After the child enters junior high and high school, he will no longer pay attention to the child's results in various subjects, the child's overall ranking and promotion results but depend on the child's total score. However, partial subjects are a problem that most children have, and in this case, parents should first understand the situation with the teacher. So, how to guide children to learn correctly? How to talk to the teacher if the child is biased
1. Do your homework. We need to be well prepared before communicating with our teachers. First of all, it is necessary to understand the child's learning in school, including classroom performance, homework completion, etc. Secondly, it is necessary to clarify the purpose and focus of the communication with the teacher, whether you want to understand the child's learning status or seek ways to improve the performance of partial subjects. Finally, organize your thoughts and ideas so that you can better communicate with your teachers.
2. Listen to the teacher explain the reasons why the child is biased. The teacher has the main say in why the child is biased, and parents should patiently listen to the teacher about the child's performance. Parents must control their emotions, teachers only objectively reflect their children's performance in school, not deliberately belittling their children, the purpose is also to help parents understand their children's learning.
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3. Parents should work with teachers to develop their children's learning plans. Fully cooperate with the teacher at home and do a good job in managing the child's learning. In the plan, parents can arrange their children's learning time according to their children's situation, regularly check their children's learning progress, and give timely feedback to the teacher, so that the teacher can find the child's learning problems in time, so as to take effective measures to help the child correct the bias.
How to guide children to learn correctly? How to guide parents who are partial to children
1. Help children analyze the reasons for bias
There are many reasons for the formation of partial subjects, such as the specific psychological, physiological and aggravated curriculum of junior high school students, the influence of parents, teachers, contact and books, etc., which will make children have a preference for or get tired of a certain subject, and then gradually form the phenomenon of partial subjects. In particular, the guiding effect of the high school entrance examination on students' learning subjects has caused many students to deliberately deviate from the subject, or actively deviate from the subject.
2. Cultivate children's interest in weak subjects
Parents should try to stimulate their children's interest in weak subjects, for example, if the child is not interested in the language, parents can guide the child to read more extracurricular books, newspapers, and magazines, and slowly cultivate the child's interest in reading. Through extensive reading, children's knowledge accumulation is enriched, children's knowledge is broadened, and children's text comprehension is improved.
3. Determine the concept and clarify the goal
Only when all subjects are developed in a balanced manner can we achieve the best results and achieve all-round development. Encourage children to sprint towards the set goals, as long as the child works hard will likely produce the next successful result, to achieve the goal to give praise, reward, can not complete the goal to give help, to complete the deadline, in the learning time to the relatively weak subjects to tilt, so that children can realize that even if the weak subjects as long as they work hard, they can get good results. Disciplines that are interested in hobbies can be developed ahead of time, but they cannot be pulled down by other disciplines.
The impact of the child's bias
1. Reduce self-confidence in learning
If the child does not learn a certain subject well, especially after a period of tutoring, it still does not work. Over time, the interest in learning the subject will gradually fade, and even lose interest in the subject completely, and there will be fear and rejection, and the final result will be that the score of the subject will become lower and lower, and finally lose the self-confidence in learning the subject.
2. Affect the overall learning status
If a student's English learning performance is not good, whether it is due to the wrong way of learning, the lack of learning ability of the subject or the dislike of the subject teacher, it will cause the loss of interest in learning, no interest in learning will not be able to raise the motivation to learn, study not seriously study is not good, can not get a sense of achievement from learning, over time will fall into a vicious circle of not wanting to learn, not learning well, not learning, not wanting to learn, affecting the overall learning state.
That's it for how to correctly guide children to learn and share, parents should let their children realize the importance of learning and correct their learning attitude through appropriate ways. Let learning become the need of life, let learning become a part of life, let us and our children be happy and comfortable on the road of learning for a long time!