Every morning, the morning sun shines gently on the faces of Lao Zhang and his wife through the gaps in the mist. Lao Zhang is a tall and burly middle-aged man, with a pair of gentle and resolute eyes inlaid under his thick eyebrows.
His hands are rough and strong, and every time he holds his daughter-in-law's little hand, he can feel warmth and peace of mind. His wife, Liang Juan, is an elegant and dignified woman, her face is full of a kind smile, and her mature and stable temperament makes people feel at ease.
During their daughter-in-law's pregnancy, the family moved to their son's city, hoping to take care of the pregnant woman and the upcoming baby. They put down their retirement life, and with full of love and expectation, they lived in their son's house with a large bag on their backs.
Since then, the family has worked together and lived in harmony. Lao Zhang is in charge of cooking, and his wife Liang Juan concentrates on taking care of her daughter-in-law and baby, and they cooperate with each other tacitly to keep the house in order. Under their careful care, the daughter-in-law's body gradually recovered, and the baby grew up healthy and happy, and the family was always full of laughter.
When the daughter-in-law was out of confinement, the couple specially asked the young couple's opinion: "Do you want us to stay and take care of Xiaobao, or do we add some family to you, and you ask someone to take care of it?" After many discussions, the young couple unanimously decided to let the nagging Lao Zhang and his wife stay to take care of Xiaobao, after all, they are experienced grandparents and are relatively reliable. So, Lao Zhang and his wife started a new way of life, they stayed at their son and daughter-in-law's house and took care of Xiaobao full-time.
The son and daughter-in-law usually go to work as usual, and the family cooperates tacitly, like a sophisticated machine. Every day after school, my son and daughter-in-law will play with the children, and the whole family will enjoy family fun. The child's growth began as a toddler, and Lao Zhang and his wife carefully taught him to walk steadily.
They encourage the child to take every step bravely, and no matter if he falls or cries, his grandparents will always be there to help him get back up. Time flies like a white horse, the child has already gone to kindergarten, Lao Zhang is responsible for picking up his grandson to and from school, and Liang Juan is responsible for housework and cooking at home. The family was full of laughter and laughter all the time, and everyone felt happiness and warmth.
But life is always full of uncertainties, and at the end of March 2022, a bad news broke the peace of the family. Son Xiao Zhang died in a sudden accident, and this sudden change made Lao Zhang and his wife feel heartache and loss. At Xiao Zhang's funeral, the couple wept bitterly, their liver and intestines were broken, and they couldn't believe that their biological son had passed away.
However, when they are trying to regroup and continue to guard their son's home, the daughter-in-law's decision leaves them jaw-dropping. The daughter-in-law packed her luggage and took Xiaobao back to her parents' house.
Soon after, the daughter-in-law offered to sell the house and start a new life in a different place. Although Lao Zhang and his wife were unwilling, they couldn't bear to go against their daughter-in-law's wishes and agreed to her request. They moved back to their homes, leaving their former home gloomily.
However, Lao Zhang and his wife have not been able to see their grandson for a long time, and every time they want to see the big baby they take care of, the daughter-in-law always refuses for various reasons. Disappointment and pain filled the hearts of Lao Zhang and his wife, they felt guilty, recalled countless good times living with their son and daughter-in-law, they thought they were doing well, but they didn't understand what went wrong to make their daughter-in-law so decisive.
In the past 50 years, the husband and wife have never flinched, and they are full of responsibility and persistence for their actions of denouncing their daughter-in-law in court. They filed a lawsuit to exercise their right to visit their grandson, Xiaobao. They want to be able to see their grandson grow up in person and miss the good times with him.
Uncle Tang's opinion: Lao Zhang and his wife should exercise the right to visit their grandson.
1.As the grandparents of the children, Lao Zhang and his wife have always been important companions and supporters of their grandchildren's growth. They played an important role in their grandchildren's education when they were young, and they should have the right to continue to be in touch with their grandchildren, giving them love and support.
2.Children are an important bond of the family and the hope of the future, and the existence of Lao Zhang and his wife is crucial to the growth of children. They have a responsibility to pass on family values and traditions and should be allowed to maintain a strong bond with their grandchildren in order to positively influence their growth and development.
Grandma Li's point of view: The daughter-in-law has the right to refuse the visit request of Lao Zhang and his wife.
1.It is within the daughter-in-law's power to have custody and decision-making power over the child, and she has the right to decide whether to allow Lao Zhang and his wife to meet with their grandson. To respect her decision is to respect her authority as the mother of the child.
2.If the daughter-in-law has her own considerations and reasons, such as psychological or financial reasons, to refuse the visitation rights request of the Lao Zhang couple, they should respect her choice and communicate with her to seek an appropriate solution instead of enforcing the visitation rights through legal means.
Legal Opinions:1According to the Civil Procedure Law of the People's Republic of China, citizens have the right to visit their relatives, and it is legal for Lao Zhang and his wife to file a lawsuit to exercise their right to visit their grandson Xiaobao.
2.According to the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, parents have rights and obligations over the custody and education of their children, and a daughter-in-law's refusal to allow Lao Zhang and his wife to visit their grandchildren may be in violation of the law.
3.Given that Sun Zi Xiaobao has the right to maintain a kinship relationship with his grandparents, the daughter-in-law, as the guardian, should not deprive them of their visitation rights. The court has the right to make a judgment to protect the legitimate rights and interests of Lao Zhang and his wife.
4.If the daughter-in-law does not agree to exercise the right of visitation, the court has the power to decide in favor of Xiaobao, such as arranging regular or conditional visits, in order to protect the interests of her grandson, Xiaobao.