When it comes to the Chinese New Year, I believe that many friends of the right age but unmarried are already sad, and it is important to go home to see their parents for the New Year. But if nothing else, the army of marriage urges is already waiting at home.
It always has beenEvery festive season, I think of my relatives, and now I must go on a blind date every Spring FestivalThe parents at home, the seven aunts and the eight aunts don't worry about whether you can buy a return ticket. Helping you get through your life events is their top priority this year.
Those friends who have been arranged to go on a blind date must be distressed and don't know what to do, today I will teach you how to deal with blind dates correctly, these may be able to help you.
Don't be prejudiced against blind dates.
First of all, don't be prejudiced or preconceived about blind dates, some friends think that blind dates are a shameful thing, or think that blind dates are a very cheap thing.
Actually, there is nothing wrong with blind dates per se. Blind date is just a way and a means. You might as well think about it differently, there is a certain threshold for blind dates, and a certain amount of screening has been carried out indirectly for everyone.
It's just that blind dates are faster and more realistic than free love. This may make some single friends feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable, but blind dates can also find sweet love. And the blind date is not to let everyone fall in love and get married as soon as it comes up, just to meet, if you feel that you can't produce a spark, you can politely refuse.
Look at the process simply, and don't care too much about the so-called results.
Most of the reason why many people resist blind dates is that they feel awkward to suddenly have to communicate their situation with someone they have never met before and do not know at all.
In fact, if you want to resolve the embarrassment of a blind date, you only need to look at the blind date process briefly, and treat it as an appointment for a meal. If you find that the blind date is worth our time to continue to know, you can learn about it later. If it is found that there is no spark, then it can be politely refused.
We don't have to go on a blind date for the sake of going on a blind date, and this experience can actually make us more clear and recognize what we really want.
If you don't want to go on a blind date, you don't have to be reluctant to communicate with your family in a timely manner.
If you really don't want to go on a blind date, sit down with your family calmly and explain the reason, I believe your family will understand, after all, communication can better understand our current thoughts.
Many times, in order to cope with their parents and family, everyone agrees to go on a blind date, but in the process of blind date, they will feel like they are sitting on pins and needles and feel embarrassed. It's not good for you and your family.
In a word. Blind date is actually not a "flood beast", everyone looks at it rationally, and it is also a manifestation of free love. For us, it is also an opportunity to find love, so you might as well try it