The first day of the baby's life.
For the first two days after giving birth, I was hospitalized and my husband was watching the baby. On the third day, when the nanny arrived, I went back to rest, leaving my son and the nanny in the ward to take care of the baby. On the fourth day, our family of three came out of the hospital and returned home. Since the child was sleeping in the bassinet, the absence of the nanny led the husband to offer to take care of the child himself. However, last night's encounter brought them both down.
His daughter often changes his diapers at night and puts him to sleep, his baby poops twice once in a while, and wakes up every now and then to ask for his milk. After a night of crying and crying, she worries about her future life and is convinced that it will go on forever. A husband proposed to check out, but her daughter regretted that she had the baby, and she felt that she could not sleep peacefully at night. She also recommends an infant formula instead of breastfeeding. I warned them that the obligations of having children could no longer be as carefree as they had been. Although they also said that they would learn how to take care of children, they felt a little overwhelmed after just one night. His husband also jokingly asked him if he could give the matter back, but his daughter regretted it because he gave him the child and kept him awake all night. When they encounter setbacks, I will tell them very firmly that taking care of children is an obligation that cannot be easily given up.
The quality and mindset of parents of teenagers.
I'm a little dissatisfied with the current children's ability to be parents and their minds. They are almost thirty years old, and they still ask such naïve questions. In this case, I still have to remind them that if the child only eats and does not have diarrhea, then it is abnormal and must go to the hospital for further examination. Today's young people not only don't know how to take care of children, but once they have children, they become overwhelmed and ask for their children to be sent out early. The father-in-law and mother-in-law and the father-in-law and mother-in-law both came, and they were very happy to see their son, and before they knew it, it was already more than two o'clock in the middle of the night. The son-in-law said that he was going to sleep, and the aunt asked worriedly, why did the child have hiccups? With so many people taking care of it, the scene was suddenly chaotic. The child's buttocks were a little red, and I used to advise her to apply some prickly heat powder, but she said that she still had to use hip cream. This left me confused as to which side I should listen to.
Roles and conflicts in the family.
I stayed with her tonight, and she was afraid that I would feed me too much, so I told her to leave it alone, but she insisted on coming by herself. They were worried that I wouldn't be able to take care of the children as they would like. And I, as a grandmother, will definitely take care of my best grandson. A son-in-law came to the door and asked his mother to help clean up the mess, but the mother said that she didn't wipe the two children at all and wouldn't help them. The child wants to drink milk, and the in-laws are embarrassed to feed it themselves, but the eldest aunt has to feed it by herself. So, the son-in-law poured a glass of warm milk with milk and let her drink it, and then the two of them rested in the next bedroom. In the afternoon, my daughter and I had a bit of a discussion about it. Although my mother-in-law and the others didn't want to upset us, from my reaction, they didn't really care about it, and they didn't know how long they were going to be here. My aunt planned to go back to Lianyungang to see her daughter after the Chinese New Year with her in-laws, but she didn't expect her first year to be like this. This time for the Spring Festival, he is really going to fail.
The nervousness and anxiety of being a first-time mother.
Recently, my daughter's illness has been much better, but she didn't sleep well last night because the child slept with her. She was worried that I wouldn't be able to control my milk while taking care of the baby, so she took the baby away. But I was afraid that she would be too badly injured to give me this child, but they would not want to. Since birth, she has not really hugged her son, so she is not used to being a mother yet. Don't look at the baby's usual well-behaved appearance, it's cute, but as soon as the baby wants to cry, the baby will immediately ask me to take the baby away. This afternoon, there were just two of us at home, and my husband arrived at the airport to pick up his parents. I was lying in my bedroom, but my daughter often called me over and said that the child was going to pee his pants and poop. This situation makes me very worried, what will they do without the help of others?
Overall, today's teenagers are still somewhat deficient in raising children. When they encounter a need for their child, they feel overwhelmed and expect help. Moreover, in this family, the division of responsibilities and conflicts between people is also very confusing, and everyone has their own opinions and preferences. Moreover, due to the nervousness and anxiety of young mothers, it is difficult for them to devote themselves to the work of raising their children. I am also willing to discuss and solve such problems with them, so that our families can better cope with parenting.