Pay attention to these six taboos when giving New Year's money, so as not to offend people and not lose face
Introduction: From Chinese New Year's Eve to the New Year's money, keep in mind"Six taboos"Not only do you not offend anyone, but you don't lose face!
Migrant workers who work abroad have returned to their hometowns for the New Year, they either go to find their parents, or go to their wives and children, have a reunion year, and let the elders send red envelopes to bless them.
According to historical records, the earliest New Year's money originated in the Han Dynasty. Originally on Chinese New Year's Eve or New Year's Day, the elders sent the younger generation money in different ways, and now new elements are incorporated, through WeChat, Alipay, red envelopes and other ways to send the pressure of the year money, meaning that the elders give the child a talisman to ward off evil spirits and bless the child with health and safety in the new year.
And now the most common way to give children New Year's money is to use red envelopes and fresh coins to give to the elders"Big Six"Taboos, neither offend people nor lose face, what are the six taboos? Listen to me slowly.
i.Pay attention to even-number donations.
Nowadays, people are quite rich, and the amount of red envelopes has changed from the original dozens of yuan to the current 100 yuan bills, but the amount of 100 yuan bills depends on their own economic ability.
If you have the strength, you can give your juniors 1000 2000 or even more, and if you don't have the strength, give your juniors even the number of red envelopes.
Second, use the new red package.
Now the form of giving children New Year's money is to give red envelopes to children, but this red envelope is also a good way, don't think about keeping last year's old red envelopes, take them to the children to put New Year's money.
This is disrespectful to children, because after the old red envelope is placed for a year, the surface of the red envelope has faded, and if the red envelope is not kept well, there will be cracks, or wrinkles, such a red envelope with a hundred yuan bills will not look fresh, but also lose the symbolic meaning of festivity.
3. Equal treatment.
When we give out red envelopes, whether it is a family of two children or a family of three children, the red envelope should have the same amount of money in case the children fight or cry.
If the money in the red envelope is different, the children will open the red envelope to see how much money is inside, and since the children love to climb ladders, they will all show off the money.
If he finds that the money in the red envelope is different from that of his brothers, he will ask his brothers for money relentlessly, or tell his mother that it is the brothers who are embarrassed at this time.
Fourth, the use of new notes.
When giving out red envelopes on New Year's Day, try to accumulate some new banknotes, because the first day of the new year is the first day of the year, and this new day is also the beginning of the new year, so sending new banknotes to children is also wishing them health and happiness in the new year.
If you don't pay attention to this and give your children a few hundred-dollar bills, you lose the meaning of sending new blessings to your children, and you won't get gratitude from your children because they love big, brand new bills.
Fifth, write a red envelope with blessings.
When we prepare red envelopes for the younger students again, we must write blessings on each red envelope, and these blessings can be replaced by a sentence.
Since some children are already in primary or secondary school, they are very concerned about the blessings in the red envelope, because in the hearts of the children, they all hope that they will do well in their studies in the new year, or be admitted to secondary school and university.
vi.Give red envelopes to children in front of parents.
When giving red envelopes to teenagers, we must take into account that we have to give red envelopes to children in the presence of parents, and if we give red envelopes alone, it can lead to an awkward situation.
Because today's children have a high IQ and know that money is a good thing, they will take their own money to go out to buy all kinds of delicious food, hide the red envelopes given by their elders, and it will be very convenient to spend their own money when the time comes.
But the parents of the child do not know what it is like to give a red envelope, and these parents will not give a red envelope to other people's children in return, which may lead to misunderstandings, so it is okay to give red envelopes in front of the child's parents.
In short, the countdown to the end of the year has begun, are you ready to give red envelopes to younger generations? But remember"Six"Words are taboo, so as not to bring shame on yourself, do you think I am right?