In 2012, Xu Zheng's first film "Thai Embarrassment" won a box office of 1.2 billion with an investment of 30 million, shocking the entire film industry. Not only did director Xu Zheng have a bumper harvest, but also those screenwriters who created many funny lines have also attracted attention, including Ding Ding, the only son of national first-class actor Cai Ming.
Ding Ding has been very sensible since he was a child, and his academic performance has always been excellent, which is Cai Ming's pride and treasure. However, an unexpected incident made Ding Ding fall into depression for a while, but even so, Cai Ming still chased after him and didn't even want to make it public, what happened between them?
Cai Ming's Artistic Life — From 1991 when he first appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala to 2019, Cai Ming has participated in a total of 28 Spring Festival Galas, leaving many classic roles and quotations.
Although Cai Ming was not born in a literary family, she has gone through 20 years of smooth sailing with her talent and hard work in theatrical performance. At the Beijing Friendship Gala in 1983, 22-year-old Cai Ming and Ding Qiusheng met.
At that time, Cai Ming was a member of the Beijing Film Studio, and Ding Qiuxing was the director of the famous China Broadcasting Art Troupe, and the two had no intersection at that time.
Ding Qiuxing fell in love with Cai Ming at first sight at the sorority, and his big flickering eyes made him excited. He decided to chase her no matter what, and in order to be able to keep in touch for a long time, he hurriedly wrote the ** number and name on the back of the painkiller ointment.
Although Cai Ming has already had a certain status in the entertainment industry, Ding Qiuxing still apprehensively put the ointment on Cai Ming's body.
Although ** had stayed, Cai Ming did not call back for a long time, and it took a long time before he remembered to contact Ding Qiuxing. Ding Qiuxing began to frequently invite Cai Ming to dinner, but the "beautiful and moving" Cai Ming had no special feelings for Ding Qiuxing, and just regarded him as an ordinary friend.
However, Ding Qiuxing's enthusiasm for Cai Ming did not fade because of this, but became more persistent. He got Cai Ming's crew address through his colleagues, and even inquired about Cai Ming's filming process.
Every day when Cai Ming was filming, Ding Qiuxing could deliver the letter to her on time, and the words in the letter were as passionate as fire, full of deep love for Cai Ming.
Every day, Cai Ming can receive a love letter from Ding Qiuxing. Whenever I see these love letters, the pressure of filming will be reduced, and the mood will become happy. By the time the crew was finished, she had received a full 100 love letters.
This unrequited love, like an idol drama, is full of romance. In fact, his affection was not disappointed, and the sensual Cai Ming was immersed in Ding Qiuxing's romance, and the two began to fall in love.
After two years of dating, they walked hand in hand into the palace of marriage. Even though the wedding was simple, the two hearts were closely connected and gave birth to a big fat boy after the marriage. With a child, the two who were originally busy began to feel overwhelmed, and this was the only quarrel between them.
So, her mother-in-law came forward to persuade Ding Qiuxing to sacrifice her career and let Cai Ming develop well in the entertainment industry.
After 30 years of marriage, Cai Ming has always insisted on working hard in the entertainment industry, and his education of his son Ding Ding is even more unambiguous. No matter how busy she is filming outside, she will tell Ding Qiuxing to pay attention to learning and not relax.
Although she can't be by her son's side all the time, her nagging is full of deep love. Looking at the sacrifices made by her husband for the family, Cai Ming secretly made up her mind that she must get ahead in the entertainment industry.
In 1990, Cai Ming and Chen Peisi collaborated on the Spring Festival Gala "Platini's Long Hair" on Beijing Television, and her first sketch performance won the love of the audience.
After Cai Ming's comedic talent was discovered, she chose to focus on the Spring Festival Gala sketches, and in 1991, she and Gong Hanlin's "Stranger" made her an instant hit on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
Since then, Cai Ming has left countless classic works on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, but he has also sacrificed the good time of spending Chinese New Year's Eve with his family. However, in 2011, her old partner withdrew from the Spring Festival Gala due to physical reasons, leaving Cai Ming alone.
In order to find a suitable partner, Cai Ming found Pan Changjiang, whose cooperation style is completely different from the past, but it also brings laughter to the audience.
In 2013, she performed "Jump If You Want to Dance" at the Spring Festival Gala, using sharp language as a burden, her style makes people call her "the queen of poisonous tongues in the sketch world".
At first, the style was loved by the audience, but over time, it was condemned by the masses as disgusting to others. has struggled in the entertainment industry for many years, and the most important thing in Cai Ming's heart is his family, no matter how the outside world blames him, as long as he comes home and sees his children, all his troubles will dissipate.
Ms. Cai Ming is well known for her down-to-earth interpretation style and open-minded personality, but her family life is little known. In his spare time, Cai Ming has always maintained a low-key attitude towards life, rarely mentioning his family and children, and will not use his private life to hype.
As a public figure, Cai Ming deeply understands that his reputation, whether good or bad, will have a significant impact on his son, so in order to protect his son's physical and mental health, she and her husband Ding Qiuxing decided not to disclose the news of their marriage to the outside world after their son was born, let alone the existence of their son.
Mr. Cai Ming's low-key and protective attitude has won our respect and respect.
Outside of the entertainment industry, Cai Ming also attaches great importance to the education of her son Ding Ding, since the child was in elementary school, she has always asked Ding Ding to study seriously under the supervision of his parents, and arranged a lot of additional learning courses for him outside of class to ensure that he can learn more knowledge.
Although this kind of education caused Ding Ding to lose the joy of childhood, the achievement of completing all the courses in primary school at the fourth grade also proved that Cai Ming's education method was effective.
In many families, parents adopt the education method of "tiger mom and cat dad", and Cai Ming's family is no exception. Although Ding Qiuxing has respect for Cai Ming's strict education method, fortunately, this education method has always made Ding Ding's grades among the best.
Although Tintin's childhood was not all smooth sailing, fortunately, the relationship between his parents was very strong, and family harmony was extremely important to him. In this environment, Tintin naturally grew up happy and healthy.
However, it wasn't until Tintin grew up that he realized that his mother was a big star. Every year on Chinese New Year's Eve, Ding Qiuxing takes his son to visit the rehearsal of his mother Cai Ming's show, but when someone asks him whose son he is, the young Ding Ding firmly says: "I am not anyone's son, my name is Ding Ding, it's nice to meet you." ”
Cai Ming was very surprised by her son's independent and confident spirit, and she saw a kind of integrity and responsibility in her son.
Ding Ding's life should not only have the aura of the second generation of stars, Cai Ming hopes that he can have his own stage. However, the overly strict education method made Ding Ding sick, and Cai Ming realized that he was too strong with his son and ignored his need for personal space.
When Tintin was 15 years old, he offered to study abroad, hoping to create his own sky by his own efforts, rather than relying on his parents' relationship.
Ding Ding's life choice, Cai Ming has always respected and supported: he can be bold to try, no matter what the result is, he must have the courage to take responsibility. In this way, Tintin studied in the UK for six years and chose to become a screenwriter after returning from his studies.
Although Ding Ding did not tell his mother Cai Ming in the screenwriting position of "Thai Embarrassment", even before the release of the movie, he was so excited that he burst into tears when he saw his name appear on the big screen, this is the son he is proud of.
Despite Tintin's success in his career, he chose not to marry.
In Ding Ding's life events, Cai Ming can be said to be very concerned. Although they did not interfere too much in their careers, Cai Ming and her husband took great pains in the issue of their son's marriage.
Every time their son comes home, Cai Ming and her husband can't help but want to introduce their son to someone, although the conditions of the blind date are very good, but Ding Ding has never been interested, and it can even be said that he is not interested in love and marriage at all.
Seeing that Ding Ding is about to enter his 40s and is still unmarried, this makes Cai Ming very anxious. Although Ding Ding doesn't like to go out and mess with flowers and grass like the average second generation of stars, he doesn't seem to be interested in women at all, which makes Cai Ming and his family very confused.
I just want to concentrate on my career and don't have time to think about getting married! Ding Ding is busy with work, day and night, although Cai Ming is anxious, he always finds various reasons to approach his son and try to change the topic to marriage.
However, this funny and humorous mother on the screen showed incomparable maternal love and tenderness in front of her son, but she could not solve the problem of her son not getting married.
Every conversation with my son always ends in an argument, which makes the relationship awkward, stressful, and even a little depressed.
Ding Qiuxing saw that the mother and son had a dispute over marriage, so he called the two together to seek a solution that could not only meet the needs of the mother and son, but also solve the conflict.
Ding Qiuxing said to Cai Ming: "Children are our works, but how to color is his own choice, and too much intervention may be counterproductive." Tintin also made it clear that he insisted on free love and promised to bring a daughter-in-law home before the age of 40.
Hearing this, Cai Ming was a little disappointed, because she was worried that she would be 65 years old by that time and she didn't know how many years she would be able to see her grandson.
The 37-year-old Ding Ding became an instant hit with the hit of "Thai Embarrassment", and since then, he has participated in the screenwriting work of many film screenplays such as "Havoc in Tianzhu", "Kung Fu Panda 3", "Mamma Mia" and other word-of-mouth box office double harvests, and it can be said that his career is in full swing.
If one day, Tintin meets the woman who made him fall in love at first sight and longed to spend his life together, he will definitely tell his family the good news as soon as possible. Getting married and having children is a natural process that everyone goes through, and we don't need to avoid it.
Perhaps, Ding Ding is looking forward to the early arrival of this beautiful moment more than Cai Ming.