"I don't want to go to school" contains children's voices, parents should not ignore!
Nowadays, the issue of adolescents has become a social dilemma. They are tired of school, addicted to games, unwilling to communicate with their parents behind closed doors, and their lives lose their meaning.
For my daughter who is about to enter puberty, as a father, I temporarily let go of my desire to be a father and chose to listen, accept and understand.
I don't go to school"By the sixth grade, the school had taken a step-by-step approach to raising the importance of primary education to a new level, with daily tests in Chinese, math and English courses, which meant that children in grades 1 to 5 were suddenly scrambled to complain that their teachers were crazy.
This"Unlucky bastard", that is, his own daughter, also attracted the attention of the math teacher and asked to give her make-up lessons. As a result, his daughter, who was already very reluctant to study mathematics, has become even more reluctant and says that she will never go to school again.
My daughter spoke about her experience of not wanting to study at home, feeling ashamed, and wanting to study at home, and I agreed, but she also defended her point of view:"Teaching what we lose is much more effective than learning it on our own"γ
The complaint of not wanting to go to school turned into a habit of not getting up in the morning, eating breakfast slowly, brushing your teeth slowly, getting dressed slowly, not in a hurry, just waiting.
Sometimes I just can't take it anymore and leave. Stomach pain, leg pain, headache, cold, she doesn't want to go to school, I don't know if her mom is more concerned about her health or grades.
Sometimes she feels like she doesn't want to work, but she has to work, just like her children. Sometimes she complains about the day before school, and I'll pick her up tomorrow.
I'm worried that the kids won't want to go to school. I agree that school is a very important environment for children to grow up. The heavier one end of the scale, the more it has to move towards the other end to maintain balance.
The good news is that my daughter's academic performance is slowly improving as she learns more math and recognizes herself as a resilient person.
He scored above 90 points in the language, which shows that he has not given up on his studies.
While our brains tend to focus on unpleasant things, we can choose to remain self-aware and say to ourselves when our attention is drawn to negative things:"I get it, and I'm going to look for the good next"γ
One day, on his way home from school, he told me:"I had a great time today, the teacher asked us to put the class work in the book, and I saw the teacher's comments..."γIt's a good idea to adapt to school life with positive actions and find a balance between hate and love.