Why do the people closest to you always hurt you the most? It's because they understand your weaknesses.
The people closest to you hurt you the most because they understand your weaknesses. They know where you hurt and know how to make you hurt the most.
When we have a conflict with someone closest to us, we tend to get emotional and say hurtful things. These words are like a sharp knife that deeply pierces the other person's heart. However, this does not mean that the people closest to you are deliberately hurting you. They may just say something drastic because of their emotions or some other reason.
Therefore, we need to learn to be tolerant and understanding, and not to give up on a relationship easily. At the same time, we also need to learn to protect ourselves and not let other people's emotions dictate our lives. We can't control what others say or do, but we can choose how to respond. If the other person's behavior is beyond your bottom line, you need to be brave enough to express your position and attitude.
Dealing with conflicts and contradictions in interpersonal relationships is an art that requires us to resolve them with love and understanding. Only by truly doing this can the relationship be more harmonious and beautiful.
We always say the most cruel words to the people closest to us, hurt the hearts of those closest to us, and give the best gentleness to outsiders.