I'll tell you a shocking truth: how can you be sure they really want you to climb up?
If someone in the family can enter the officialdom, do you think your father wants to be in the position himself, or is he more optimistic about you?
Also, if someone in the family wins the 5 million jackpot, do you guess your dad would want to win, or would he prefer to give you this chance?
Young people have to see through the meaning behind their parents' ridiculous remarks to truly understand them.
You know, what do your parents mean when they say, "My uncle's child earns millions"?
Do they really want you to be an official?
First of all, this is very oppressive and wants to discourage you; Secondly, it is to make you feel that you have a low status and feel guilty, but you must be obedient, filial to your parents, and let them go.
Mercy. It's a pity that being productive and obedient and sensible are sometimes the opposite.
Take a look, does your father want you to be Liu Qiangdong more, or does he want you to be obedient?
But listening to your parents, can you become Liu Qiangdong?
A child who is controlled by his parents to death, can't even seize the opportunity, and has been an obedient wage earner all his life.
For your parents, if you want to soar, you have to turn the people in the family into you, are they willing?
When have you seen your parents pay for you?
But they will pretend to lay down their lives for you.
You see, they wish you were always with them, obedient and obedient.
Besides, how many children have you seen who work in big cities and their parents are willing to pay for them to buy a house?
Even if you have money, you are unlikely to buy a house for your children outside.
Look at the prodigy his father, his son is a genius, his father does not allow his son to go to a better school, nor is he allowed to study in Germany, and his son will highlight his incompetence, too.
It will make him feel unbalanced.
You were born to provide for retirement, how can you watch you take off?
If you really want to succeed, how can they control you, how can they manipulate you?
It's these funny parents, tossing around in their hometown all day long, wanting to be emperors at home, do you think they dare to go to the big city?
Once out of their comfort zone, they panic.
But as long as you are with the people in the village, they can find common ground and unite to suppress you, they are afraid of losing control, and the so-called making you motivated is to make you filial.
Shun them. Wake up, do you think your parents really love you?
In fact, they are quite good and know how to pinch you to maximize their benefits.