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Life is always tortuous and full of uncertainties.
It is precisely like this that people live their lives, and do not be discouraged because they are not satisfied with one aspect. Because instead of complaining, it's better to change.
As the saying goes, "Life is not a competition, so it's okay to take your time and bloom later." ”
Yes, people will inevitably encounter some storms in the process of moving forward in this life, and the most important thing is how we should face it. And how to deal with it?
In fact, each of us knows that as long as we don't get discouraged, we will win. It's like a story I read many years ago.
The story goes that there was once an old man who kept complaining that the woman who lived across from her was lazy, because every time she looked at the woman opposite her drying clothes, the clothes drying on the opposite side always had spots.
It is precisely because of this that she always said that the woman opposite was lazy, until one day her friend came to see her, and she realized that it was not that the clothes on the other side were unclean, but that her glass was dirty.
Sometimes, when we look at problems, it's more important to look from within, that is, to look inward.
It's like when we are faced with failure, more often than not, what we do should not be discouraged, but not discouraged. Find out the reason for the failure, and then keep improving yourself.
Whether it is facing work, life, family, and relationships, as someone said, "People live a lifetime, there are many things worth loving, don't be discouraged because of one dissatisfaction." ”
It's like Santiago, the protagonist of "The Old Man and the Sea", every day, the other fishermen return with a full load, but he returns empty-boat every time.
Because of this, everyone in the town talked about him, saying that he must have been unlucky to catch a fish. But that didn't discourage Santiago.
On the contrary, he would half-jokingly say to others: '85 is an auspicious number, do you want to see me catch a fish that weighs more than a thousand pounds with its foot removed?' ’
So on the 85th day he went to sea as usual, and this time he chose to go to a very deep water. This time he quickly caught a big fish.
It's just that this big fish is not so easy to deal with. Because Santiago used all his strength to pull the big fish out of the sea. But the reality is that the Santiago boat is being pulled away by this big fish.
Then came the confrontation between Santiago and the big fish, and that confrontation lasted for several days and nights. His stamina and energy were running out.
But Santiago didn't lose heart and didn't give up. It's about cheering yourself on all the time. Finally, on the third day, the big fish finally surfaced, and Santiago caught it.
Although in the end, when the fish waited for the shore due to other circumstances, the big fish was left with an empty skeleton. But he silenced those who had laughed at him.
And all because Santiago doesn't lose heart, no matter what the situation is. It's about constantly doing your best.
Yes, if you look at Santiago's experience alone, every encounter he encounters is enough to crush a person, but he overcomes it with his own state of mind.
Some people may say, why not throw away this fish in the face of such a situation, as long as you throw it away, you can get out of danger?
However, why can't this fish be seen as fate? Isn't this a struggle against fate? Oh, yes! When faced with life's setbacks and difficulties, do we choose to retreat?
If this is the case, then we will always face a never-ending dilemma. Because at the slightest setback, we are discouraged. Well, we simply can't go any further.
Because the ship of victory does not sail into the harbor with the wind, but requires us to paddle constantly to reach it successfully. And every success comes with one problem after another.
It is precisely in this way that we must understand that people live a lifetime, do not be discouraged because they are dissatisfied with one aspect, and the more they encounter difficulties, the more they must persevere, only in this way can they turn things around and usher in the opportunity for change.
Text|Ming Fusheng.
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