In the blossoming of ancient legends, there is a saying: choose a beautiful woman from the vast sea of people. When a young girl comes to her sweetheart's home for the first time, if she is loved by her parents, she will often receive a generous red envelope as a gift, containing coins of various amounts, such as 8888.
Ordinary families may also give 6666 or 2000 gifts, and the amount of gifts varies with the situation, but the dowry is always indispensable. Even if the bride is a blind and dumb marriage, if the bride is popular, she will receive a few hundred yuan as a symbol to show the sincerity of the man.
When the two parties meet for the first time, if they receive a generous gift, what to do with it will be a little tricky.
The incident happened in a family in Guangxi. A girl experienced a "blind fate" blind date by chance, and the other party's parents gave her a large amount of gift money, which made her puzzled and hesitant whether she should return it.
The red envelope contains 10,001 yuan, is this a sign of love?
The encounter took place in a family in Guangxi. When the girl returned home, she examined what she had gotten: what exactly were the gifts and red envelopes?
It turned out that this was the result of a blind date banquet, and the man's parents handed over the dowry, claiming that they would meet on the occasion of the New Year, so naturally they could not leave empty-handed.
Without giving it a second thought, she put it in the car. When visiting relatives in Guangxi for the Chinese New Year, they usually bring some rice food, desserts and red envelopes.
Participating in blind date activities alone, even if the other party's family likes them, it is not suitable to give too heavy gifts, in the land of Nanyue, there is a tradition of frugality.
But when the lady opened the red envelope, she was so surprised that the man actually sent a large sum of money, and the red envelope seemed to be about to crack.
After counting, it is 10,001 yuan, which seems to be "the only beauty selected". In such a situation, she was both happy and worried, and was in a dilemma.
Let's talk about this woman's background.
She is only 24 years old, has a rich family background, and has a house and a car in Qinzhou, Guangxi.
Among girls of the same age, such conditions are really rare.
What's more, she has a sweet appearance, her appearance can score at least eight points, her figure is elegant, and her curves are clear. The ** she posted often made viewers mistakenly think that she was an internet celebrity.
And the object of her blind date, the family background is also good, her mother is a teacher, her father is engaged in the decoration business and the business is prosperous, and the family is well-off.
For them, the red envelope of 10,001 yuan is just a piece of cake.
If the lady had been willing, there might have been more luxurious gifts waiting for her to be married, as the wealthy families were willing to give generously until she agreed to get married.
It is often said that if a lady is interested in a man who is on a blind date, she should take good care of this red envelope.
Otherwise, it should be returned.
The logic is simple: the other party's parents already regard her as their future daughter-in-law, hoping to let her stay in this way, and make marriage the ultimate goal of the relationship.
If the lady does not want to have a deep relationship, the man will inevitably recover the gift money, after all, this money is not small, and if he refuses love, he also needs to return the property.
Other people also have a different opinion: they may want to keep the red envelope, but they don't want to agree to the marriage.
Maybe you can try to date first, and if you don't think it's appropriate, you don't need to return the red envelope.
When some relatives go on blind dates, they also receive gifts large and small, from computers to necklaces, and work tirelessly to prepare.
But in reality, the lady did not urgently need the money, and if there was no love, then it should be returned so as not to affect her reputation.
A gentleman has a certain morality to acquire wealth; Ladies are expected to follow this code of conduct.
What do you think about this?