In this noisy world, everyone has their own temper and character. Some are suave, others are impatient and impulsive; Some people are tolerant and generous, and some people are narrow-minded and selfish. Different tempers shape different life trajectories. As the old saying goes, "Whatever temper is what you do." ”
I remember when I was a child, an old man in the village often said to me: "Little doll, when temper comes, reason gives way; When the reason returns, the temper is off the shelf. At that time, I was too young to understand the meaning, but as the years went by, I gradually realized the wisdom of this sentence.
Everyone has their own emotions, and it's part of human nature. However, how to deal with these emotions is the key to determining fate. When some people encounter something that does not go their way, they will get angry and speak harshly, and the result is often hurting others and themselves. Some people are able to analyze calmly, deal with it rationally, and turn a difficult situation into a turning point.
In addition to one's temper, the family environment is also an important factor in one's fate. I once heard a story about twin brothers with very different personalities. The older brother is cheerful and open-minded, while the younger brother is introverted and sensitive. It turns out that their parents also raised them in very different ways from an early age. When his brother failed when he was a child, his parents always encouraged him: "Failure is the mother of success", while his younger brother was always blamed when he failed. This different way of educating has resulted in very different personalities and destinies between the two.
In real life, it is not difficult for us to find such examples. Some people have harmonious families and many relatives and friends, and their lives are often smooth. And some people have family conflicts and interpersonal tensions, and their fate will inevitably be bumpy and twisty. It can be seen that the truth contained in the ancient admonition of family and everything is prosperous.
Life is like a play, it all depends on acting skills. Our destiny is also often inadvertently affected by our temper and character. Grumpy people tend to act impulsively and miss opportunities; And people who are calm can deal with it calmly and save the day. In this ever-changing world, we need to learn to control our emotions and adjust our mindset. As the old saying goes, "Whatever temper is what you do." ”
Let's start now and learn to adjust our temper and character. No matter what difficulties and challenges you encounter, you must maintain a calm mind. Because only people with a peaceful mind can perform the most wonderful chapters on the stage of life.
In this hustle and bustle of the world, everyone has their own stage and role. I hope we can all perform our own wonderful chapters on the stage of life.