Why expect to grow up.
I recently talked to a child and found out that his dream was the same as when I was a child, but the initial origin of this idea was different. He said that he saw that his mother could buy him toys, but he himself could not buy toys for himself every day, so he could only wait for the adults in the family to impulsively spend on him on a whim one day. After buying it, I will regret it when I see him playing with toys, why buy it for him, and don't study anymore, it is better to buy yourself a lipstick, hey.
I was amazed at his amazing ability to express myself when he said that my mother said that I would be rich when I grew up, and that I would buy as much as I wanted. So, it's good to grow up. I laughed, even though he was very good at verbalizing his maturity, he was still a kid after all. When I was a child, I saw so many beautiful young ladies, and I was so envious, I said that if only I were as beautiful as them. Mom asked why, and I said that it was said on TV, that the beautiful ones have struggled for ten years. My mother said that women have changed eighteen times, and you are more beautiful than them when you grow up. To this day, I would like to say that there are many people who work harder and more beautifully. I didn't look much better when I grew up, but I had makeup and plastic surgery. That child doesn't know that he won't be rich when he grows up, he will be rich if he works hard to make money, and he won't be "luxury" when he grows up, and the adult's favorite toy is money. However, it is true that you can spend impulsively when you grow up, and it is often accompanied by regrets.
In the end, it's all about changes in mentality and real needs. When I was a child, I just wanted to be satisfied with the present, but when I grew up, it was far from that simple. But everybody is growing up, everybody is on the way. So expect everything that happens on the road.
In addition, in my story with my mother, I found that she did not correct my values, (after all, her education level is there, just make me happy) and directly influenced my views and judgments on issues in her way. Therefore, the influence of parents on children is indeed great, and education methods should be paid attention to. At the same time, fairy tales are also a trigger for me to easily have fantasies, too many Cinderellas and princes, too many absolute bad people, too many miracles, etc. So it can only be a fairy tale, and you can only imagine such a kingdom when you are ignorant.
The reality is that the protagonist's halo can only be fought for by our own efforts in our lives, without the help of all walks of life in fairy tales. But this does not prevent the beauty of parallel time and space fairy tales.
So in fact, all kinds of wonderful experiences.