88 years old 36-year-old full-time mother, since I was unemployed in November last year, I have been trying to grope for myself.
After all, I suddenly lost a good income, and I was still quite disappointed.
At that time, there was no doorway, and there were headless flies running around, which led to many decisions that were not considered, and without exception, it became a fat leek.
In January this year, I began to contact ** output, and I seem to have found one thing that can fit my interests and have the motivation to stick to it, learn to take pictures every day, retouch pictures, write notes, and do it more seriously than going to work, and often joke with Li Xiansen that this is my current job.
Needless to say, how hard it is for a full-time mother, I want to do something more than I want to do with a baby alone, and I can't wait for myself to be like me now.
There are basically no breaks.
My daughter is one and a half years old, and the daytime is basically given to her, and this age is when she is ignorant of electronic products, so I basically don't use my mobile phone during the day and can only take pictures and retouch pictures when she is napping. As long as you have a little time, you can hurry up and read books.
Work can be interrupted at any moment.
Even if you go to bed late and get up early, you have a certain amount of free time to belong to yourself, and it is inevitable that your daughter will wake up and need to sleep again, three meals a day, and your daughter's supplementary food, you must plan the time to prepare.
There is basically no socialization.
This is probably a common problem for stay-at-home mothers, although I occasionally chat with my former colleagues, and the feeling is still different when I leave the company and when I am on the job.
Discussing some related topics with my own partners is probably my current social channel.
Still, I'm willing to persevere. The point is not to immerse yourself in the predicament, but to constantly adjust and find the best way and state that suits you.
1.Plan your time.
Balance the time with the baby and work, make a plan according to the actual situation, which time period can be completely owned by you every day, and what can be done at this time to produce results, you must know in your heart.
2.Define your goals.
This goal is small and specific, for example, when the child is napping, he plans to write notes and take pictures when he wants to. Instead of thinking about this and that, I also want it, and the time is wasted after struggling.
3.Think about the theme.
I wasted a lot of time in this area before, and at the same time I wanted to write about several topics, and the result was that I didn't write two words for an hour, and I thought about the topic of the note in advance, and I didn't swipe my phone to distract myself from writing before writing, and I wrote one by one.
4.Make good use of your spare time.
After becoming a mother, I will find that there is really not enough time! The use of the whole block of time is small and precious and fragmented time is really important. Choosing topics and retouching pictures while sleeping is what I often do.
5.Focus on your health.
Sleep well, eat well, whether it is with a baby or self-a**, it is a protracted battle, and at any time, your health must be put first.
6.Mobilize teammates.
Always be sure: it is because you are guarding the rear at home, so Bao Dad can work hard outside with peace of mind, so your pursuit should also have his participation, mobilize the enthusiasm of your teammates, and take a hand, you may be a little more relaxed, a little better, and a little more efficient.
Give yourself some time, plant a flower, and wait for it to bloom.