The serious contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in rural areas is mainly caused by the following factors.
First, the influence of traditional concepts: in traditional rural culture, the elders, especially the mother-in-law, have a higher status and authority in the family, while the daughter-in-law needs to obey and respect the elders. This traditional concept can lead to conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, especially when the modern concept of the daughter-in-law conflicts with the traditional concept of the mother-in-law.
Second, differences in living habits and values: Different family backgrounds, education levels and living habits may lead to differences between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law, which can cause conflicts. The daughter-in-law may have her own ideas and expectations about family life, while the mother-in-law may adhere to the traditional way of managing the family, and this difference can lead to conflicts between the two parties.
Third, the issue of resource allocation: In rural households, the distribution of resources (such as property, labor, etc.) is often an important cause of conflict. For example, issues such as the distribution of children's educational resources and family property may cause disputes between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law.
Fourth, lack of communication styles and skills: Effective communication is the key to resolving conflicts and contradictions. In some rural families, due to the limitation of education level, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may lack effective communication skills, leading to misunderstandings and increased conflicts.
Fifth, the pressure of living conditions: In some rural areas, due to economic constraints, multi-generational living is more common, and the lack of living space may exacerbate friction between family members.
Sixth, economic pressure: economic conditions are an important factor affecting family harmony. In rural areas, due to the relatively backward economic conditions, life pressure is high, and these pressures may turn into conflicts between family members, especially mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
The key to resolving conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to increase understanding and respect, improve communication styles, adjust family roles and expectations, and seek outside help and counseling when necessary. With the development of society and cultural changes, the contradictions in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in rural areas may also be alleviated. Emotion