A doctor from Fudan University once said: Among the 7 billion people in the world, no matter what the reason, it is an amazing thing that you meet this person. In fact, the two of them have met each other and known each other, from knowing each other to falling in love. We played the roles of friends, lovers, parents, and family members. With each change of role, our relationship will take to the next level. When a husband and wife reach middle age, no matter how good the relationship is, they must keep 3 hearts and minds in the same bed
01. In terms of money, pay attention to your eyesNo matter what time you are, you should not lose or replace your ability. No matter what age we are, we can't easily lose the demands on ourselves. Especially, when we reach middle age, we don't love each other so much, and love transforms into affection. Some women have a hard time, because men control the finances and give women a small amount of money, but let women manage three meals a day. Women don't have enough to spend, so they say that she is extravagant and wasteful, and she doesn't ask whether prices have risen or not, and how expensive things are. So, women, if your children have grown up, we have to have our own things to do, always palms up, and be somewhat controlled by others. 
02. In terms of health, pay attention to your eyesWhen people reach middle age, we are both old and young, and we must be guaranteed that we are safe and sound. Some people say that health is compared to unit 1, and other houses, cars, careers, relationships, etc., are all the latter 0. If there is a problem with unit 1, no amount of 0 will be useless. So, especially after we reach middle age, we should always pay attention to our health. Only when we are healthy and safe can we have the spare strength to struggle, and we can change ourselves and replace ourselves! 
03. Psychologically, pay attention to your eyesIn this life, people are physically sick and physically tormented; Psychologically sick, the heart is more burdensome. We must pay attention to the cultivation of a good attitude and have a good attitude to have a good life. When you find that your partner is too negative or has a temper tantrum with family members, you should communicate with him. Psychological problems, we should not take it seriously, especially excessive anxiety, uneasy heart, sleep disorders. When our family members appear, we must find a way to help each other solve the problem. Husbands and wives who are in the same boat through thick and thin, observe each other's state and keep an eye on it, because if there is a problem with the mentality of one person in a family, it threatens the harmony and tranquility of the family!