Writer Mo Yan said: It is your parents who hope you will get better; I'm afraid that you're too good, it's a relative; The one who misses you is unlucky, it is a colleague; Most of the people who advise you to be generous are not well-intentioned; Most of the people who teach you to make money want to make your money.
There are two things in the world that cannot be looked at: one is the sun; The second is people's hearts.
When we live well in this world, there will be many people who will slander us with the most malicious words; But when we put our coffins on the floor a hundred years from now, they will not only give us flowers, but also praise us for how good we were in life.
Why didn't you treat me better when you were alive?
01 It's your parents who want you to get better
Mencius was a famous thinker and educator during the Warring States period in China.
The reason why he achieved such great results was that in addition to Mencius's own talent and hard work, it was inseparable from his mother's painstaking efforts, and the "three relocations and neighbors" were just to provide him with a good learning and growth environment.
Mencius's father died early, and his mother depended on each other, when he was very young, he and his mother lived near the cemetery, known as the little Mencius to learn "crying and mourning" vividly, which can frighten Mengzi's mother, the son learned this "skill" can do something in the future, so, the final decision: move.
Meng Mu took Meng Ke and tripped over the town, where there was no one to cry about, but next to the market. There are more shouting and selling, bargaining, and giggling, and the excitement is annoying, but it can be summed up in two words: philistine.
In that era of "everything is inferior, only reading is high", businessmen were at the bottom, and it was not good for her son to be contaminated with the atmosphere of a philistine at a young age, so Meng's mother decided again: continue to move.
This time I moved to the vicinity of the school, and there is a temple not far away. Every day, in addition to looking at the pious pilgrims, I just listen to the sound of reading aloud.
It didn't take long for Xiao Meng Ke to put away his "wildness", and he learned to read books as a gift, and he could also hold books and read quietly.
This time, Meng's mother smiled with relief and did not move again.
Thinking about it, Meng's mother was not very wealthy at that time, and the "school district housing" at that time was not cheap, but Meng's mother did not hesitate to decide.
In this world, the people who provide us with the best at any cost are parents.
We are always busy, in order to deal with panic, in order to break a few taels of silver, when you have enough strength to give your parents a good life, it may already be "the son wants to support but the kiss does not wait".
When one day, the two people who gave birth to you and raised you are gone, and there is no one in this world who truly loves you and loves you.
No one cares if you're doing well or not, tired from work, fat or thin; No one can put up with your bad temper anymore and tolerate your shortcomings.
02 Don't believe in people, believe in human nature
Guo Degang has a cross talk that impresses me deeply, he said:
Remember this sentence, the poor stand on the cross street and play ten steel hooks, and they can't hook the flesh and blood of their relatives; Rich people play with knives, guns and sticks in the deep mountains and old forests, and they can't break up unrighteous guests; The gun in the hand of the big hero overturned the river and the sea, and he couldn't resist the three words hunger, cold and poverty; It is difficult for a rich man to be a rich man, and a hero may not be a hero so far. ”
Don't overestimate your relationship with others, the so-called deep love and blood relatives are all fantasies from us.
One day you buy a house and send it to Moments, only your parents and the decoration company will like and bless you; If your house is unfinished, there will be a whole host of "friends" to comfort you, ask you what to do, and then leave satisfied.
Don't trust people, trust in human nature. Human nature is: "Hate others, laugh at others, think you are poor, fear that you are rich." ”
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Our work and life are inseparable from the "group", walk in the crowd, don't be sharp, don't fall behind, always have your own opinions.
Keep your mouth shut in the group, and keep your heart alone.
You may think that this is a bit pessimistic, then you are naïve. He will not burn incense to offend God, nor will he speak to offend people.
If we grow freely according to our nature: we speak the truth every day and see who we can trust. In this way, we may really not survive two episodes in the conspiracy drama.
Poisonous grass blooms charmingly, and the people who harm you say what you love to hear. The people who can really hurt you are the ones you trust.
If you want to have a good relationship with the people around you, don't share your success and joy, the biggest evil of human nature is not to see others live better than yourself.
The smarter the person, the more stupid he is