Everyone has their own way of dealing with others, and some people can be enthusiastic and express joy on the surface, even if they have the opposite attitude in their hearts, they will still disguise it.
And some people like to use straightforward emotions to express their current displeasure.
An Jie, as a smart and knowledgeable female representative in "Parents' Love", also has a straightforward side of resistance.
The most obvious thing is An Jie's attitude when the eldest son Jiang Weiguo brought his girlfriend Bai Hongmei home.
An Jie's dissatisfaction with Bai Hongmei was already known to the whole family when they never met.
Bai Hongmei is a singer, and Jiang Weiguo is a young officer with development potential in the army, and there is an unequal gap between the status of the two people.
Why does AnJie attach so much importance to class? It's all about her own experience.
An Jie is a veritable capitalist lady, before she met Jiang Defu, she suffered from the cold eyes and discrimination of the outside world, and after being with Jiang Defu, she had a harbor to shelter her.
She clearly knows that if there is no Jiang Defu, there will be no happy and prosperous life for herself. Jiang Defu held up such a big umbrella for her, and the price was his promotion path.
Bai Hongmei's work was said to be art at the time, and to put it bluntly, it was a drama to please people, Jiang Weiguo married such an object, undoubtedly a person who lost the Jiang family, and risked giving up his future.
The most important thing is that the overture of the love affair between the two people is produced by facing each other on the train and sitting for a day and a night.
fell in love one day and one night, and from this incident, An Jie judged that Bai Hongmei was frivolous, how could she have a good idea of her.
Facts have also proved that An Jie's prejudice is not unreasonable, and Bai Hongmei's behavior and upbringing are problematic.
Bai Hongmei and Jiang Weiguo stood on the boat, watching the Jiang family come to greet her at the dock in the distance, she didn't express embarrassment, and the whole family moved to greet her.
Instead, he said to Jiang Weiguo: "The capitalist lady will laugh."
Before she saw An Jie, she had already heard An Jie's story from Jiang Weiguo's mouth, and she looked down on An Jie in her heart, so naturally she had no respect at all.
If Bai Hongmei had received a good tutoring, she would not have pointed fingers at her elders, and the basic respect and politeness of the younger generations would have disappeared in her.
An Jie didn't like her, but she wouldn't lose her courtesy, and still prepared a table full of sumptuous dishes for her, but she didn't hear Bai Hongmei's thanks.
Bai Hongmei didn't even pick up the dishes, only ate the white rice in the bowl, and twisted on the dining table, full of childish spirit.
In such a state, even if An Jie had a good impression of her before, it would come to naught at this moment.
After dinner, Bai Hongmei and Jiang Weiguo were in the room, and the first thing she said to Jiang Weiguo was that she felt that his family didn't like her.
She only felt that the Jiang family was not enthusiastic about her, but she didn't reflect on herself, didn't think about what caused such a result, and just blindly looked for problems in others.
When An Jie, at the suggestion of Jiang Defu, tried to show favor to Bai Hongmei, and took the initiative to greet her in the morning, the response was only Bai Hongmei's embarrassment and overwhelmed, and she couldn't even say "good morning".
An Jie can ignore Bai Hongmei's social status, but she can't ignore Bai Hongmei's lack of upbringing.
When An Jie and Jiang Defu first got married, they began to "transform" Jiang Defu, and even Jiang Dehua was also "transformed", which shows that An Jie attaches great importance to a person's conduct.
Bai Hongmei's various performances all show that there are problems with her character, and An Jie's heart will naturally have a lot of dissatisfaction with Bai Hongmei.
Of course, there are also some personal reasons for this, she is not ready to be a mother-in-law, and she can't accept the fact that she is getting old, but it only accounts for a small part.
Just like An Jie**, Jiang Weiguo and Bai Hongmei are not the same kind of people after all, and they finally broke up.
A person's conduct represents what kind of family education he receives, and only thinking about himself blindly and ignoring the problems he has created will only make people bored.
The bottom line and foundation of being a human being is the basic quality of being a person, and if you want to be respected, you must first learn to respect.