I watched "Ode to Joy" at home during the holidays, this is a 2015 TV series, and time flies quickly.
When I watched it in 2015, everyone should like Andy and Qu Xiaoxuan, or rather, all girls want to live as Andy and Qu Xiaoxuan, and like the little girl with an elite style, like Guan Guan, who took Andy as a role model back then, and wanted to live a wanton life, imitating Qu Fairy's way of speaking and doing things, and even dressing.
Back then, I remember that there were a lot of articles analyzing Qu Xiaoxuan's classic lines, love comes and goes quickly, only pork rolls are eternal".
How popular Qu Xiaoxuan was back then, so how annoying Qiu Yingying was, until today, I watched this drama again, whether it was Director Bai's bridge, or any Qiu Yingying speaking loudly, startled, roaring and roaring, and even as long as she appeared, there were still a lot of barrages, "I hate her so much", "How can there be such an annoying woman", "Since I watched Qiu Yingying, it is difficult to like Yang Zi now", and even lost his job to retake the interview, and met Director Bai at the job fair and was beaten, Most of the barrage is, "deserved" and "well done".
Back then, in 2015, I was 27 years old, I was also a very strong person, I like to watch the glamorous Andy, the free and happy Qu Xiaoxuan, I think life is to live like this is exciting, I can't wait to see Qiu Yingying's role and fast forward, I will think, this is too low.
But now, 6 years have passed, I am 33 years old, and I carefully watch every scene and every line of Qiu YingyingI said seriously, there are a lot of very precious things in her. And it is precisely these things that determine the background color of life.
She can carry it better than Fan Shengmei
I saw this time, when I went back to Fan Shengmei's hometown, there was a crying scene by Jiang Xin's bridge, and I suddenly realized this.
Xiao Fan's mother is patriarchal, and Jiang Xin suddenly endured it for so long and broke out that paragraph.
You see, this is the situation in my family, for so many years, I can't do anything at all, no matter what I do, it's useless, it's not that I don't want to work hard, I'm afraid that there will be mistakes if I pay too much, I'm afraid that others will grasp these mistakes and become a handle, so that I don't have such a salary until now. ”
She said that half of the money had to be remitted to her family, and the rest of the money was simply not going to allow her to survive in a place like Shanghai.
"I'm also a girl, I also want to have a glamorous appearance, I want to be like Qu Xiaoxuan, like Andy, wear good-looking clothes, carry brand-name bags, but no, I don't have money, I can only buy some A goods...
Xiaofan grew up in such a patriarchal family of origin, but if you look closely at her description and perception of her own situation (of course she has done a very good job).But with these few words, you will find that she is not a problem-solving oriented character.
She felt that no matter how hard she worked, she was afraid that she would lose the job if she gave too much, and she knew that she was struggling
This is her situation. And what about the life she longs for?
She yearns for Andy Qu Xiaoxuan's life, she calls these "I am also a girl, I also want to wear beautiful clothes and carry brand-name bags", of course, there is nothing wrong with the yearning for a better lifeBut if you yearn for a life far away from your own circumstances, you are easy to get frustrated, easy to want to take shortcuts, easy to pin your hopes on others, and wrong time to spend on things and people that are even less worthwhile, which is the most terrible.
What Xiao Fan longs for is that someone will appear and save her from fire and water.
But Qiu Yingying is not.
She doesn't envy Andy, she doesn't envy Qu Xiaoxuan
Although Qiu Yingying does not have an extreme patriarchal family like Xiaofan, she is also an extremely ordinary young man in a small town, or she is not middle-class.
Although she doesn't have to send money home, even if she relies on her own salary, she can't live the life of Andy and Qu Xiaoxuan.
You say, does she envy them? Of course, it's envy, but that kind of envy that talks in generalities is the kind of envy that sincerely feels that you are good, but you will never want to get it because of envy, because you want it very much, and you can't afford to buy a big brand.
She, not vain.
On the contrary, she is actually a rare down-to-earth.
Just graduated, I also longed to sit in the office for a white-collar life, but after the farce with Director Bai, I went to a coffee shop to work as a waiter, and I also seized the opportunity to see the e-commerce business opportunities and made surprising results.
It's not for everyone.
Who can go from a small white-collar worker in an office to a waiter in a coffee shop without being aggrieved?
You can also be down-to-earth from the position of waiter, inspire unlimited fighting spirit, make **, engage in e-commerce, and live a lively and sincere life.
Able to bend and stretch, not afraid of setbacks, never gave up hard work, as if after crying, it is a pat of the soil, and tomorrow is a good man, heh, this is simply a heroic girl I envy.
There is also the part where the rent is raised, the landlord wants to raise the rent, only she proposes it, she has to cook by herself, and it is too expensive to eat out.
Our breakfast shop downstairs costs 12 yuan for the cheapest, and then a bun and a soy milk in the morning cost 5 yuan. ”
Xiao Fan was theoretically more nervous than Qiu Yingying, but she immediately showed her fear, saying that she didn't eat dinner and that she didn't participate.
Of course it's very possible, but it's also unlikely that you don't eat every meal. And as mentioned earlier, she also buys breakfast to eat. Although money is tight, she is not willing to do it herself, and in that sentence, she is not solution-oriented.
And Qiu Yingying is a person who is based on her own current situation, solves problems, and is not afraid of hardship and tiredness to find solutions at all.
Xiao Fan will only envy what others have, and wants to find a shortcut, and he has it himself.
But,Qiu Yingying, not vain, not envious, within her own ability, to create her own happy and satisfactory life.
I said that at the age of 33, I no longer envy Andy Qu Xiaoxuan, but I found thatThis is what Qiu Yingying, who is in her early 20s, did it early, which is extremely commendable and a great wisdom
It's always easy to sigh and sigh, it's easy to complain that there is no chance, it's easy to be unfair,But under his current situation and circumstances, he is still a good man, and it is not easy to wake up and have a new day
In the 20+ extreme desire for a glamorous life is easyIt's not easy to be down-to-earth and create your own little day.
In the city, in fact, there are Fan Shengmei and Wang Manni, in the 20+ days, they always want to get things that they can't reach, of course, this is too normal, who doesn't envy a more glamorous life.
Therefore, 30+, not vain, not strong, can create the life you want with your own hands, is the solution. And this solution, Qiu Yingying, who is in her early 20s, has long had it.
Encourage you.