Have you ever noticed that even though you say a lot, a person doesn't answer a word, and you even think he's deaf?
In the world of feelings, it can sometimes feel like a man and a woman are creatures from two different planets, but it is always difficult to communicate.
This feeling is even more frustrating, especially if the man you love always seems to be unable to hear you.
In fact, many times, their ears don't really hear and choose not to hear. In other words, men who don't love you are often "ignored."
1.When you talk to him, he listens to others.
There is a man with whom I always feel like I am playing the piano to a cow. You're obviously talking to him about dinner plans for the evening, and then he suddenly comments on a football match.
At this time, you may wonder if you have a problem with your ability to express yourself or if you have a problem with his ability to understand. But in fact, it's just one of the signs that he doesn't love you.
He doesn't love you, so your words are like whispers in the wind, coming from one ear to the other, leaving no trace in his heart.
It's like inefficient communication. You talk endlessly, and he talks to himself. As the famous saying goes, "The biggest obstacle to communication is the indifference of the other person." "Your words are as thin as air to the other person, and you can't grasp any information at all.
2.Extreme hearing loss.
There are other types of men. It's not that you can't hear at all, it's that you have selective hearing loss. In other words, you only hear what you want to hear and automatically block what you don't want to hear.
For example, if you remind him to remember an anniversary, he might smile and agree, then turn around and forget about it all. It's not because he really doesn't have a good memory, it's because he doesn't think the question is important and worth remembering.
This act of selective deafness is actually a refusal to be silent. He uses his actions to show that he doesn't care about your feelings or needs.
As the saying goes, "He who pretends to be asleep will not wake up." In the same way, people who don't love you can't hear you.
3.All you say is "nonsense".
When some men don't love women, she thinks her words are "nonsense". Whatever you say, you will respond with a rough attitude.
For example, if you are happy to share the fruits of your labor with him, he may simply say, "Oh, that's good" and move on to his own thing. This independent attitude makes you feel that everything you say is unnecessary nonsense.
This is actually a kind of emotional ignorance. If he doesn't love you, your words lose their meaning and value to him.
As the poem says: "When you meet a confidant, a thousand glasses of wine is too little, and half a sentence is too much." "How much more can you say when a man doesn't love you anymore? It will be in vain.
4.Silence is money, but it doesn't apply to you.
I often say that "silence is golden", but in the world of emotions, this is not always the case.
Especially in the face of a man who doesn't love you, it turns out that his silence is not golden, but some kind of indifference and rejection.
He chooses to be silent and not communicate with you, and he would rather run away than face your problems. This silence makes you feel helpless and hopeless, as if the relationship is over.
This silence is actually silent**. He tells you that he no longer loves you in his own way.
As the lyrics say, "Silence is not about not wanting to speak because you are depressed." "When a man chooses you, he tends to lose his emotional expression.
Conclusion: In the emotional world, we all want to understand and understand their words. But unfortunately, not all love is reciprocated.
If a man doesn't love you, you may not be able to hear your voice and not understand your feelings.
But don't forget, it's not your fault. You don't have to deny your worth just to a man who doesn't love you. Believe in yourself and your future. That way, you'll always find someone who is willing to listen to your story and cherish it.