Jia Muis the head of Jiafu, and for her, the most favored is naturally her grandchildrenJia BaoyuwithLin Daiyu。In ".Dream of Red MansionsIn this **,Jia MuRightJia BaoyuThe pampering is obvious to all, almost impeccable. And forLin Daiyu, although noJia BaoyuSo special, thoughJia MuThe love for her is also limited. However, despite thatJia MuRightJia BaoyuwithLin DaiyuCares, but strangely doesn'tLin DaiyuArranging a marriage, this makes people inevitably have some doubts.
After the tragedy of Yingchun,Jia MuSaw a one full of pain and misfortuneMarriage, as the parent of Jiafu, of course, she will feel heartache for what happened to Yingchun. However, why didn't she realize itLin DaiyuFacing the same risks? There may be several reasons for this.
First of all,Lin DaiyufatherLin Ruhaihas died, which makes itLin Daiyubecame a helpless orphan girl. Jia MuMaybe I think,Lin DaiyuofMarriageIt should be arranged by her maternal grandmother and uncles, who don't have much say in it. In addition,Jia MuIn fact, she is already an old person, and she may die at any time. IfJia MuDied suddenly,Lin DaiyuThe marriage can only be made byJia Muof the two uncles to deal with it, and this one,Jia AmnestyYesDon't give inThe Great Uncle.
However,Jia AmnestyNot a good person. He is a mediocre greedy man for money, in order not to pay it backSun ShaozuThree thousand taels of silver, and he did not hesitate to put his daughterJia YingchunMarrySun Shaozu。In accordance withSun ShaozuStatement,Jia YingchunIt's just a cheap thing he bought, he can beat her at any time, and he can scold her at any time. Jia AmnestyIn order to escape the debt, he unscrupulously pushed his biological daughter into the fire pit.
Based on such a situation, we can imagine ifJia MuDied suddenly,Jia AmnestyAs an uncle, yesLin DaiyuThe attitude will not be good enough to **. Jia Amnestyis so indifferent and ruthless to his own daughter, how can he be an external nieceLin DaiyuOkay? So onceJia MuPassed away, whileLin DaiyuThe marriage has not yet been decided, thenLin DaiyuThe future is worrying.
Jia MuAs the head of Jiafu, in the social context of feudal tradition, her approach was not unexpected. ChinaFeudal societyPay attention to the order of the elders and the young, and the eldest uncle, as an elder, should naturally take responsibilityLin DaiyuResponsibility for arranging marriages. However,Jia AmnestyI only know that I am greedy for money all day long, and I am not kind to my own daughter, so how can I treat my nieceLin DaiyuWhat about responsibility?
In addition, throughout the entire ".Dream of Red Mansions"Let's see,Jia MuI didn't get involved in the planning of too many important things. She is more of a eater and a playful person, loving and playing with her granddaughters as pets, and not thinking about their future, including her favorite granddaughterLin Daiyuin. Therefore,Jia MuAnd not forLin DaiyuArrange a marriage.
It can be said thatJia Muis a blind pampering and selfish person. She only cared about her own pleasure and never made any plans for the future of her children and grandchildren. This is described in theDream of Red Mansionsis fully embodied in this work. Jia MuAll she did was to eat and have fun, and other than that, she had hardly ever seen anything big, and she had never seen anything planned for her children and grandchildren.
In ".Jia MuEyes,Lin DaiyuJust a lonely child, she was rightLin Daiyu's love only made her worry about food and clothing, and she didn't think about her future. So, thoughJia Muwitnessed the tragedy of Yingchun, but she didn't think about itLin DaiyuofMarriagearrangement, which is also related to her blind pampering and selfish character.
By passingJia MuObservations of behaviors and attitudes, we can't help but begin to think and reflect. Feudal societyNext, the responsibility and obligation of the elders is to think about the future of their children and grandchildren and make appropriate arrangements for them. However, Jia's mother's blind pampering and selfishness completely deviate from this.
As a parent,Jia MuShould have been taken into accountLin Daiyuof marriages. She should be awareLin Daiyumay face the same dilemma in the future, and proper arrangements should be made for her. However,Jia MuBut he just cares about his own fun, and he doesn't care about the future of his children and grandchildren.
This makes us sighFeudal societyThe cruelty and injustice also make us think deeply about the importance of family affection and responsibility. Jia MuThe behavior allows us to see the image of a selfish and blindly pampered parent, warning us not to lose ourselves in the face of family affection and responsibility, and not to only care about our own pleasure and ignore the needs and future arrangements of others.
In ".Dream of Red Mansions",Jia MuAs a parent of Jiafu, the most important grandchildren areJia BaoyuwithLin Daiyu。However, when she saw the springMarriageAfter the tragedy, I didn't think about itLin DaiyuMake arrangements early. This may be because:Jia MuthinkLin DaiyuThe marriage should have been arranged by her maternal grandmother and uncles, and she herself did not have much to say. In addition,Jia Amnesty's mediocrity and greed for money and indifference to his own daughter also makeJia MuDon't dare to willLin DaiyuofMarriagePin on him.
Jia's mother's blind pampering and selfishness are also one of the reasons. She only cares about her own pleasure and does not think about the future of her children and grandchildren. It also makes us reflectFeudal societycruelty and negative effects, as well as the importance of affection and responsibility. Jia MuThis behavior warns us not to lose ourselves, to focus on the needs and future plans of others, and not to focus only on our own pleasures.