On the first day of junior high school, I went to the cinema to watch the long-awaited movie "Hot and Hot". The film has been bought by Sony Pictures for global distribution, and it is not only popular in China, but also abroad, and the Douban score has steadily risen to 8 points.
Except for being deeply touched, I can't put into words how I feel after watching the movie. Not only me, but the entire theater audience was reluctant to leave the theater for a long time after the movie ended. At this time, I suddenly realized that this Jia Ling on the big screen is no longer just a comedian.
She is an excellent director, a strict self-disciplined actor, and a woman who can do anything.
Jia Ling plays a woman named Le Ying in the film. Le Ying's first impression isFailed and blocked。After graduating, she hardly worked for 10 years, and lying on the sofa every day was her biggest exercise. My cousin wanted her to be on the show to introduce her to work, but she couldn't say a complete sentence. In the face of her sister's ridicule, the most she could do was to scold.
She wrapped herself in thick fat and stayed in her comfort zone, eating, sleeping, and responding to her needs.
In the show, she dissected the reason to the audienceIt feels good for everyone, but it hurts all the time
Le Ying gives people the impression of being cautious, humble and cowardly. Her eyes would look down after each sentence. She has a kind personality and is kind to everyone around her, sometimes to the point of pleasing her. She longs for the love of her family, but she is exploited by her sister. She expects the blessing of love, but experiences betrayal. In the face of all this, she justSilently give, and then silently leave
She doesn't know how to retaliate, and will only let others bully. She surrounded herself with a wall of mind, and as a result, she became numb, pessimistic, and hopeless. There was a scene that stuck in my mind – she was mechanically eating a skewerDead throughBustling streets and alleys.
The look on her body that wants to change but can't do it is vividly displayed. Haokun asked her, which is more important, 30,000 yuan or a victory? She saidWin once.
Why is winning so important?
If you've experienced what it's like to fail, if you've struggled to survive in a cruel life, you'll know how important it is for them to win once.
The passage that resonates with me the most is when Le Ying jumped from the balcony in despair and survived. She looked at herself in the mirror, and the cowardice of more than thirty years completely collapsed at this moment, and she cried bitterly and collapsed.
She finally felt the pain.
on this floor".Fat protective shell"She is finally awakened at this moment! She suddenly understood that the negativity and expectations of others that had been all the time were nothing more than a drain on herself. Her life came to an end, and she decidedCrazy once
She was determined to be oneBoxer
Not to prove anything, but simply for yourself.
Practice without a foundation! If you are overweight, lose it! If you don't have money, borrow it! If you qualify, you will be qualified again!
At this time, Jia Ling and Le Ying played by her seemed to be the same person. Her feelings for Haokun no longer exist, her resentment towards her relatives was swept away, and all the injustices she encountered disappeared. All her hard work went to herself.
How many kilometers did you run today? How much can a barbell lift? Have you practiced both the left and right fists? Her life was motivated again, and exercise became her flow and she was at her best.
One of my favorite shots is of her walking down a long hallway, standing in front of a dressing mirror. At this moment, time seems to have split into two dimensions - the chubby, cowardly past self waved and smiled at her present and gave her a thumbs up.
Whether she fell or got up, unconscious or awake, she knew her life would never be the same.
As it is said on the web:If you believe that suffering is what you deserve, the light will eventually shine on you.
I remember when she was beaten by her opponent and her nose was bruised and her face was swollen, my sister asked her, "Do you know why you have to go if you can't beat her?" ”
That's right, why fight when you know you're going to lose?
Because after being reborn, Le Ying already understands what she wants. What she wants is never to win or lose, but a gesture, a gesture to fight against life, a gesture of uncompromise.
In the face of the injustice of fate, rise up and strikePunch! Punch! Punch!
As Le Yingfa's circle of friends said: Knowing the meaning of swinging a fist is the greatest success. When you witness a soul undergo hardships in the flesh, you will understand what it means to have your life in your own hands.
Le Ying's father saw her in the restaurant and gave her a piece of meat, but instead of eating the meat, she ate the onion she had sandwiched. Father said, it's not easy for you to work so hard, but you have really changed, completely changed as a person. Only Le Ying herself knows what she has experienced and what she has paid.
Haokun was moved when he saw the slimmed down Le Ying and invited her to eat bullfrogs. Le Ying smiled and said that I don't like to eat bullfrogs. The moonlight was quiet, and she walked lightly into the night, without looking back.
She finally learns to express herself and truly fall in love with herself.
She is gentle and kind, and she also has sharp edges and corners; She knows how to reconcile with the world and how to resist harm.
The English name of the film "Hot and Hot" is "You Only Live Once", which literally translates to ".You only live once”。This is also the true meaning of life that director Jia Ling wants to tell us.
You only live once, so it doesn't matter what happens. It's okay to be ridiculed, it's okay to want to cry, and it's okay to fail. What matters is whether or not you are living a passionate life.
I remembered the Li Xiaogang who read poetry aloud at the construction site. Despite being covered in dust and filth,He still recited his favorite poems aloud in such an environment and lived as he thought he was.
I thought of the owner who played the piano in his roast duck shop. In between the meals of customers, he sat alone in the corner and played the piano, calmly.
Even if life is heavy and difficult, as long as we learn to appreciate and feel life, we will definitely be able to taste the sweetness in the bitterness.
At the end of the story, Le Ying did not miraculously succeed. She didn't win the competition, her career didn't improve, she didn't marry into a wealthy family, and the attitudes of her family and friends didn't change. But she finally reconciled with herself.
We always putsecular standardsMake it your own goal. I can't get into a prestigious school, I can't get a job, I can't afford to buy a house, and I can't live a rich life. But in fact, these are all of themNormality
This does not mean that we ordinary people are losers. There are no one-size-fits-all criteria for success。On the long road of life, no matter how ordinary a person is, he can live a wonderful and hot life.
Not groveling to please others, not being led by others, living according to your own heart, loving life, and tolerating everything, this is success.
Each of us should learn to let go of the illusion of being loved and truly love ourselves.
As Jia Ling said later: What we are looking for in our lives is our own way of life and the person we want to become.
Even if you take a lot of detours, spend a lot of time, and have different expectations from others, as long as you keep on the road to becoming yourself, it's fine.
Life always leaves us bruised, but in the end, those scars will surely become our most powerful**.
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