, and finally, Yang's mother became ill from hard work and fell in the field.
When Yang's mother woke up again, she had been sent home by the kind villagers, and at this time Yang's mother was lying on the bed weakly, her clothes were stained with mud, there was no water to drink, no food to eat, and there was only one son playing with toys by her side.
At this time, Yang Suo, when he saw his mother wake up, asked his mother to boil water to drink and cook for him. This plunged the weakened Yang Mu into the abyss of despair. She dragged the sick body to boil water, cooked rice, and said to her gobbling son: "Son, you need to see the land at home, don't play anymore, okay?" ”
What Yang's mother didn't expect was that Yang Suo didn't agree! Months of grievances and hardships broke out at this moment, and Yang's mother scolded Yang Suo for the first time. But he never thought that Yang Suo saw that his mother, who had always been obedient, scolded him, and he was so angry that he did it to Yang's mother!
At this time, Yang Suo was already a 170-meter-tall young man, and Yang's mother had no power to fight back at all, and was soon beaten to the ground by Yang Suo. Mother Yang fell to the ground crying in despair, Yang Suo's shot can be regarded as breaking Mother Yang's illusion for many years.
What genius is rich and what is smart, all turned into nothingness at this time, and what is left for Yang's mother is only full of remorse.
The next day, in order to live, Yang's mother started her previous work again. He worked during the day and farmed at night, and finally became ill and collapsed forever.
The death of Yang's mother brought the same emotional impact to Yang Suo as Yang's father, and in just one day, Yang Suo was no longer sentimental. After Yang's mother died, she left behind a sum of savings, and Yang Suo took this savings and lived a chic life like before. But it didn't take long for that savings to be spent by Yang Suo.
After Yang Suo spent all the money left by his mother, he lived a begging life like a beggar until his penniless state was known to his cousins.
The Yang clan is a big family, there are many children of the Yang family, and Yang Suo's branch, in addition to him, there are 8 brothers. After knowing Yang Suo's situation, 8 cousins took Yang Suo in successively, but Yang Suo had too many bad habits, feeding, no one in his eyes, and selfishness, so after a period of time, no one dared to take Yang Suo in.
At this time, a cousin named Yang Deyu stood up. This cousin is the best of the 8 cousins, a contractor, and he left Yang Suo with one last path, that is, to work on the construction site.
Yang Deyu thought, after all, they are brothers, even if he is cheating and tricky, as long as he is willing to work, he will give him a bite to eat. However, Yang Suo's actions surprised Yang Deyu.
As soon as Yang Suo arrived at the construction site, he found a shady place to sleep, and never paid attention to any work arranged by Yang Deyu. Not only that, but he would also cry out in the shade, which caused public anger. Yang Deyu tried his best to save Yang Suo, who was lazy, but what Yang Deyu didn't expect was that the next day, Yang Suo secretly ran home.
In this regard, Yang Deyu really realized that this cousin was hopeless, and finally gave up Yang Suo.
Yang Suo, who returned to the village, still had nothing to do, in order to ensure the appearance of the village, the kind-hearted village cadres arranged a job for Yang Suo to watch the gate. However, Yang Suo, who was lazy and lazy, was soon dismissed.
After this dismissal, Yang Suo's reputation spread in this area, no one was willing to hire Yang Suo, and Yang Suo also gave up on himself and started his career as a beggar.
He began to beg for food from house to house in the village, but this was not a long-term solution. As the days went by, no villager was willing to take care of Yang Suo, so he began to attack his own home.
First pots and pans, then furniture and TVs, and finally beds, as long as they can be sold, Yang Suo sold them all. The money in exchange was all used by Yang Suo for eating, drinking and having fun, until he spent all the money from selling the furniture, and Yang Suo found that he really had nothing left at this time.
Even so, Yang Suo did not have the idea of working hard to make money by himself, but instead lived at home, eating and waiting for death. After a long time, when people see Yang Suo again, Yang Suo at that time, described as a beggar, will be a little too much.
Not bathing for a long time filled Yang Suo's body with stench, lice made their home on his head, and next to the corner where he slept, there was a simple thatched pit he dug by hand. Flies, mosquitoes, lice, and cockroaches became Yang Suo's neighbors, but even so, he still didn't take a step out of the door, as if he was nailed to that corner, motionless.
In the winter of 2009, Yang Deyu, who was holding a banquet at home, suddenly remembered his cousin, and out of sympathy, he put some hot meals and planned to give them to Yang Suo.
I never thought that when I opened the door of Yang Suo's house, a foul smell came from the surface, and Yang Deyu looked inside, and Yang Suo's home at this time can be described as an empty shell.
Yang Suo was lying not far away, in front of him was a bonfire burned with beams in the house, Yang Deyu shouted a few times, and found that Yang Suo did not move, and when he got closer, he found that Yang Suo at this time had already died.
According to the forensic examination report, Yang Suo died of starvation in a state of long-term hunger and cold.
The news of Yang Suo's death spread in Zhutang Township, but no one felt sad about it, just like Yang Suo's death of his parents, which was forgotten by everyone in just one day.
Combined with Yang Suo's matter, it is not difficult for us to find that spoiled children like Yang Suo are endless, and behind these bear children, there are generally unreasonable parents to support them.
In this regard, we can draw a conclusion, it is okay to love children, but it is absolutely impossible to spoil children. Children are a blank sheet of paper, and under good guidance, they have the possibility of becoming peerless paintings; But under the guidance of bad, it is not easy to even become a painting.
Yang Suo is the biggest alarm bell, I hope this first lazy man is the first and the last.