Brothers and sisters were born from the same root, but because of the twists and turns on the road of growth, their feelings became indifferent. Perhaps it was because of childhood favoritism that jealousy breeded; Perhaps it was because of the strife in adulthood that the conflict escalated. We always leave traces in each other's lives, only to lose touch around a corner.
In fact, family affection is like a long stream of water, which needs to be cared for together. Let's let go of the past mustard, listen to each other's voices with our hearts, and warm this drifting relationship with love. Brothers and sisters, let us work together to regain the innocence and beauty of the past.
1.Lack of common topics and interests: As older siblings get older, their hobbies and lifestyles can vary greatly, causing them to communicate less with each other and their feelings become cold.
2.Parental preference: In some families, parents may show more affection and attention to a particular child, which can lead to jealousy among other children, which in turn can affect their relationship.
3.Competitive pressure: There may be competition between siblings, and after each of them has a family, whether they will live well or not. In particular, people generally envy the rich and look down on the poor, and the difference in economic conditions may cause their relationship to become tense and indifferent.
4.Personality: If the siblings have different personalities and ways of dealing with things, some are tolerant and generous, some have small bellies, and the way they deal with them in taking care of their parents and interpersonal contacts is different, they will slowly produce estrangement and contradictions. The connection between them may be reduced, and the feelings will gradually become apathetic.
5.Poor communication: Effective communication is key to building and maintaining relationships. If there is poor communication between siblings, it can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts, which in turn can affect their relationship.
6.Money and material handling: If you can't deal with money and material relationships generously, there may be some conflicts and conflicts between siblings, and these negative experiences may affect their relationship.
7.Ignoring the importance of family affection: Some people may take family affection for granted and do not need to be deliberately maintained and cultivated, which can also lead to a cold relationship between siblings.
8.Lack of shared experiences: As older siblings may develop their own social circles and interests, a lack of shared experiences and memories can also lead to feelings becoming estranged from each other.
9.Influence of family conflicts: The feelings between siblings can also be affected by family conflicts. If there is tension in the family or arguments between parents, siblings may feel stressed and uneasy, which can affect their relationship.
10.Influence of social environment: The relationship between siblings can also be influenced by social environment. For example, if siblings live in a competitive society, they may focus more on personal achievement and development and neglect emotional communication with each other.
11.Lack of time management: As the pressure of work and school increases, siblings may not have enough time to maintain their relationship with each other. Lack of time management can lead to a decrease in the connection between them and a coldness in their feelings.
12.Neglect of emotional expression: Sometimes siblings may not be good at expressing their emotions or may not be willing to take the initiative to care for each other. This act of ignoring the expression of emotions may cause the feelings between them to become estranged.
To improve the relationship between siblings, here are some things you can try:
1.Find common topics and interests: Encourage siblings to participate in activities together to find common topics and interests and increase opportunities for communication.
2.Establish good communication channels: Encourage open and honest communication between siblings, listen to each other's thoughts and feelings, and resolve misunderstandings and conflicts.
3.Cultivate a sense of family affection: Remind siblings of the importance of family affection, encourage them to take the initiative to care for each other, and strengthen family ties and interactions.
4.Create shared memories: Organize family activities or trips to give siblings the opportunity to spend quality time together and create cherished memories.
5.Respect for personality differences: Understand and respect the personality differences of siblings, learn to tolerate and accept each other's differences, and build a harmonious relationship.
6.The eldest and youngest are orderly and lead by example: as the eldest son or eldest daughter, you must set a good example, lead by example, be filial to your parents, be harmonious with your brothers and sisters, and care for and love; As younger brothers and sisters, they should also be filial to their parents, communicate with their older brothers and sisters, and be harmonious. As a family, we need to care for each other and love each other.