In this issue, let's talk about "high-level chat", at the stage when men and women have just started to get in touch, some girls will make boys feel that their rank is very high, and it is difficult to control, as the chat atmosphere is ambiguous and the temperature continues to rise, boys are in a dilemma, and their hearts are itchy.
In the face of this type of "green tea", boys are easy to be willing, and for some "straight women of steel", they can only watch their favorite boys being fascinated by the "green tea", and there is nothing they can do.
What are the routines of "green tea"?
Before opening the article, it must be stated that although we admit that dating requires skill, we do not approve of or support the act of raising a spare tire. I hope you don't get me wrong, let's start the analysis officially.
When a girl says "I can't give you a promise" to a guy, it means that she doesn't want to establish a formal relationship and may just enjoy the current interaction, but doesn't want to take on future responsibilities. This statement is often a disclaimer, and she wants to stay in touch but doesn't want to make a commitment, setting boundaries for the relationship.
Faced with this situation, the boy may feel that the girl is "flirting" with him, attracting him with ambiguous words and behaviors, but the relationship is not clear. This "push and pull" tactic allows the boy to oscillate between hope and disappointment, making it elusive to the girl's true intentions.
Girls may use subtle but sultry words to close the distance between them and boys, such as "You ignore me, I'll take a small notebook to hold a grudge", but then keep your distance with "It doesn't seem like it can give you any promises". This kind of immediacy attitude makes the boy entangled, not knowing how to deal with it.
In this case, the boy needs to learn how to deal with the girl's sultry words and avoid being confused by her language. At the same time, he should also be clear about his position and expectations, and not be swayed by the ambiguous behavior of girls.
Chat skills in a relationship are also very important. Guys need to learn how to respond to a girl's sultry words and interact with her in the same way to make the chat more interesting and in-depth. Only in this way can you maintain joy and balance in love.
The opposite of "green tea talk" is "incomprehensible chat", how can we keep "incomprehensible" girls and boys hot?
We distributed three bottles of antidote to these women.
For the first bottle, learn to control the rhythm of chatting and put it away to a certain extent.
In a relationship, no matter what the situation, it is very important for both parties to maintain a balance in the number of chat statements and voices.
Girls must not blindly send a lot of messages to boys like a demon because of the accumulation of emotions, or the other party does not see the slow response for a while. This will invisibly give the other party a sense of oppression.
In fact, if you are him, you receive a row of question marks from your girlfriend, or a lot of content, but you don't want to chat at this time, will you feel annoyed by your other half?
It is very likely that you will reply with a sentence or two similar to "sleepy" and "tired" to end the chat.
Anytime the chat gets into an unbalanced state, don't continue to pester.
There is a couple who have been in love for five years and live together, and the boy does not know how to love the girl in the relationship, and always speaks coldly to the girl on the grounds of "his own person".
And girls always learn the art of not being able to speak, constantly pressing and staring, and often cold wars.
Putting aside the love problems of two people, in daily interactions, the tight marking and the cold war are the most fatal.
Sometimes don't look at what the other person is posting, but understand the emotions in the text.
After understanding the emotions expressed in words, you can further engage in dialogue with boys.
If you find it difficult to grasp this, you just need to learn to correspond to boys from the number of words.
Learn to balance the word count first, and then slowly correspond emotionally.
The second bottle, the mouth should be sweet, and the heart should be clear.
Many times girls obviously want to care about each other, but they say it in a reproachful tone, why should they do this? It's obviously kind, but it makes the other party feel very uncomfortable listening to it.
Put "Why are you back so late again?" Are you going out and fooling around again? Replace it with "I'm a little late to come back today, and I should pay attention to the time when socializing, protect my body, hug."
Sentences like this care for your boyfriend and make him think you're very caring, so why not?
The third bottle, a happy and happy life must learn to be the master of your emotions, rather than being manipulated by emotions.
In a romantic relationship, you must have skills in chatting, learn to create a push-pull environment, be flirting, chatting, and have fun, so that the person in love can find it interesting.
You can't be a person who is swayed by emotions, and the emotional taker must learn to change roles and become a person who actively controls emotions, after all, love is naturally favored in the depths.
Learn not to ask for others, but to let the other person express his emotions naturally, and when he feels that he can be his true self with you, he will love you more and more.
Finally, I wish all goddesses can learn love skills, grasp men's hearts in communication, and love will be smooth sailing!