I quarreled with my husband today, that is, after retirement, whether to go to work or not, there was a dispute, everyone helped analyze and analyze, who is right and who is wrong?
My husband just turned 60 this year and is in good health, and others say that he looks like he is in his early 50s, not like a 60-year-old at all.
He has been receiving a pension for half a year, and the pension is not much, so he has no worries about food and clothing.
I am three years younger than my husband and have been retired for two years. After retirement, I have been working in a supermarket, and my husband has been responsible for buying vegetables and cooking for the past two years.
Some time ago, I lost my job due to the withdrawal of the cabinet.
Now the two of them are resting at home, yesterday I met an acquaintance Lao Zhang, he said that he is almost seventy, and he also goes to do odd jobs from time to time, saying that we are so young and do not do things and do not make money, a bit of a waste of time, even if we go to be a security guard, two thousand yuan a month, two people can earn four thousand yuan a month, and there is almost an income of 50,000 yuan a year.
When I got home in the evening, I said to my husband, either you go out and find a job to work, right? The security guard is not tired, although the two of us have enough pensions to spend, but our son is not married yet? It's good to earn some bride price money for your son.
My husband smiled and said that as long as my son brings his girlfriend home, there will be money for the bride price.
Well, the bride price is there, but my son has not bought a house in a big city. I said: If you want to buy a house when you get married, do you have the money to buy a house?
My husband said: Millions of houses in big cities, he will buy them if he has the ability, and he will not buy them if he doesn't have the ability, I will provide him with college graduation is already good, do you want me to earn money to buy a house for him?
I said: What if he finds a girl he likes, and he doesn't get married if he doesn't have a house?
The husband said: If you don't get married, you won't get married, and if you don't have a house, you won't get married, which means that it's not true feelings, so many people who don't have a house still ask for a wife, if you can't do it, come back, come back and have a house.
No matter what I say, my husband just doesn't want to find a job to work. He also said that he was tired all his life, and he wanted to do something he liked when he was old, although the security guard was not tired, he didn't have much freedom, serving other people's bowls and being controlled by others. Besides, that little salary is useless, right?
Finally, if you want to go to work, you go to find a job to work, I don't object, I don't want to go to work anymore.
My son is in his twenties, he has no house and is not married, he is not worried at all, and said that his children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and I think it is good that the two of them can save some money to subsidize their son when they go to work, but he and I are not of the same mind.
I said that if you don't go to work, I won't go to work, and I personally have a bad feeling at work. Who knew that he was even happier, and said, it's better if you don't go to work, I'll take you everywhere to travel, there are many places to play around, and we haven't been there. You can also go to see the great mountains and rivers of the motherland.
I shouted: With your retirement salary, do you have the money to travel?
My husband said unhurriedly: We are poor travelers, we don't spend much money in the surrounding counties, we go in the morning and go back in the evening, and the twenty yuan oil money is solved.
He also said that it is not a problem to travel once or twice a year, and that he does not go out often.
Fight back and forth, regardless of winning or losing, each holding his own opinion.
I think he's too selfish, other people's parents are working hard to make money for their children, he's good, he doesn't make money, he still wants to spend money on travel, friends, you say, isn't my husband very selfish?