What do you think is the most important thing in marriage? Is it money? Is it emotional resonance? Or is it a personality fit? Different people have different opinions. However, there is one answer that makes people think deeply: "No matter how good a marriage looks, it will not last long if it does not support each other." This quote provokes reflections on the nature of marriage.
Economic conditions, emotional resonance, and personality compatibility are all variables in marriage, but more important is the mutual companionship and support between husband and wife. The cornerstone of marriage is not external factors, but the strong determination of each other to live life together.
Recently, a touching ** has caused heated discussions on Weibo. Deng Youcai, a young man born in the 90s in Guangxi, used his love to awaken his vegetative wife Ye Meidi. In the face of his wife's illness, he gave desperately, whether it was two craniotomys, all his savings, or the companionship and care of him day after day. His persistence and love are touching. The heartwarming story of the wife finally waking up at the call of her husband highlights the importance of supporting each other in marriage.
However, not all marriages are warm and welcoming. Some people choose to break up because the other half is unable to take responsibility and is unwilling to face the difficulties and challenges in life. In a marriage, if one party only wants to enjoy happiness and is not willing to share the responsibilities, then the marriage will eventually break down.
Marriage is not just a form, but more importantly, a core. We often judge the happiness of marriage by superficial show-off and beauty, but ignore the sincere feelings between each other and the power of mutual support. Regardless of whether there are romantic love words and sweet actions in the marriage, as long as they are heart-to-heart with each other and face the ups and downs of life together, that is a truly happy marriage.
Marriage is a ship, and it takes the joint efforts of both parties to sail to the other side of happiness. No matter what difficulties and challenges you face, as long as you walk hand in hand and face them together, that is the true meaning of marriage. In the end, the happiness of marriage does not lie in the external material conditions, but in the sincerity and firmness of the heart. Therefore, let's work together to inject more understanding, tolerance, and love into our marriage, and create a happy life that belongs to us together.
What do you think is the most important thing in marriage? What kind of marriage is a happy marriage in your eyes? Feel free to leave a message to share your views and experiences!