Recently, Wu Jing's "favorite wife" character overturned, and there was a lot of noise for a while, everyone said that he was straight, machismo, emotionally unstable, irritable, and even misogynistic. Many netizens ran to Xie Nan's social platform and persuaded her to run away and divorce.
However, Xie Nan, the little wife who was "insulted and damaged", wrote a sincere little essay, talking about the love between the two, explaining Wu Jing's personality, and explaining the practice of marriage by the way, proving what high emotional intelligence is. This wave of powerful protectors not only saved Wu Jing's face, but also created a wave of fans for himself.
Today we will take a look at the cause and effect of this incident.
The reason was that an old variety show in which the two participated was turned out, Wu Jing cooked noodles, and he ate them by himself, but he didn't call his wife to enjoy them together, which made Xie Nan unhappy; Then Wu Jing fried the large intestine, Xie Nan said to fry it for a while, otherwise he would eat a bad stomach, this sentence made Wu Jing angry again, and Xie Nan nagged. There are many such things in the back, such as Xie Nan wanted the two of them to chat together, but Wu Jing didn't respond, and Xie Nan was so angry that he shed tears several times.
Of course, there is Wu Jing's "straightness", but there is also Xie Nan's hypocrisy.
Most of the comments are also women criticizing Wu Jing, saying that his machismo is suffocating, but male netizens rarely speak out.
That's enough to tell.
Wu Jing was born in Beijing in 1974, a typical post-70s generation, a Beijing gentleman; And Xie Nan was born in 1983 and is a native of Hefei, Anhui Province. The difference between the two is 10 years.
I used to hear people say that three years is a generation, but to look at it this way, there is a difference of 3 generations between Wu Jing and Xie Nan.
This is, of course, a bit exaggerated.
However, it is undeniable that the post-70s generation, as a generation born in a period of social transition, still has a strong sense of machismo in men, which is a relic of the old era.
I am also a post-70s generation, I remember when I was in college, a female classmate told me one thing, a boy chased her, asked her out for a meal, and then bought her a mobile phone, and told her that we would get married in five years. Then, the boy basically never appeared again.
The female classmate was puzzled, and finally figured it out after many verifications: What people mean is that I have already hired you, and you can wait for me to marry you in five years.
What flowers, chocolates, acquaintance anniversaries, nine hundred and ninety-nine roses, candlelit dinners, violin playing, all the process of pursuit.
After thinking about it, the female classmate was frightened, quickly returned the person's mobile phone, and explained that she didn't like this way of being hired, and then turned around and ran away in the boy's surprised eyes.
I laughed for a long time. What era is it, and there is still this way of pursuit. Why didn't he invite three media and six hires to come to the door to ask for marriage, and then agreed to come back to marry after the high school champion?!
Back to the married life of Wu Jing and Xie Nan.
Xie Nan revealed in the show that when she received an olive branch from Wu Jing, she didn't agree at first, but later received Wu Jing's affection and had a deeper understanding of his character, so she obediently agreed and didn't let Wu Jing chase after her.
A straight man born in the 70s, good to people, that's all love for you is not discussed, as for romance, I'm sorry no. Ha ha.
Aren't straight men worthy of beautiful love?
Of course not.
Wu Jing's romance is reflected in his straightness.
I remember the rumored end of the world in 2012, when rumors about the end of the world were circulating everywhere, but Xie Nan still went out to work, and Wu Jing sent her a message: You are not here, why are you dying together?!
Xie Nan couldn't cry or laugh, but she liked it!
This is the romance of straight men.
Back then, Xie Nan had a deep understanding of this, and he also accepted it. She doesn't love Wu Jing because he is a straight man, and of course, on the other hand, Wu Jing doesn't love her because of her hypocrisy.
This is the basis for the two to fall in love.
It may also be because of their love for each other that Wu Jing has developed his "straightness" and "irritability" more unscrupulously in his marriage, his true temperament, and he will not turn around, because he knows that Xie Nan will always tolerate him.
There is always such a person in the world who will always be waiting for you.
Of course, Xie Nan and Wu Jing are on the show together, and this matter is generally beyond the same daily life, Xie Nan wants to create some romance at this moment, in fact, it is not difficult to understand.
It's just that Wu Jing forgot Xie Nan's instructions to him before agreeing to participate in the show, and it was strange that the festival was listed for too long, and Wu Jing accidentally exposed his true temperament.
Wu Jing has always looked down on those who "pretend". Treating people with sincerity has always been the principle he pursues.
Before he became a 10 billion director, Wu Jing was straightforward, so he offended many people; After success, with the addition of aura, he has the capital of pride and develops this straight character even more.
The family is the freest and most private space, and it is better to be cautious outside; At home, that's definitely about letting go of all pretense and letting go of yourself. In the past, Xie Nan must have given Wu Jing this kind of freedom and embraced all the characteristics of Wu Jing's straight men.
All, Wu Jing is happy.
On the other hand, Xie Nan, since he loves each other and chooses Wu Jing, he needs to be tolerant.
To some extent, Wu Jing is also like Xie Nan's son, an adult son. Many adult men in China will be like the children who don't grow up in life, and they would rather keep their innocence for the rest of their lives.
And Chinese women also have the most generous motherhood. Many Chinese wives have taken on the responsibility of being husbands and mothers at the same time.
And a husband who is more capable than his wife still has the right to play a little childish temper.
Do you think so?
If you choose a husband who chooses yourself, you still have to be unhappy, it's a matter of choosing badly or getting along badly, regardless of other problems.
Marriage is a practice, if there is love between two people, and they are unhappy, it is that the cultivation is not in place.
Let's keep repairing. Couples have love, live at the top of the pyramid, and can have anything they want. If Xie Nan is still dissatisfied with his marriage, then he is really in a blessing and does not know the blessing.
So, in the final analysis, Xie Nan is sensible, and she will not divorce.
Finally, I remembered Zhang Ailing's words: Life is a gorgeous robe crawling with fleas.
There is always an unknown secret behind the glamorous, perhaps unbearable.
Everyone has to accept their own life.
This is my life.
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